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(1736, 1, '2017-03-27 00:00:43', '2017-03-26 22:00:43', '[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\r\n<h1><strong>Your sexual well-being is at your reach: Make it yours!</strong></h1>\r\nThe workshops and conferences aim to heighten sexual well-being of people by exploring diverse dimensions of sexuality. Activities which help individual\'s with body awareness, intimacy and erotism by having enriching discussions as well as diverse activities to stimulate your personal and your couple\'s reflection. Don\'t hesitate to communicate by email or telephone for more information by using the <a href=\"http://lesexologue.agence360.co/contact/\">CONTACT</a> section.\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<h2>Our workshops &amp; videos</h2>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1647\" img_size=\"full\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1489007605499{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Art of flirting &amp; Communicating\r\n<i>January 23rd and 30th from 6:30pm to 9:30pm; 1264 Sherbrooke East, Montreal</i></h2>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n<div>Seduction is an art form that is learned over the course of our entire life span. It changes and evolves as we get older. Seduction takes many forms and can be used for a variety of effects. It can be used to find a partner, but it is also necessary to continue seducing once we are in a relationship. This 6 hour workshop for the general public will teach you how your masculinity and femininity play an important role in how and who we seduce. It will push your reflexion on your own style and help you become more comfortable in the game of seduction. Whether you are single or in a couple, this workshop will allow you to:</div>\r\n<div>\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li><b>Find your style of seduction and evolve with concrete examples</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>Understand the dynamics and steps of seduction</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>Develop new ways of flirting</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>Comprehend its influence on your relationship</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>Bring yourself to feel more comfortable about sexuality</b></li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<div class=\"book\">\r\n<div class=\"desc\">\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<b><i>Subscribe:</i></b>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=KVEKVF6YYCVJY\" target=\"_blank\">Individual: 125$</a>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=CKVSDP4YKMFZ6\" target=\"_blank\">Couple: 225$</a>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=EGH6VZRLZUS7A\" target=\"_blank\">Student: 100$</a>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1648\" img_size=\"large\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1489007578495{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Untouched Potential of Women’s Sexuality\r\n<i>February 6th and 13th from 6:30pm to 9:30pm; 1264 Sherbrooke East, Montreal</i></h2>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n\r\nFemale sexuality has been shrouded in mystery for centuries and even today little is properly understood about it. This has influenced how women perceive themselves and their sex lives as well as how men see them sexually. There has been a change in recent years, where women’s sexuality is more openly discussed about, but there remains many taboos and adjustments to make concerning women’s erotic potential. This 6 hour workshop for the general public is aimed at women and men to come discuss, reflect and understand female sexuality on an intellectual, emotional, psychological and erotic way. A great 2 part conference for couples and individuals who want to:\r\n<ul>\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li><b>Understand how female sexuality influences their sex lives</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>Perceive femininity in a different perspective</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>Learn a variety of ways to express your femininity and erotic potential</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>Be more comfortable as a proud woman</b></li>\r\n</ul>\r\n</ul>\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<b><i>Subscribe:</i></b>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=MXFCYL2JK7AY2\" target=\"_blank\">Individual: 125$</a>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=FJY4ZC2MKQXSQ\" target=\"_blank\">Couple: 225$</a>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=DE2CCZMDWDLBA\" target=\"_blank\">Student: 100$</a>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1649\" img_size=\"large\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1489007542234{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Expanding Men’s Erotism\r\n<i>February 20th and 27th from 6:30pm to 9:30pm; 1264 Sherbrooke East, Montreal</i></h2>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n\r\nMen have been thought a very strict and rigid sexuality where creativity and erotism don’t take much importance. Masculinity is changing for the better, but it’s not an easy transition for most as we have been used to the same model of manhood for so long. Male sexuality is more complex and varied then most want to admit which affects how they are as an amorous and sexual partner. Men are left with unanswered questions about their sexuality and how can or should behave. This 6 hour workshop for the general public is necessary for any man or woman who wants to explore and expand his sexual and erotic repertoire. This 2 part workshop will expand on :\r\n<ul>\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li><b>How male sexuality and relationships are evolving </b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>Your feelings of being a man </b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>The numerous models of masculinity</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>Blend and separate a loving and sexual relationship</b></li>\r\n</ul>\r\n</ul>\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<b><i>Subscribe:</i></b>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=5D8YFQP2U6YGN\" target=\"_blank\">Individual: 125$</a>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=CQYJ7GH5M3U9Y\" target=\"_blank\">Couple: 225$</a>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=V2Z2XPJRKLMKG\" target=\"_blank\">Student: 100$</a>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1650\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1489008918987{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Co-Evolution of Sexual Desire &amp; Intimacy​\r\n<i>March 6th and 13th from 6:30 to 9:30pm; 1264 Sherbrooke East, Montreal</i></h2>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n\r\nSexual desire is the most omnipresent and misunderstood aspect of sexuality. There are numerous myths and misconceptions of how we create, maintain and evolve in a relationship. Intimacy and sexual desire are profoundly intertwined, which complicates our interactions with ourselves and our partner. Unfortunately, our societies understanding of intimacy makes almost inevitable that we lose sexual desire for our beloved. This workshop addresses many concerns couples have about their lack of sexual desire, intimacy and erotism even though they are still in love. This 6 hour workshop will permit anyone who attends to properly understand their dynamics with intimacy, sexual desire and their untouched potential to make their sex life more enjoyable. Come join us to:\r\n<ul>\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li><b>Understand your relationship to yourself and sex</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>How it influences your sexual desire</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>How intimacy works and how confronting your perception of relationships can enhance your sex life</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>The evolution of sexual desire and how to over come its many obstacles</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>How to expand your capacity to mature as a person, a partner and a couple</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>Have a fulfilling, enjoyable and joyful sexuality</b></li>\r\n</ul>\r\n</ul>\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<b><i>Subscribe:</i></b>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=PKPGVSRUBCUZG\" target=\"_blank\">Individual: 125$</a>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=YFPR84FADR49E\" target=\"_blank\">Couple: 225$</a>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=8242TRA8AQHZA\" target=\"_blank\">Student: 100$</a>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1651\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1489008938648{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Sexual Pleasure Over Sexual Performance\r\n<i>March 20th and 27th from 6:30 to 9:30pm; 1264 Sherbrooke East, Montreal</i></h2>\r\nSex is like a sport; it can be learned by experiencing and practicing it. Unlike most sport activities though, performance and winning aren’t the objective. The main goal of having sex for most people is having pleasure. We each have our dynamic with giving and receiving during sex and it impacts our style and attitude towards ourselves and our partner. This 6 hour workshop, for couples and singles, will help you explore your relationship with pleasure as well as different ways of giving and receiving it. This 2 part workshop aims to:\r\n<ul>\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li><b>Promote sexual pleasure rather than sexual performance in your sex life</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>Understand your relationship with pleasure</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>Learn how the body can limit or heighten your pleasure</b></li>\r\n 	<li><b>Experience and comprehend how giving and receiving are one and the same </b></li>\r\n</ul>\r\n</ul>\r\n<b><i>Subscribe:</i></b>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=RPWNEAYEVF2XN\" target=\"_blank\">Individual: 125$</a>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=6L2CF3AXERVT8\" target=\"_blank\">Couple: 225$</a>\r\n\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=5H5XUUMSGHFES\" target=\"_blank\">Student: 100$</a>[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'Our conferences', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1645-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-03-27 00:00:43', '2017-03-26 22:00:43', '', 1645, 'http://lesexologue.agence360.co/blog/2017/03/27/1645-revision-v1/', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
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(1740, 1, '2017-02-28 22:57:54', '2017-02-28 21:57:54', '[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\r\n<h1 class=\"page-title\">Create and teach sexual education programs</h1>\r\n<strong>Sexual education</strong> programs allow to promote a healthy sexuality for teens and adults by integrating a variety of subjects about human sexuality. The format, duration and activities may vary depending on the clientele and the chosen topic. They can consist of discussions, debates, role playing games and other diversified activities to facilitate the understanding of the new knowledge provided.\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li><strong>The fees for the workshops and conferences are 100$/hour (taxes excluded)</strong></li>\r\n</ul>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"6/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h1>Suggested Themes</h1>\r\n<ul class=\"list\">\r\n 	<li>Seduction</li>\r\n 	<li>Erotic abilities</li>\r\n 	<li>Sexual desire and love</li>\r\n 	<li>Sexual education on different sexual orientations</li>\r\n 	<li>Touching and being touched for health care professionals</li>\r\n 	<li>Professional ethics and sexuality</li>\r\n 	<li>Other topics are possible</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"6/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1617\" css=\".vc_custom_1488321752529{padding-top: 45px !important;}\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\r\n<h1><strong>For whom ?</strong></h1>\r\nI work with teenagers, adults, seniors, and people with mental health disorders. I offer workshops and conferences for the general public to promote a sexual well-being. I also give professional workshops and conferences for health care professionals such as doctors, nurses, social workers, criminologists, massage-therapists, osteopaths, chiropractors, psychologists, psychiatrists, etc. who want to specialize on various topics related to sexuality.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'Sexual education workshops', '', 'publish', 'closed', 'closed', '', 'sexual-education', '', '', '2017-06-09 20:55:25', '2017-06-09 18:55:25', '', 0, 'http://lesexologue.agence360.co/formation/', 0, 'page', '', 0),
(1809, 1, '2017-05-15 07:43:11', '2017-05-15 05:43:11', '[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\r\n<h1 class=\"page-title\">Create and teach sexual education programs, professional workshops and conferences</h1>\r\nSexual education programs allow to promote sexology with the intent of educating on various aspects of sexuality. The format, duration and activities may vary depending on the clientele and the chosen topic. They can consist of discussions, debates, role playing games and other diversified activities to facilitate the understanding of the new knowledge provided.\r\n<em>(The fees for the workshops and conferences are 100$/hour.)</em>[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"6/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h1>Suggested Themes</h1>\r\n<ul class=\"list\">\r\n 	<li>Seduction</li>\r\n 	<li>Erotic abilities</li>\r\n 	<li>Sexual desire and love</li>\r\n 	<li>Sexual education on different sexual orientations</li>\r\n 	<li>Touching and being touched for health care professionals</li>\r\n 	<li>Professional ethics and sexuality</li>\r\n 	<li>Other topics are possible</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"6/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1617\" css=\".vc_custom_1488321752529{padding-top: 45px !important;}\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\r\n<h1><strong>For whom ?</strong></h1>\r\nI work with teenagers, adults, seniors, and people with mental health disorders. I offer workshops and conferences for the general public to promote a sexual well-being. I also give professional workshops and conferences for health care professionals such as doctors, nurses, social workers, criminologists, massage-therapists, osteopaths, chiropractors, psychologists, psychiatrists, etc. who want to specialize on various topics related to sexuality.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'Services description', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1740-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-05-15 07:43:11', '2017-05-15 05:43:11', '', 1740, 'http://lesexologue.ca/blog/2017/05/15/1740-revision-v1/', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
(2232, 2, '2017-06-09 20:54:07', '2017-06-09 18:54:07', '[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<h1 class=\"page-title\">Create and teach sexual education programs</h1>\n<strong>Sexual education</strong> programs allow to promote a healthy sexuality for teens and adults by integrating a variety of subjects about human sexuality. The format, duration and activities may vary depending on the clientele and the chosen topic. They can consist of discussions, debates, role playing games and other diversified activities to facilitate the understanding of the new knowledge provided.\n\n<hr />\n\n<ul>\n 	<li><em>The fees for the workshops and conferences are 100$/hour (taxes excluded)</em></li>\n</ul>\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"6/12\"][vc_column_text]\n<h1>Suggested Themes</h1>\n<ul class=\"list\">\n 	<li>Seduction</li>\n 	<li>Erotic abilities</li>\n 	<li>Sexual desire and love</li>\n 	<li>Sexual education on different sexual orientations</li>\n 	<li>Touching and being touched for health care professionals</li>\n 	<li>Professional ethics and sexuality</li>\n 	<li>Other topics are possible</li>\n</ul>\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"6/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1617\" css=\".vc_custom_1488321752529{padding-top: 45px !important;}\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<h1><strong>For whom ?</strong></h1>\nI work with teenagers, adults, seniors, and people with mental health disorders. I offer workshops and conferences for the general public to promote a sexual well-being. I also give professional workshops and conferences for health care professionals such as doctors, nurses, social workers, criminologists, massage-therapists, osteopaths, chiropractors, psychologists, psychiatrists, etc. who want to specialize on various topics related to sexuality.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'Sexual education workshops', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1740-autosave-v1', '', '', '2017-06-09 20:54:07', '2017-06-09 18:54:07', '', 1740, 'http://sexcoupletherapy.com/blog/2017/06/09/1740-autosave-v1/', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
(1742, 1, '2017-03-27 00:07:54', '2017-03-26 22:07:54', '[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\r\n<h1 class=\"page-title\"><strong>Conception et animation de programmes d\'intervention, de formations professionnelles et de conférences par un sexologue</strong></h1>\r\nLes programmes d\'intervention permettent de diffuser les connaissances en sexologie dans le but d\'éduquer sur les divers aspects de la sexualité. Le format, la durée et les activités peuvent varier selon la clientèle et la thématique choisie. Elles peuvent être, en autres, constituées de discussions, de débats, d\'exposés formels ou informels, de jeux de rôles et d\'activités diversifiées pour améliorer l\'intégration de nouvelles connaissances.\r\n<i class=\"tarif\">(Les tarifs pour les ateliers et les conférences sont de 100$/heure)</i>[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"6/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h1>Suggested Themes</h1>\r\n<ul class=\"list\">\r\n 	<li>Séduction</li>\r\n 	<li>Habiletés érotiques</li>\r\n 	<li>Sentiment amoureux et désir sexuel</li>\r\n 	<li>Éducation sexuelle sur les diverses orientations sexuelles</li>\r\n 	<li>Toucher et être touché selon les diverses professions de la santé</li>\r\n 	<li>Éthique professionnelle et la sexualité</li>\r\n 	<li>Autres thématiques possibles selon mes compétences.</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"6/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1617\" css=\".vc_custom_1488321752529{padding-top: 45px !important;}\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\r\n<h1><strong>Is it for you ?</strong></h1>\r\nDes ateliers sont conçus et dédiés au grand public. Entre autres auprès des adolescent(e)s, des adultes, des aînés et des personnes ayant des troubles de santé mentale. J\'offre également un service de formations et de conférences sur diverses thématiques liées à la sexualité auprès de professionnel(le)s de la santé qui aimeraient se spécialiser. Par exemple, médecins, psychologues, psychiatres​​, infirmièr(e)s, travailleur(se)s social(e)s, criminologues, massothérapeutes, ostéopathes, chiropraticien(ne)s, etc.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'Services description', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1740-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-03-27 00:07:54', '2017-03-26 22:07:54', '', 1740, 'http://lesexologue.agence360.co/blog/2017/03/27/1740-revision-v1/', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
(1743, 1, '2017-03-27 00:08:28', '2017-03-26 22:08:28', '', 'Sexual education', '', 'publish', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1743', '', '', '2020-10-18 05:52:47', '2020-10-18 03:52:47', '', 0, 'http://lesexologue.agence360.co/?p=1743', 12, 'nav_menu_item', '', 0),
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(1765, 1, '2017-04-14 21:22:00', '2017-04-14 19:22:00', '[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Supervision individuelle et de groupe</b></span></h2>\r\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">Supervision pour les sexologues ou autres professionnels (thérapeute de couple, psychothérapeute, travailleur social, etc.) voulant approfondir leurs connaissances et habiletés thérapeutiques.</span></p>\r\n\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_single_image image=\"1459\" img_size=\"full\" alignment=\"center\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2 class=\"p1\"></h2>\r\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Approches théoriques préconisées</b></span></h3>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>• </b>Existentielle-humaniste </span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">• Systémique-interactionnelle (Sexual Crucible de David Schnarch) </span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">• Sexocorporelle</span></p>\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Thèmes pouvant être abordés en supervision</b></span></h3>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>• </b>Mieux saisir l’étiologie des difficultés sexuelles et leur traitement </span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">• Explorer des difficultés rencontrées dans votre pratique </span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">• Établir et solidifier votre style et approche thérapeutique </span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">• Améliorer l\'utilisation de certains outils thérapeutiques et concepts (sadisme marital normal, Position PPD &amp; 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(2020, 2, '2017-05-29 21:45:48', '2017-05-29 19:45:48', '[vc_row inner_container=\"true\"][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1481\" img_size=\"medium\" visibility=\"all\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Answers to sex questions by a sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist</h2>\r\n[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]This section answers real questions that are commonly asked to <a href=\"/?page_id=167\"><strong>sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist</strong></a>. My expertise may guide you to help concerning certain sexual difficulties by reading the answers.\r\n\r\nIt is important to know that this does not replace therapy by a professional and they cannot be considered as a diagnostic. The answers may not fit every similar situation as I will be taking elements directly from the question. It is very probable that the answers may help you in your situation. This section is to help you reflect on your difficulty and to give professional information and help you find a solution.[/vc_column_text][gap size=\"30\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row padding_top=\"80\" padding_bottom=\"80\" bg_color=\"#f4f4f4\"][vc_column][vc_tta_accordion style=\"flat\" shape=\"square\" color=\"sandy-brown\" spacing=\"4\" active_section=\"1\" css=\".vc_custom_1488323215846{margin-left: 50px !important;border-right-width: 50px !important;padding-right: 100px !important;padding-left: 100px !important;border-right-color: #e58c59 !important;}\" no_fill=\"true\"][vc_tta_section title=\"Lack of sexual desire for a woman\" tab_id=\"1487964475587-e615d9cb-49d2\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<b><strong>Hello</strong></b><b><strong>,</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b><b><strong> am</strong></b><b><strong> married since 2005 and I’m</strong></b> <b><strong>35</strong></b><b><strong> years </strong></b><b><strong>and</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>2</strong></b> <b><strong>children</strong></b><b><strong>.</strong></b><b><strong> My problem is that I hate to make love with my husband. I love him a lot. I have chosen him as a husband and he does everything to please to me, but I do not know what is happening to me. Since the first day of our marriage, it has been the same thing. Each time it feels like rape to me.</strong></b>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<em>There are several reasons that could explain a lack of sexual desire or a dislike towards sexuality with a partner. Moreover, several people continue to have sexual relationships with their partner when there isn’t any interest to do it, and this is the case for men as for women. Sometimes, they do it out of marital obligation, to silence their persistent partner in their requests or to avoid a conflict. What are the factorswhich lead you to continue to have sexual activities when you do not feel the desire for them?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> can </em><em>be</em><em> very difficult to discuss </em><em>with</em><em> our partner our </em><em>disinterest</em><em> towards our couple’s </em><em>sex life</em><em>.</em><em> We can be afraid to disappoint them, hurt their feelings, create a conflict, undergo marital violence, etc. In any of these cases, it is important to respect ourselves. With this in mind, one can try to put their limits by refusing sex with their partner when they do not have the desire for it. How could you say this to your partner? How do you imagine the situation unfolding? Certain partners will strongly react to this refusal. They can become hot-tempered, sad, anxious, demoralized, angry, etc. How do you envision managing his reaction and the situation? What are the reasons which would prevent you from discussing it with him?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Avoiding</em><em> the </em><em>discussion can</em> <em>decrease</em><em> the </em><em>interest</em> <em>towards</em> <em>sexuality</em> <em>and</em> <em>consequently</em><em> brings </em><em>a</em> <em>person</em> <em>to hate</em><em>love-making</em> <em>with</em><em> their </em><em>partner</em><em>.</em><em> We can even develop unpleasant emotions towards our partner who agrees to have sex that we do not wish to have. Which emotions do you have towards your partner concerning thissituation? Certain people feel shame, disgust, anger, unhappiness, contempt, etc.</em>\r\n\r\n<em> Another</em> <em>aspect</em><em> which needs to be explored </em><em>is</em><em> the possible loss of respect </em><em>towards</em><em> the </em><em>partner</em><em> and ourselves </em><em>in</em><em> the process</em><em>.</em><em> When we agree to have sex that we do not wish to have, it becomes difficult to respect ourselves and our partner, which consequently, decreases our sexual desire towards them or sex altogether.How do you perceive your partner during a sex? What do you think of during sex? Do you believe that yourpartner feels your disinterest when you are physically intimate with him? What does that mean about you andyour relationship with your husband?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Our couple’s sexual dynamic is essential to evaluate when one partner feels a lack of sexual desire. More precisely, what do you hate about your sex life with your partner? What changes would you bring to your sex life? First of all, it is important to know our preferences when it comes to sex so we can then discuss it withour partner. Sometimes, couples have diverging ideas on certain sexual positions, practices or styles. Whatare your sexual preferences and those of your partner?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Do</em><em> you </em><em>believe</em><em> yourself to able to have </em><em>a</em><em> discussion </em><em>on</em><em> your </em><em>sexual</em> <em>practices</em> <em>with</em> <em>your</em><em> partner</em><em>?</em><em> This kind of conversation can create tensions in the couple and generate a conflict. It is more reassuring to perceive this conflict as a way to improve our relationship and our sex life then a fight with your partner. These conflicts are never easy to manage and often require the assistance of a professional, like a sex therapist or a couple’stherapist.</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> is also important to reflect on our own relationship with sexuality</em><em>.</em><em> The perception of sexuality is different for everyone. It is therefore preferable to question our perceptions about sex and relationship with sexuality in general. Do you feel sexual desire for other people? Do you like sexuality outside of your couple (masturbation, sexual fantasies, etc.)? What is your perception of sexuality? Did you ever have similar difficulties with other sexual partners? If you have a bad perception of sex or a difficult relationship with sexuality, it would be beneficial to consult a sex therapist individually in order to better understand thesefeeling.</em>[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Lower sexual desire for a man\" tab_id=\"1487964476053-b704912a-3f78\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello</strong></b> <b><strong>to</strong></b><b><strong> you</strong></b><b><strong>!</strong></b><b><strong> I have a big question! Is it possible that a 22 year old man doesn’t have any moredesire to have sex or is it simply a sign that our couple has problems? It’s now been 4 years that weare together, I am pregnant with my 3rd baby and the problem exists for the past 3 years. But now, it’s getting worse. For 2 months, we haven’t had any sexual contact!  We hardly kiss, touch, or hug each other. Do I need to leave this relationship?</strong></b>\r\n\r\n<em>There</em> <em>exist</em> <em>various</em> <em>reasons</em> <em>explaining</em> <em>a</em> <em>lack</em> <em>of</em> <em>sexual desire</em> <em>for</em> <em>one</em> <em>or</em> <em>both</em> <em>partners in a relationship</em><em>.</em><em> The dynamics of the couple and the satisfaction in the relationship can largely influence the sexual desire of a person towards their partner. It is also important to question about sexual satisfaction. What are your levelsof satisfaction in the couple and of your sex life for each one of you? Do you take the time to discuss your couple and sexual dissatisfactions? If so, how did you try to fix it?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> should be understood that in </em><em>each</em><em> couple</em><em>,</em><em> there is always a <u>Low Desire Partner</u> (LDP) and a <u>High Desire Partner</u> (HDP)</em><em>.</em><em> Contrary to popular beliefs, we find as many men as women being a LDP. The behaviours, attitudes and reactions of the HDP play a very important part on the sexual desire of their partner. Each one of these roles in the couple (HDP &amp; LDP) comes with its load of difficulties. The HDP often feels inadequatesexually and has the feeling of being unable to meet the sexual needs of their partner’s. They can also feelguilt, incomprehension, shame, anger, sadness for wanting more sex than their partner, etc. The LDP can feelpowerless, frustrated, harassed, and their personal self-esteem can become affected about not being a good partner. How do you manage/tolerate this difference between both of two?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>You</em> <em>mentioned</em> <em>that you were a mother</em> <em>of</em> <em>two</em> <em>children</em> <em>and</em> <em>a</em> <em>third</em><em> one </em><em>will soon</em><em> be part of the family. </em><em>There</em><em>is</em><em> a </em><em>certain</em> <em>adjustment</em> <em>which</em> <em>must</em> <em>occur</em> <em>for</em> <em>new parents</em> <em>who</em> <em>add</em><em> an extra </em><em>role</em> <em>of</em> <em>mother</em> <em>and</em> <em>father</em> <em>in</em> <em>their</em><em>couple</em><em>.</em><em> Sometimes, the role of being a man and a woman takes up less space or even disappears and are replaced by a mother and father </em><em>figure</em><em>.</em><em> Certain men have difficulty eroticizing the new image of motherwhom their partner now incarnates. As for women, their bodies change due to the pregnancy and it often has an impact on their perception of themselves which affects their femininity. Which impacts do you believe thatyour new roles of mother and father have had on your sex life?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Moreover</em><em>,</em><em> flirting </em><em>is frequently forgotten or put aside</em><em> in a couple </em><em>after</em><em> several </em><em>years</em> <em>of</em> <em>dating</em><em>.</em><em> We often take our partner for granted and limit our implication in seducing them. The High Desire Partner (HDP) will start to evaluate the level of sexual desire of their spouse rather than create it. Do you take the time to seduce yourselves in your couple? How do you do it? What happens if you don’t succeed?  Do you spend time as a couple, without the children?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>The</em> <em>lack</em> <em>of</em> <em>the</em> <em>sexual desire in one partner</em><em> is </em><em>a</em> <em>frequent</em> <em>step in a couple’s life</em> <em>and</em><em> is </em><em>even</em> <em>normal</em> <em>in</em><em> a </em><em>long term relationship</em><em>.</em><em> It is actually an opportunity to awaken and transform our sex life in the couple. On the other hand, it often requires leaving our comfort zone, to reveal ourselves on deeper levels and develop our eroticism. The assistance of a sex therapist often proves necessary due to the complexity of this difficulty.</em>[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"The importance of penis size\" tab_id=\"1487965861105-46994a77-8a48\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello sir, I would like to know what is the ideal size for a penis. For example: 15cm 18cm?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nThe size of the penis is an aspect which worries many men for various reasons. Several cultures andcivilizations put much emphasis on the size of male genitalia. For the man, it does not change anything when it comes to his sexual pleasure and the sexual arousal which he will be able to feel in his sexuality. For certainmen, the size of their penis will enable them to have more confidence in themselves and have theperception of being a better lover. Men who think they have a smaller penis then others often have a low sexual self-esteem which will negatively affect their appreciation of their sex life.\r\n\r\nThe size of the penis varies much from one man to another in his flask state (without an erection). On the other hand, the majority of penises in erection range from 5 to 6 inches on average according to international studies. One can speak of a micro penis when its length is below 4 inches when erect. However, studies also show that the majority of women are not worried about penis size. Certain women do attach some significance due to former sexual experience. In fact, some prefer a larger penis because of the feeling it provides during penetration or are sexually aroused when they see it or touch it. Others will prefer smaller ones because a larger penis can limit certain positions or can hurt. It all depends on personal preferences ofeach woman or man. Although the size of the penis has an importance for certain women, the great majorityput more emphasis on other factors to evaluate their sexual satisfaction with their partner. For example,tenderness, confidence, variety, manliness, intimacy, sexual intensity, etc.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is a complete sexual relationship\" tab_id=\"1487965863742-9699ccd9-badb\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello</strong></b><b><strong>,</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>a</strong></b> <b><strong>small</strong></b> <b><strong>question</strong></b><b><strong>. Do</strong></b><b><strong> most people prefer sex with penetration or is doing the 69 position (mutual oral sex) enough for them? Is the 69 position seen more as a preliminary or can it also be considered as having sex? Can 69 be considered a complete and satisfactory sexual act in a couple? I started a new relationship recently and my new boyfriend thinks that all women can be amply satisfied by doing the 69 position, according to his last relationships. That is why I ask my question.</strong></b>\r\n\r\nIn fact, sexual behaviours are varied and numerous in couples, whereas the popular belief is that sex is notcomplete without penetration and an orgasm (normally the men’s). With this restrictive way of thinking, oralsex will be regarded only as being part of sexual preliminaries. If this definition is used, it is thus consideredthat homosexuals and lesbians, the paraplegic or any person not using penetration in their sexual repertoiredo not have complete sexual relationships. What do you think about it? What is your definition of a sexual relationship?\r\n\r\nCertain people will define a sexual relationship as reaching orgasm. Others, by the level of satisfaction they obtain or the quality of the emotional exchange. Each definition is valid in itself, because everyone has theirown sexual preferences. The practice of oral sex can fully satisfy certain people, whereas others want the feelings that you can only get during penetration. Our definition of a “complete” sexual relationship can alsochange every time we have sex: a couple can be entirely satisfied with a manual stimulation (masturbate their partner’s) one evening, but want to practice penetration the next time they have sex. It is thus difficultto affirm that everyone can be satisfied by only one type of sexual behaviour. It is then important to varythese sexual practices on occasion in order to move away from a routine which tends to decrease the sexual desire of most couples <a href=\"http://http//sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">(read: </a><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">Lack of Sexual Desire is  Good for Your Couple</a><a href=\"http://http//sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">).</a>\r\n\r\nSometimes, partners do not agree on their definition of a “complete” sexual relationship. This leaves one of them dissatisfied; their needs are not being fulfilled during their sexual activities. In such a situation, a discussion between the partners is necessary so that each one finds their satisfaction. It is important to remain open to what the other can bring to us and to clearly explain what we are looking for in our sexuality<a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\">(read: </a><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\">Couple’s Communication Issues or Unable to Tolerate Intimacy?)</a>.\r\n\r\nAll in all, the more our perception of sexuality is widened, the more one has the potential to open up sexually.To limit our definition of a “complete” sexual relationship brings frustration, disappointment and dissatisfaction with our partner. We must sometimes leave our comfort zone, explore new avenues and redefine our perceptions of sexuality in order to develop our sexual maturity.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Masturbation and Virginity\" tab_id=\"1487965865928-cdbffe8f-1dd4\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>a</strong></b> <b><strong>problem</strong></b> <b><strong>which</strong></b> <b><strong>makes</strong></b> <b><strong>me</strong></b> <b><strong>live</strong></b> <b><strong>unhappiness,</strong></b> <b><strong>please</strong></b> <b><strong>help</strong></b> <b><strong>me</strong></b><b><strong>.</strong></b><b><strong> Does masturbation have a negative impact on my health? I am an 18 year old girl and I am so afraid that masturbation canmake me sterile because I heard that it causes several bad effects on health. Also masturbation has an influence on virginity! Please help me I am so frightened!</strong></b>\r\n\r\nMasturbation is a sexual activity which can be practiced individually or as a couple. It allows us to explore our body and the sexual sensations which it can provide. This practice also makes it possible to discover oursexual preferences, to explore various ways of arousing ourselves sexually and to increase our sexual pleasure. It also has advantages on our physical health; for example, it relaxes us, reduces our musculartensions and relieves stress. What are your reasons for masturbating?\r\n\r\nThere is no negative impact on the physical level when one masturbates and it does not affect fertility at all.In fact, it is even good to masturbate before, during and after pregnancy. Several myths on masturbation circulate to discourage people not to practice it, often for moral or religious reasons. Moreover, as mentioned above, masturbation also has various advantages on the psychological level. Does that reassure you?\r\n\r\nThe definition of virginity is not only cultural, but also differs from one person to another. For certain people,it will be associated with the presence of the hymen (thin membrane at the entrance of the vagina). For others, it will not be the case since the hymen can tear before the first penetration with a partner. For example, by using a tampon, practicing sports such as cycling or riding a horse, as well as masturbation, if penetration is used (fingers or objects). In addition, losing one’s virginity can be defined for certain people as the experience of a first sexual relationship. How do you perceive virginity? What importance do you grant it?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How to treat homosexuality?\" tab_id=\"1487965867788-930a9dd8-1d62\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Is it possible to leave homosexuality and to go back to heterosexuality? I was involved in homosexual relationships and I want to change. How can you help me? Is it possible to help me because you know routine blunts sensitivity or is man a creature of habit. How can you help me to be attracted by the opposite sex again? Is there a remedy?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nThere exists a variety of hypotheses explaining the origins of homosexuality, such as the level of hormones, development of the brain, sexual experiences, or a person’s upbringing. Some explanations are biological or social and a mixture of these two approaches exists as well. Several treatments and therapies have  already been tested in the past and they have proven to be dangerous and did not really help. It is thus not possible to treat or change someone’s sexual orientation, because it is not a disease or a mental health problem. How do you feel about this fact? What could help you to accept it better?\r\n\r\nSince our sexual orientation can’t be chosen, it can be difficult to accept it. This form of homophobia is generally influenced by personal values, cultural and family upbringing, as well as religion. On top of that, there are several myths on homosexuality, which persist in reinforcing homophobia. What are your reasons to prefer being heterosexual? How do you perceive each sexual orientation? What attracts you more towards heterosexuality rather than homosexuality? A therapy with a sex therapist can be necessary to overcome these difficulties and to better accept our homosexuality.\r\n\r\nThe process of acceptance is generally done in steps. There are some variations from one individual to another since each one will have a different personality, history and socio-cultural context. These steps include confusion, tolerance towards our sexual orientation, acceptance and finally their is pride in our sexual orientation. Where do you situate yourself in this process at the moment? Do you feel the need to be guided through this?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is Female Ejaculation?\" tab_id=\"1487965869509-b4cdf3d2-30ca\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello, how are you? I have a question, I was wondering what exactly is female ejaculation made of?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nFor many years now, there has been debates in the scientific community about the composition of female ejaculate. The latest research demonstrated that the liquid comes from the Skene glands, which are the equivalent of the prostate for men and that they can be found between the urethra and the vagina. On top of that, female ejaculate would also have the same composition as the liquid that is produced by the prostate in sperm. Although, since the exit point of female ejaculation is so near the urethra, it’s possible to find very small amounts of urine. It’s important to stress that urine is a sterile liquid and that female ejaculate can only have very insignificant traces of it.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][/vc_tta_accordion][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'FAQ', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1673-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-05-29 21:45:48', '2017-05-29 19:45:48', '', 1673, 'http://sexcoupletherapy.com/blog/2017/05/29/1673-revision-v1/', 0, 'revision', '', 0);
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(1976, 2, '2017-05-25 19:55:32', '2017-05-25 17:55:32', '[vc_row inner_container=\"true\"][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1481\" img_size=\"medium\" visibility=\"all\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Answers to sex questions by a sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist</h2>\r\n[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]This section answers real questions that are commonly asked to <a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.com/contact/\"><strong>sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist</strong></a>. My expertise may guide you to help concerning certain sexual difficulties by reading the answers.\r\n\r\nIt is important to know that this does not replace therapy by a professional and they cannot be considered as a diagnostic. The answers may not fit every similar situation as I will be taking elements directly from the question. It is very probable that the answers may help you in your situation. This section is to help you reflect on your difficulty and to give professional information and help you find a solution.[/vc_column_text][gap size=\"30\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row padding_top=\"80\" padding_bottom=\"80\" bg_color=\"#f4f4f4\"][vc_column][vc_tta_accordion style=\"flat\" shape=\"square\" color=\"sandy-brown\" spacing=\"4\" active_section=\"1\" css=\".vc_custom_1488323215846{margin-left: 50px !important;border-right-width: 50px !important;padding-right: 100px !important;padding-left: 100px !important;border-right-color: #e58c59 !important;}\" no_fill=\"true\"][vc_tta_section title=\"Lack of sexual desire for a woman\" tab_id=\"1487964475587-e615d9cb-49d2\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<b><strong>Hello</strong></b><b><strong>,</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b><b><strong> am</strong></b><b><strong> married since 2005 and I’m</strong></b> <b><strong>35</strong></b><b><strong> years </strong></b><b><strong>and</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>2</strong></b> <b><strong>children</strong></b><b><strong>.</strong></b><b><strong> My problem is that I hate to make love with my husband. I love him a lot. I have chosen him as a husband and he does everything to please to me, but I do not know what is happening to me. Since the first day of our marriage, it has been the same thing. Each time it feels like rape to me.</strong></b>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<em>There are several reasons that could explain a lack of sexual desire or a dislike towards sexuality with a partner. Moreover, several people continue to have sexual relationships with their partner when there isn’t any interest to do it, and this is the case for men as for women. Sometimes, they do it out of marital obligation, to silence their persistent partner in their requests or to avoid a conflict. What are the factorswhich lead you to continue to have sexual activities when you do not feel the desire for them?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> can </em><em>be</em><em> very difficult to discuss </em><em>with</em><em> our partner our </em><em>disinterest</em><em> towards our couple’s </em><em>sex life</em><em>.</em><em> We can be afraid to disappoint them, hurt their feelings, create a conflict, undergo marital violence, etc. In any of these cases, it is important to respect ourselves. With this in mind, one can try to put their limits by refusing sex with their partner when they do not have the desire for it. How could you say this to your partner? How do you imagine the situation unfolding? Certain partners will strongly react to this refusal. They can become hot-tempered, sad, anxious, demoralized, angry, etc. How do you envision managing his reaction and the situation? What are the reasons which would prevent you from discussing it with him?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Avoiding</em><em> the </em><em>discussion can</em> <em>decrease</em><em> the </em><em>interest</em> <em>towards</em> <em>sexuality</em> <em>and</em> <em>consequently</em><em> brings </em><em>a</em> <em>person</em> <em>to hate</em><em>love-making</em> <em>with</em><em> their </em><em>partner</em><em>.</em><em> We can even develop unpleasant emotions towards our partner who agrees to have sex that we do not wish to have. Which emotions do you have towards your partner concerning thissituation? Certain people feel shame, disgust, anger, unhappiness, contempt, etc.</em>\r\n\r\n<em> Another</em> <em>aspect</em><em> which needs to be explored </em><em>is</em><em> the possible loss of respect </em><em>towards</em><em> the </em><em>partner</em><em> and ourselves </em><em>in</em><em> the process</em><em>.</em><em> When we agree to have sex that we do not wish to have, it becomes difficult to respect ourselves and our partner, which consequently, decreases our sexual desire towards them or sex altogether.How do you perceive your partner during a sex? What do you think of during sex? Do you believe that yourpartner feels your disinterest when you are physically intimate with him? What does that mean about you andyour relationship with your husband?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Our couple’s sexual dynamic is essential to evaluate when one partner feels a lack of sexual desire. More precisely, what do you hate about your sex life with your partner? What changes would you bring to your sex life? First of all, it is important to know our preferences when it comes to sex so we can then discuss it withour partner. Sometimes, couples have diverging ideas on certain sexual positions, practices or styles. Whatare your sexual preferences and those of your partner?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Do</em><em> you </em><em>believe</em><em> yourself to able to have </em><em>a</em><em> discussion </em><em>on</em><em> your </em><em>sexual</em> <em>practices</em> <em>with</em> <em>your</em><em> partner</em><em>?</em><em> This kind of conversation can create tensions in the couple and generate a conflict. It is more reassuring to perceive this conflict as a way to improve our relationship and our sex life then a fight with your partner. These conflicts are never easy to manage and often require the assistance of a professional, like a sex therapist or a couple’stherapist.</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> is also important to reflect on our own relationship with sexuality</em><em>.</em><em> The perception of sexuality is different for everyone. It is therefore preferable to question our perceptions about sex and relationship with sexuality in general. Do you feel sexual desire for other people? Do you like sexuality outside of your couple (masturbation, sexual fantasies, etc.)? What is your perception of sexuality? Did you ever have similar difficulties with other sexual partners? If you have a bad perception of sex or a difficult relationship with sexuality, it would be beneficial to consult a sex therapist individually in order to better understand thesefeeling.</em>[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Lower sexual desire for a man\" tab_id=\"1487964476053-b704912a-3f78\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello</strong></b> <b><strong>to</strong></b><b><strong> you</strong></b><b><strong>!</strong></b><b><strong> I have a big question! Is it possible that a 22 year old man doesn’t have any moredesire to have sex or is it simply a sign that our couple has problems? It’s now been 4 years that weare together, I am pregnant with my 3rd baby and the problem exists for the past 3 years. But now, it’s getting worse. For 2 months, we haven’t had any sexual contact!  We hardly kiss, touch, or hug each other. Do I need to leave this relationship?</strong></b>\r\n\r\n<em>There</em> <em>exist</em> <em>various</em> <em>reasons</em> <em>explaining</em> <em>a</em> <em>lack</em> <em>of</em> <em>sexual desire</em> <em>for</em> <em>one</em> <em>or</em> <em>both</em> <em>partners in a relationship</em><em>.</em><em> The dynamics of the couple and the satisfaction in the relationship can largely influence the sexual desire of a person towards their partner. It is also important to question about sexual satisfaction. What are your levelsof satisfaction in the couple and of your sex life for each one of you? Do you take the time to discuss your couple and sexual dissatisfactions? If so, how did you try to fix it?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> should be understood that in </em><em>each</em><em> couple</em><em>,</em><em> there is always a <u>Low Desire Partner</u> (LDP) and a <u>High Desire Partner</u> (HDP)</em><em>.</em><em> Contrary to popular beliefs, we find as many men as women being a LDP. The behaviours, attitudes and reactions of the HDP play a very important part on the sexual desire of their partner. Each one of these roles in the couple (HDP &amp; LDP) comes with its load of difficulties. The HDP often feels inadequatesexually and has the feeling of being unable to meet the sexual needs of their partner’s. They can also feelguilt, incomprehension, shame, anger, sadness for wanting more sex than their partner, etc. The LDP can feelpowerless, frustrated, harassed, and their personal self-esteem can become affected about not being a good partner. How do you manage/tolerate this difference between both of two?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>You</em> <em>mentioned</em> <em>that you were a mother</em> <em>of</em> <em>two</em> <em>children</em> <em>and</em> <em>a</em> <em>third</em><em> one </em><em>will soon</em><em> be part of the family. </em><em>There</em><em>is</em><em> a </em><em>certain</em> <em>adjustment</em> <em>which</em> <em>must</em> <em>occur</em> <em>for</em> <em>new parents</em> <em>who</em> <em>add</em><em> an extra </em><em>role</em> <em>of</em> <em>mother</em> <em>and</em> <em>father</em> <em>in</em> <em>their</em><em>couple</em><em>.</em><em> Sometimes, the role of being a man and a woman takes up less space or even disappears and are replaced by a mother and father </em><em>figure</em><em>.</em><em> Certain men have difficulty eroticizing the new image of motherwhom their partner now incarnates. As for women, their bodies change due to the pregnancy and it often has an impact on their perception of themselves which affects their femininity. Which impacts do you believe thatyour new roles of mother and father have had on your sex life?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Moreover</em><em>,</em><em> flirting </em><em>is frequently forgotten or put aside</em><em> in a couple </em><em>after</em><em> several </em><em>years</em> <em>of</em> <em>dating</em><em>.</em><em> We often take our partner for granted and limit our implication in seducing them. The High Desire Partner (HDP) will start to evaluate the level of sexual desire of their spouse rather than create it. Do you take the time to seduce yourselves in your couple? How do you do it? What happens if you don’t succeed?  Do you spend time as a couple, without the children?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>The</em> <em>lack</em> <em>of</em> <em>the</em> <em>sexual desire in one partner</em><em> is </em><em>a</em> <em>frequent</em> <em>step in a couple’s life</em> <em>and</em><em> is </em><em>even</em> <em>normal</em> <em>in</em><em> a </em><em>long term relationship</em><em>.</em><em> It is actually an opportunity to awaken and transform our sex life in the couple. On the other hand, it often requires leaving our comfort zone, to reveal ourselves on deeper levels and develop our eroticism. The assistance of a sex therapist often proves necessary due to the complexity of this difficulty.</em>[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"The importance of penis size\" tab_id=\"1487965861105-46994a77-8a48\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello sir, I would like to know what is the ideal size for a penis. For example: 15cm 18cm?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nThe size of the penis is an aspect which worries many men for various reasons. Several cultures andcivilizations put much emphasis on the size of male genitalia. For the man, it does not change anything when it comes to his sexual pleasure and the sexual arousal which he will be able to feel in his sexuality. For certainmen, the size of their penis will enable them to have more confidence in themselves and have theperception of being a better lover. Men who think they have a smaller penis then others often have a low sexual self-esteem which will negatively affect their appreciation of their sex life.\r\n\r\nThe size of the penis varies much from one man to another in his flask state (without an erection). On the other hand, the majority of penises in erection range from 5 to 6 inches on average according to international studies. One can speak of a micro penis when its length is below 4 inches when erect. However, studies also show that the majority of women are not worried about penis size. Certain women do attach some significance due to former sexual experience. In fact, some prefer a larger penis because of the feeling it provides during penetration or are sexually aroused when they see it or touch it. Others will prefer smaller ones because a larger penis can limit certain positions or can hurt. It all depends on personal preferences ofeach woman or man. Although the size of the penis has an importance for certain women, the great majorityput more emphasis on other factors to evaluate their sexual satisfaction with their partner. For example,tenderness, confidence, variety, manliness, intimacy, sexual intensity, etc.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is a complete sexual relationship\" tab_id=\"1487965863742-9699ccd9-badb\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello</strong></b><b><strong>,</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>a</strong></b> <b><strong>small</strong></b> <b><strong>question</strong></b><b><strong>. Do</strong></b><b><strong> most people prefer sex with penetration or is doing the 69 position (mutual oral sex) enough for them? Is the 69 position seen more as a preliminary or can it also be considered as having sex? Can 69 be considered a complete and satisfactory sexual act in a couple? I started a new relationship recently and my new boyfriend thinks that all women can be amply satisfied by doing the 69 position, according to his last relationships. That is why I ask my question.</strong></b>\r\n\r\nIn fact, sexual behaviours are varied and numerous in couples, whereas the popular belief is that sex is notcomplete without penetration and an orgasm (normally the men’s). With this restrictive way of thinking, oralsex will be regarded only as being part of sexual preliminaries. If this definition is used, it is thus consideredthat homosexuals and lesbians, the paraplegic or any person not using penetration in their sexual repertoiredo not have complete sexual relationships. What do you think about it? What is your definition of a sexual relationship?\r\n\r\nCertain people will define a sexual relationship as reaching orgasm. Others, by the level of satisfaction they obtain or the quality of the emotional exchange. Each definition is valid in itself, because everyone has theirown sexual preferences. The practice of oral sex can fully satisfy certain people, whereas others want the feelings that you can only get during penetration. Our definition of a “complete” sexual relationship can alsochange every time we have sex: a couple can be entirely satisfied with a manual stimulation (masturbate their partner’s) one evening, but want to practice penetration the next time they have sex. It is thus difficultto affirm that everyone can be satisfied by only one type of sexual behaviour. It is then important to varythese sexual practices on occasion in order to move away from a routine which tends to decrease the sexual desire of most couples <a href=\"http://http//sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">(read: </a><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">Lack of Sexual Desire is  Good for Your Couple</a><a href=\"http://http//sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">).</a>\r\n\r\nSometimes, partners do not agree on their definition of a “complete” sexual relationship. This leaves one of them dissatisfied; their needs are not being fulfilled during their sexual activities. In such a situation, a discussion between the partners is necessary so that each one finds their satisfaction. It is important to remain open to what the other can bring to us and to clearly explain what we are looking for in our sexuality<a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\">(read: </a><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\">Couple’s Communication Issues or Unable to Tolerate Intimacy?)</a>.\r\n\r\nAll in all, the more our perception of sexuality is widened, the more one has the potential to open up sexually.To limit our definition of a “complete” sexual relationship brings frustration, disappointment and dissatisfaction with our partner. We must sometimes leave our comfort zone, explore new avenues and redefine our perceptions of sexuality in order to develop our sexual maturity.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Masturbation and Virginity\" tab_id=\"1487965865928-cdbffe8f-1dd4\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>a</strong></b> <b><strong>problem</strong></b> <b><strong>which</strong></b> <b><strong>makes</strong></b> <b><strong>me</strong></b> <b><strong>live</strong></b> <b><strong>unhappiness,</strong></b> <b><strong>please</strong></b> <b><strong>help</strong></b> <b><strong>me</strong></b><b><strong>.</strong></b><b><strong> Does masturbation have a negative impact on my health? I am an 18 year old girl and I am so afraid that masturbation canmake me sterile because I heard that it causes several bad effects on health. Also masturbation has an influence on virginity! Please help me I am so frightened!</strong></b>\r\n\r\nMasturbation is a sexual activity which can be practiced individually or as a couple. It allows us to explore our body and the sexual sensations which it can provide. This practice also makes it possible to discover oursexual preferences, to explore various ways of arousing ourselves sexually and to increase our sexual pleasure. It also has advantages on our physical health; for example, it relaxes us, reduces our musculartensions and relieves stress. What are your reasons for masturbating?\r\n\r\nThere is no negative impact on the physical level when one masturbates and it does not affect fertility at all.In fact, it is even good to masturbate before, during and after pregnancy. Several myths on masturbation circulate to discourage people not to practice it, often for moral or religious reasons. Moreover, as mentioned above, masturbation also has various advantages on the psychological level. Does that reassure you?\r\n\r\nThe definition of virginity is not only cultural, but also differs from one person to another. For certain people,it will be associated with the presence of the hymen (thin membrane at the entrance of the vagina). For others, it will not be the case since the hymen can tear before the first penetration with a partner. For example, by using a tampon, practicing sports such as cycling or riding a horse, as well as masturbation, if penetration is used (fingers or objects). In addition, losing one’s virginity can be defined for certain people as the experience of a first sexual relationship. How do you perceive virginity? What importance do you grant it?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How to treat homosexuality?\" tab_id=\"1487965867788-930a9dd8-1d62\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Is it possible to leave homosexuality and to go back to heterosexuality? I was involved in homosexual relationships and I want to change. How can you help me? Is it possible to help me because you know routine blunts sensitivity or is man a creature of habit. How can you help me to be attracted by the opposite sex again? Is there a remedy?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nThere exists a variety of hypotheses explaining the origins of homosexuality, such as the level of hormones, development of the brain, sexual experiences, or a person’s upbringing. Some explanations are biological or social and a mixture of these two approaches exists as well. Several treatments and therapies have  already been tested in the past and they have proven to be dangerous and did not really help. It is thus not possible to treat or change someone’s sexual orientation, because it is not a disease or a mental health problem. How do you feel about this fact? What could help you to accept it better?\r\n\r\nSince our sexual orientation can’t be chosen, it can be difficult to accept it. This form of homophobia is generally influenced by personal values, cultural and family upbringing, as well as religion. On top of that, there are several myths on homosexuality, which persist in reinforcing homophobia. What are your reasons to prefer being heterosexual? How do you perceive each sexual orientation? What attracts you more towards heterosexuality rather than homosexuality? A therapy with a sex therapist can be necessary to overcome these difficulties and to better accept our homosexuality.\r\n\r\nThe process of acceptance is generally done in steps. There are some variations from one individual to another since each one will have a different personality, history and socio-cultural context. These steps include confusion, tolerance towards our sexual orientation, acceptance and finally their is pride in our sexual orientation. Where do you situate yourself in this process at the moment? Do you feel the need to be guided through this?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is Female Ejaculation?\" tab_id=\"1487965869509-b4cdf3d2-30ca\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello, how are you? I have a question, I was wondering what exactly is female ejaculation made of?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nFor many years now, there has been debates in the scientific community about the composition of female ejaculate. The latest research demonstrated that the liquid comes from the Skene glands, which are the equivalent of the prostate for men and that they can be found between the urethra and the vagina. On top of that, female ejaculate would also have the same composition as the liquid that is produced by the prostate in sperm. Although, since the exit point of female ejaculation is so near the urethra, it’s possible to find very small amounts of urine. It’s important to stress that urine is a sterile liquid and that female ejaculate can only have very insignificant traces of it.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Comment traiter le vaginisme?\" tab_id=\"1487965871669-2fdbc800-995c\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Souffrant de vaginisme, je souhaiterais savoir quel est le moyen le plus efficace pour en venir à bout. En ayant fouillé dans mon passé mon vaginisme trouverait sa source dans mon enfance adolescence, j’ai subi des attouchements par mon grand frère pendant quelques années, j\'ai enfoui cela dans un coin de ma tête sans penser que cela m’empêcherait un jour d\'avoir des relations sexuelles.</strong>\r\n\r\n<strong>Merci de votre précieuse aide.</strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIl existe différentes manières de traiter le vaginisme (fermeture des parois de l\'entrée du vagin qui empêche la pénétration par des doigts, un pénis, un spéculum ou des objets sexuels). Le traitement dépend de la cause et certains peuvent être combinés pour aider la femme à mieux vivre sa sexualité. <u>Une des causes principales</u> est d\'avoir vécu un abus sexuel. Suite à un tel évènement, le corps se protège aux prochaines expériences sexuelles et empêche une pénétration. L\'abus sexuel aura, de plus, d\'autres impacts sur la femme par rapport à sa perception de la sexualité, ses sentiments envers les hommes et les femmes, son rapport avec sa féminité, ses fantasmes sexuels et la relation avec son corps sexué. <a href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/pages/therapie\">Une thérapie avec un sexologue</a> peut s\'avérer nécessaire pour démêler tous ces éléments et vivre une sexualité épanouissante.\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nLes thérapies qui focalisent sur la réappropriation de sa féminité au travers de son corps sont particulièrement efficaces pour retrouver le <a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2012/12/le-sex-le-corps-et-le-cerveau.html\">plaisir sexuel</a> avec soi-même et un(e) partenaire et ainsi mieux vivre avec l\'abus sexuel. Des activités exploratoires à effectuer à la maison seront souvent proposées par le sexologue pour apprendre à aimer son corps, se sentir davantage femme et jouir des différentes sensations que procurent le corps. Ces explorations permettent à la femme d’apprécier davantage sa sexualité en modifiant ses perceptions de celle-ci. Si la femme est en couple, des activités avec leur partenaire sont éventuellement intégrées pour vivre une sexualité à deux.\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIl est d\'ailleurs recommandé pour certaines femmes de suivre une physiothérapie spécialisée pour cette difficulté. Elles utiliseront des dilatateurs de tailles variantes pour simuler une pénétration vaginale et habituer la femme à la sensation. Il est important d\'aborder les aspects sexologiques en sexothérapie pendant ce traitement, car il pourrait davantage aggraver la difficulté, s\'il n\'y a pas un accompagnement adéquat de l\'expérience vécue. Certaines femmes par contre trouvent la méthode avec les dilatateurs comme étant mécanique et cela enlève l’aspect de plaisir sexuel associé avec la sexualité. De plus, l’achat des dilatateurs s’avère aussi très coûteux.\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIl est important de comprendre qu\'il existe diverses causes au vaginisme. Avant d\'entreprendre des activités exploratoires ou des exercices avec des dilatateurs, il faut d\'abord trouver la ou les <u>causes</u> sexologiques et physiologiques pour que le traitement soit adapté et individualisé pour chaque femme vivant avec cette difficulté sexuelle.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"L’identité de genre et l’orientation sexuelle\" tab_id=\"1487965876296-4664ca0a-6fa2\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Salut, ma question peut sembler étrange, mais voilà, je ne trouve pas d\'info sur internet. Est-ce possible de se sentir à la fois femme et homme, et sexuellement attiré par la personne du même sexe, dans les 2 cas, et non inversement. Je veux dire par la, se sentir femme, qui aime les femmes, et se sentir homme, qui aime les hommes.</strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nPour répondre à ta question qui est tout à fait légitime, il nécessite de définir la différence entre l’orientation sexuelle et l’identité de genre. L’orientation est défini comme étant l’attirance qu’on ressent envers un ou les deux sexes. Selon Klein (<a href=\"http://www.psychomedia.qc.ca/tests/klein\">http://www.psychomedia.qc.ca/tests/klein</a>), elle se détermine en 7 composantes, dont l’attirance physique/sexuelle, les comportements sexuels, les fantasmes sexuels, les préférences émotionnelles et sociales, la communauté fréquentée et l’identification à une orientation. On évalue chacun de celle-ci selon le passé, le présent et notre idéal. Comment te décrirais-tu selon chacune de ses composantes et périodes? Qu’est-ce que cette réflexion sur ton orientation sexuelle te fait ressentir, penser ou vivre?\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nL’identité de genre consiste à ressentir une appartenance à un ou l’autre des sexes. Je me sens homme ou je me sens femme. Pour certains, le sentiment d’appartenance n’est pas aussi clairement défini. Ils se questionnent, ils expérimentent et la majorité finit par se positionner. Il y a, par contre, des personnes qui se sentent réellement des deux sexes selon leur sentiment de la journée, les vêtements qu’ils portent, les activités qu’ils exercent, etc. Dans quelles circonstances te sens-tu comme un homme? Comme une femme? As-tu l’impression d’être perturbé par les changements de tes sentiments? Ou te sens-tu équilibré émotionnellement avec ta situation? Aurais-tu besoin d’éclaircissement sur ton sentiment d’appartenance à ton sexe?\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nL’orientation sexuelle et l’identité de genre sont interdépendantes. En d’autres termes, chacune peut avoir une influence sur l’autre, mais elles sont déterminées selon des facteurs propres à chacune. Il est tout à fait possible de se sentir comme un homme et une femme dans différentes situations et d’éprouver une attirance selon le contexte. L’important est d’abord de se sentir à l’aise avec son orientation sexuelle et son identité de genre. Qu’est-ce qui t’amène à te questionner sur ta sexualité à cet égard? As-tu l’impression qu’elle te crée des difficultés relationnelles, affectives ou sexuelles? Les sexologues sont spécialisés sur les questionnements liés à  l’identité de genre et à l’orientation sexuelle. Si tu en ressens le besoin, une sexothérapie peut t’aider à atteindre un équilibre!\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nBon cheminement.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Plaisir sexuel avec son partenaire\" tab_id=\"1487965878280-0b309368-6895\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Je suis une fille de 20 ans. Je ne peux pas avoir du plaisir avec mon mari, car je suis habitué de me masturber. Cela dure depuis 5 ans et je ne peux pas vivre comme ça. Aider moi.</strong>\r\n\r\nL\'incapacité à obtenir du plaisir sexuel avec son partenaire est causée par diverses raisons. Parfois, la cause provient du manque de connaissance de notre corps ou d\'une difficulté à démontrer et parler de nos préférences sexuelles avec notre partenaire. On peut éviter d\'en discuter pour ne pas blesser les sentiments de ce dernier. Par contre, plus longtemps on attend, plus il sera difficile d\'en discuter. Est-ce que ton partenaire est conscient de ta difficulté à ressentir du plaisir durant vos relations sexuelles? Qu\'est-ce qui pourrait t\'empêcher de lui en parler? Aurait-il des solutions à ce dilemme? Est-ce qu\'il y a des différences entre la manière dont tu t\'excites durant la masturbation et pendant les rapports sexuels?\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nLa relation que nous entretenons avec la sexualité et notre partenaire peut d\'ailleurs être un blocage à l\'orgasme. Celui-ci nécessite une variété de circonstances pour être atteint et plusieurs éléments peuvent y nuire quand nous sommes avec une autre personne. Il nécessite de consulter un <a href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/pages/contact\">sexologue</a> pour avoir une évaluation complète de ces blocages pour les comprendre et les surmonter.\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIl existe aussi d\'autres raisons expliquant cette situation. Chaque personne a un <a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/09/les-modes-dexcitation-sexuelle-partie-1.html\">Mode d\'Excitation Sexuelle</a> (MES) différent qui peut être difficile à reproduire par une autre personne. Chacun de ces MES ont leurs avantages, mais aussi leurs limites qui peuvent créer des difficultés sexuelles. La façon dont on se stimule durant la masturbation cristallise notre Mode d\'Excitation Sexuelle. Il faut donc apprendre à élargir les types de sensations qui peuvent nous exciter sexuellement durant les relations sexuelles. Pour élargir ses MES et apprécier davantage les multiples sensations que notre corps procure, il est possible d\'expérimenter par soi-même en variant les <a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2012/12/le-sex-le-corps-et-le-cerveau.html\">lois du corps</a>.\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIl est important de noter que la majorité des femmes atteignent l\'orgasme par la stimulation du clitoris qui est plus difficilement stimulé durant la pénétration. La femme ou leur partenaire peut stimuler le clitoris avec les doigts pour avoir un orgasme durant les relations sexuelles. Croyez-vous qu\'il serait aidant de stimuler votre clitoris durant les relations sexuelles avec votre partenaire?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Les pilules et outils agrandissantes fonctionnent-ils?\" tab_id=\"1487965881097-194eaf45-e6e2\"][vc_column_text]<b>Voilà depuis peu j\'ai eu 19 ans et je dois avouer que la taille de mon sexe me complexe légèrement. J\'ai commencer à fouiller le net a la recherche de solution qui pourrais m\'aider à l\'agrandir quelque peu car j\'ai l\'impression d\'avoir besoin de cela pour ma confiance en moi. J’ai vu beaucoup de choses et je voulais savoir si d\'après vous les extenseurs du pénis et les pilules d\'agrandissement marche réellement.</b>\r\n\r\n<span class=\"plus\">     </span>\r\n<div class=\"acc_container clear\">\r\n<div class=\"reponse\">\r\n\r\nLa grandeur du pénis concerne plusieurs hommes et peut affecter leur confiance à l’égard de la sexualité. Les pilules et outils prétendant agrandir les organes génitaux mâles n’ont jamais été étudiés à l’égard de leur taux de réussite ou de leur efficacité. De plus, il peut exister de nombreux effets indésirables d’utiliser ces méthodes. Est-ce que tu es prêt à prendre un tel risque? Est-ce que tu t’es bien informé des conséquences possibles, du fonctionnement et des résultats attendus de ces produits?\r\n\r\nNombreux sont les hommes qui veulent agrandir leur pénis car ils sont complexés. Une autre question intitulée : “L’importance de la taille du pénis.” explique les raisons derrière ce complexe masculin. Par contre, il est important de mettre en perspective qu’un homme a beaucoup d’autres éléments qu’il peut mettre de l’avant pour séduire une autre personne. Quelles sont tes qualités masculines? Quelles sont tes atouts en tant qu’amant? Amoureux?\r\n\r\nS’il est difficile de répondre à ces questions, il est fort pertinent de consulter un sexologue pour travailler sa confiance en soi au travers une sexo-thérapie. Cette dernière permet d’acquérir une aisance dans sa sexualité, apprécier ses forces, accepter ses limites et développer des habilités érotiques pour s’épanouir pleinement dans sa sexualité. Crois-tu avoir besoin de consultations avec un sexologue? Perçois-tu d’autres moyens avec lesquelles tu pourrais remédier à ta situation?\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Positions sexuelles\" tab_id=\"1487965882918-582529eb-5416\"][vc_column_text]<b>Il y a quelques jours on discutait entre amies sur les positions sexuelles et on se demandait pourquoi il existait autant de positions pour faire l\'amour ?</b>\r\n\r\n<span class=\"plus\">     </span>\r\n<div class=\"acc_container clear\">\r\n<div class=\"reponse\">\r\n\r\nLa variété des positions sexuelles apporte diverses sensations et stimulations sexuelles. Chaque personne a ses préférences qui sont déterminées par plusieurs facteurs. Parfois, le confort permet d’être plus détendues et d’apprécier les sensations physiques qui sont procurées. La variété des positions aide à changer la routine et la monotonie des relations sexuelles parfois présente. Elle nous procure aussi d’autres stimulations visuelles et d’apprendre à connaître notre partenaire de différentes façons.\r\n\r\nLes positions ont aussi un aspect psychologique et sexologique par rapport à la relation entre les partenaires. Certaines positions favorisent la prise en charge des mouvements et de l’intensité de celles-ci par l’homme et d’autres par la femme. Variez les positions sexuelles amènent un couple à explorer ses nombreuses dynamiques possibles et d’apprendre à connaître les différentes facettes de notre partenaire dans son érotisme. On peut vouloir prendre un rôle plus passif par moment ou plus actif dans d’autres.\r\n\r\nL’assortiment de positions sexuelles d’un couple a la capacité d’apporter de la nouveauté et d’exciter davantage. Par contre, il faut faire attention de ne pas juste se fier à la position elle-même pour mettre du piquant dans notre vie sexuelle. Notre attitude, notre intensité et connexion émotionnelle, notre capacité à se dévoiler et à être soi-même dans une relation sexuelle nous mène à une vie sexuelle plus épanouie.\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Fantasme sexuel\" tab_id=\"1487965884697-7394da5a-05b2\"][vc_column_text]<b>Je ne savais pas vraiment à qui poser la question. Donc, je me suis dit que la poser à un sexologue serait le meilleur! Voilà. Je suis avec mon chum depuis 8 mois maintenant, il habite à environ 1h de route de chez moi. Nous ne nous voyons pas la semaine, mais chaque fin de semaine, il vient chez moi. Il m\'a avoué l\'autre jour, la semaine, qu\'il regardait, à l\'occasion, du matériel pornographique style \'\'manga\'\', qui est appelée le \'\'futanari\'\' ce sont des relations sexuelles entre femmes, mais elles ont un pénis. Je me demandais... Qu\'est-ce qui attire les hommes au juste là dedans? Pourquoi ne pas regarder des relations sexuelles homme-femme à la place? Surtout, pourquoi une femme aurait un pénis, qu\'est-ce qui est excitant là-dedans? Il m\'assure que regarder des vidéos pornos de transsexuels ne l\'excite pas. Ça me dépasse. Je ne sais pas trop comment réagir, comment prendre cette nouvelle. Est-ce que c\'est quelque chose de courant chez les hommes?</b>\r\n\r\n<span class=\"plus\">     </span>\r\n<div class=\"acc_container clear\">\r\n<div class=\"reponse\">\r\n\r\nL\'imaginaire érotique d\'une personne prend une variété de formes différentes. Il y a toutes sortes de théories sexologiques expliquant l\'érotisation d\'un élément ou l\'autre que nous pouvons retrouver dans la sexualité. Pour arriver à la réponse, il nécessite d\'évaluer le vécu sexuel de la personne et déterminer l\'élément qui l\'excite dans le fantasme. Ce travail thérapeutique peut être pertinent si les fantasmes sont dérangeants pour la personne qui les utilise pour s\'exciter sexuelle. Par ailleurs, une personne qui consulte des films futanari pour se divertir, sans en avoir de besoin pour s\'exciter sexuellement et ne cause pas de difficulté dans sa sexualité, bénéficiera moins d\'une analyse de ses fantasmes sexuels. Qu\'est-ce qui te dérange dans ses fantasmes? Comment définirais-tu la norme de l\'imaginaire sexuel? D\'où proviennent les critères du normal vs l\'atypique, selon toi?\r\n\r\nIl y a un mouvement dans les dernières années où certaines personnes ont commencé à s\'identifier comme étant pan-sexuel. Ce terme désigne toute personne ayant la capacité d\'éprouver une excitation sexuelle ou un désir sexuel envers une personne consentante de tous genres sexuels (homme, femme, transsexuelle, transgenre, etc.). La pansexualité est une orientation sexuelle tout comme l\'hétérosexualité ou l\'homosexualité ou la bisexualité, mais qui inclut aussi les différentes variantes entre les 2 sexes. As-tu l\'impression que ton partenaire serait moins attiré par toi parce qu\'il écoute ce type de film érotique?\r\n\r\nIl n\'est pas facile de dévoiler ses fantasmes sexuels particulièrement si ceux-ci ne sont pas considérés comme étant la norme dans notre société. Être en mesure de dévoiler des fantasmes atypiques à sa partenaire démontre une capacité à être intime avec celle-ci. Nous ne pouvons rarement être certains de la réaction de l\'autre: rejet, dégoût, excitation, rapprochement, etc. Il y a toujours un risque à prendre dans une telle intimité sexuelle. Les 2 partenaires doivent s\'adapter à la révélation et se questionner profondément sur sa propre sexualité. Qu\'est-ce que cela suscite chez toi? Comment cela impacte la perception de ton partenaire et votre sexualité? Aimerais-tu lui poser des questions pour comprendre davantage?\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Vaginisme et médicament\" tab_id=\"1487965886508-2e1a661d-37c9\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Je ne savais pas vraiment à qui poser la question. Donc, je me suis dit que la poser à un sexologue serait le meilleur! Voilà. Je suis avec mon chum depuis 8 mois maintenant, il habite à environ 1h de route de chez moi. Nous ne nous voyons pas la semaine, mais chaque fin de semaine, il vient chez moi. Il m\'a avoué l\'autre jour, la semaine, qu\'il regardait, à l\'occasion, du matériel pornographique style \'\'manga\'\', qui est appelée le \'\'futanari\'\' ce sont des relations sexuelles entre femmes, mais elles ont un pénis. Je me demandais... Qu\'est-ce qui attire les hommes au juste là dedans? Pourquoi ne pas regarder des relations sexuelles homme-femme à la place? Surtout, pourquoi une femme aurait un pénis, qu\'est-ce qui est excitant là-dedans? Il m\'assure que regarder des vidéos pornos de transsexuels ne l\'excite pas. Ça me dépasse. Je ne sais pas trop comment réagir, comment prendre cette nouvelle. Est-ce que c\'est quelque chose de courant chez les hommes?</strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nEn ce qui concerne les médicaments que votre médecin vous a prescrits, je ne peux pas me positionner car je n\'ai pas une expertise médicale, mais plutôt thérapeutique. Le choix de prendre le risque des effets secondaires revient à vous dans le cas où vous êtes au courant de celles-ci.\r\n\r\nToutefois, je n\'ai jamais entendu parler d\'un traitement du vaginisme avec des médicaments, mais cela n\'empêche pas que cela soit une nouveau type de traitement. Selon mes recherches, vos médicaments prescrits rentrent dans la catégorie des anti-dépresseurs. Ces médicaments sont souvent prescrits pour les personnes ayant des troubles entourant l\'anxiété ou qui gère mal le stress, ce qui est souvent le cas chez les femmes ayant du vaginisme. Est-ce que cela serait votre cas par hasard? Si oui, votre médecin vous l\'a probablement prescrit pour cette raison, ce qui vous permettra d\'être plus détendu durant les relations sexuelles.\r\n\r\nPar contre, il existe d\'autres moyens de remédier à du vaginisme qui ne cause pas autant d\'effets secondaires. Une <a title=\"démarche thérapeutique\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/08/le-processus-dune-demarche-therapeutique.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">sexo-thérapie</a> par exemple regardera <a title=\"Ateliers\" href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/pages/atelier_sexualite\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">votre relation avec votre féminité</a>, les hommes, la sexualité, votre corps, la masturbation, votre vécu amoureux et sexuel, etc. Ces éléments jouent une grande part dans le plaisir sexuel qu\'une personne peut avoir durant les relations sexuelles. Vous avez mentionné le décès de votre père dans votre courriel. Cet évènement pourrait avoir une influence sur votre sexualité, selon la relation que vous avez entretenue avec celui-ci. Cette partie de la thérapie regarderait les éléments psycho-sexuel de votre difficulté.\r\n\r\nDes exercices de respiration pour gérer les émotions, des mouvements du bassin et une appropriation des muscles pelviens peuvent aider au vaginisme. Ainsi, une évaluation de votre <a title=\"Mode excitation sexuelle Partie 1\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/09/les-modes-dexcitation-sexuelle-partie-1.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">mode d\'excitation sexuelle</a>pourrait s\'avérer pertinente pour établir une cause au plan physiologique de votre vaginisme.\r\n\r\nJe vous propose donc de trouver un <a title=\"Contacter un sexologue\" href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/pages/contact\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">thérapeute spécialisé en sexualité</a> qui sera vous aidé avec cette difficulté.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Difficulté érectile et problèmes de santé\" tab_id=\"1487965888387-073159ab-43c8\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Bonjour, j\'ai 33 ans et vis avec l\'homme que j’ai épousé il y a 4 ans et avec lequel je partage ma vie depuis 13 ans. Nous n\'avons jamais réellement surmonté des problèmes insurmontables et sommes jusqu’à toujours arriver à un terrain d\'entente. J\'aime le sexe avec mon mari et rêve à plein d\'autres expériences excitantes, mais voilà, il y a 6 mois mon mari a fait un infarctus du myocarde et à même bien faillit en pas y survivre. ... Une partie de son coeur est fichu et il prend donc médicaments à vie. Après sa crise cardiaque une chose me turlupine pourra-t-il encore me faire l’amour?! Alors qu\'il fait sa rééducation cardiaque une semaine après être sortie de l\'hôpital, nous faisons parfois l\'amour, je vois mon mari en forme et très vigoureux, je me sens rassuré. Retour à la maison....lui ne change pas ses habitudes pour autant, il ne bouge pas, pas de sport comme le doc lui a conseillé, on a arrêté la cigarette il grossit comme à vu d\'oeil et prend presque tout dans le ventre, je déteste. ....Mais je l\'aime et j\'ai quand même envie de lui. Il rencontre en même temps des soucis érectiles, ses érections sont molles et n’endurent pas où alors tout simplement il n\'en a pas. Une fois il perd son érection en plein acte. Bien sûr je l\'aime et le rassure, mais moi personne pour me rassurer. Les médecins changent 3 fois son traitement et on y voit une amélioration, mais ça reste insuffisant. Nos rapports sont de très courtes durées, j\'ai peur que son pénis devienne mou c’est très frustrant. Je lui parle souvent de sexe, mais ça l’agace. Il dit qu\'il n\'est plus bon à rien que ça ne sert à rien de l\'exciter qu\'il ne bande pas...c\'est dur, car je l\'aime, mais en même temps j\'ai tellement besoin de sexe....je me mets à penser à avoir des amants à des aventures sans lendemain., je ne pense qu\'au sexe sans cesse....y a-t-il une solution à notre problème le temps va-t-il jouer en notre faveur? Je vous remercie vivement pour votre réponse que j\'attends impatiemment.</strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nLes problèmes cardiaques ont des effets importants sur la sexualité, surtout au niveau de l’excitation sexuelle (érection). Des ajustements et une adaptation sont nécessaires pour les deux partenaires au niveau de la sexualité. Comme vous l’avez dit dans votre courriel, le temps est un ingrédient clé à ces changements dans votre relation. Par contre, il nécessite aussi de mettre certains efforts et ne pas seulement attendre que le temps passe. Il faut l’utiliser de manière constructive.\r\n\r\nPar exemple, une thérapie de couple auprès d’un sexologue s’avère très utile dans ces circonstances pour aider chacun des partenaires à gérer leurs émotions et surmonter les obstacles qui se présentent suite à cet incident. Vous exprimez avoir personne à qui en discuter. <a title=\"Communication difficile\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/12/intimite-sexuelle-partie-i.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Qu’est-ce qui vous empêche d’en discuter avec votre partenaire de vos sentiments? </a>Croyez-vous qu’un soutien commun entre vous deux pourrait vous aider à vous adapter plus rapidement à ces changements? Quels avantages et inconvénients voyez-vous à lui en parler? Quand une personne garde ses émotions et frustrations pour elle-même, celles-ci s’accumulent et deviennent néfastes pour le bonheur du couple. La thérapie explorera votre <a title=\"dynamique de couple\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/10/quels-dynamiques-de-couple-avez-vous.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">dynamique de couple</a> pour vous outiller à travailler en équipe, ce qui vous donnera une meilleure chance de retrouver votre épanouissement sexuel.\r\n\r\nLes problèmes érectiles ont souvent une influence sur l’image que l’homme a de lui-même et sa masculinité. Pour cette raison, il faut apprendre à reconnaître ses forces en tant qu’homme de manière plus élargie que sur la fermeté de l’érection. Comment votre partenaire perçoit-il la masculinité et la virilité? Comment se sent-il dans sa masculinité depuis ses difficultés sexuelles? Quelle importance l’érection prend-elle dans sa satisfaction durant une relation sexuelle? Pourriez-vous ensemble explorer divers moyens pour exprimer sa masculinité à l’intérieur et à l’extérieur de votre sexualité?\r\n\r\nIl est possible que votre sexualité ne soit jamais comme auparavant. Cela est inévitable dans chaque couple, car le vieillissement et les maladies obligent à diversifier nos activités sexuelles et redéfinir les critères de notre satisfaction sexuelle. C’est un processus qui peut être long et difficile, mais qui pour plusieurs couples les rapproche au plan émotionnel et intime. <a title=\"Épanouissment sexuel\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2012/12/le-manque-de-desir-sexuel.html\" target=\"blank\">Certains réussissent à y trouver un plus grand épanouissement sexuel à travers ce type de difficulté. </a>\r\n\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Aucune sensation durant la pénétration\" tab_id=\"1487965890205-7cd53d5a-d2be\"][vc_column_text]<strong>J\'ai 40 ans et je suis divorcée depuis 1 an. Je suis actuellement avec un homme depuis 4 mois. Nous tenons beaucoup l\'un à l\'autre. Il me fait énormément jouir en pratiquant le cunnilingus, la position des cuillères, etc...mais lorsqu\'il me pénètre, je ne sens pratiquement pas son pénis ! Je n\'ose pas lui dire de peur de le vexer. Il arrive à éjaculer mais moi je ne sens pas son pénis se durcir. Cela m\'inquiète. Pouvez-vous m\'éclaircir à ce sujet ?</strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIl n’est pas évident de devoir parler de nos insatisfactions sexuelles à notre partenaire quand ce dernier en est la cause. Vous avez effectivement la bonne attitude de vous souciez de ses sentiments à l’égard de votre dévoilement. Par contre, quand on évite ce type de discussion avec notre partenaire, cela nous oblige à garder le secret pour nous et avoir des comportements sexuels qui ne sont pas plaisants. À court terme, on sauve un ego et on achète la paix. Toutefois à long terme, cela ne sera ni utile pour vous, ni pour lui. Il faut apprendre à tolérer ce genre de discussion qui nous pousse à développer une <a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/01/intimite-sexuelle-partie-2.html\">intimité validée par soi</a>. Sinon, la baisse de désir sexuel en est quasiment inévitable et il sera encore plus difficile d’avoir cette discussion plus loin dans votre relation.\r\n\r\nCette discussion vous permettra aussi de déterminer quelle est la cause probable. Il est possible qu’il ait des difficultés érectiles intra-vaginales qui engendrent peu de sensation durant la pénétration pour vous car son pénis n’est pas en érection complète. Cette difficulté peut d’ailleurs être traitée en <a href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/pages/therapie\">thérapie</a> par un professionnel de la santé tel un <b>sexologue. </b>La grosseur de son pénis pourrait aussi être un facteur contributif. Est-ce qu’il aurait un pénis plus petit que la norme en érection (5 à 7 cm)? Si tel est le cas, il se pourrait que les sensations soient moindres. Dans ce cas, il vous nécessitera de vous adapter à une sexualité ayant une variété de comportements sexuels pour satisfaire à chacun.\r\n\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Impacts de la pornographie dans le couple\" tab_id=\"1487965891995-b4d34a8d-330f\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Bonjour, je suis en couple avec mon copain depuis 5 ans et il y a un an (depuis que nous habitons ensemble) j\'ai appris que mon copain se masturbait devant des films pornographiques. Quand même régulièrement. Nous avons une sexualité active, ce qui me rend plutôt inquiet. Il est au courant que je le sais et que cela me rend inquiet. J\'aimerais comprendre le besoin de mon copain par rapport à sa consommation de pornographie. Est-ce moi le problème? Est-ce courant? J’espère que vous pourrez répondre à mes questionnements, car cela créer des conflits dans mon couple et la question me préoccupe énormément depuis un an. Merci beaucoup pour votre temps.</strong>\r\n\r\nLe visionnement de pornographie suscite une variété d\'émotions et de réactions chez les partenaires qui n\'en regardent pas. La pornographie touche à plusieurs valeurs chez un individu qui nécessite d\'être explorées. Quelles sont vos perceptions et celle de votre partenaire à l\'égard de la pornographie? Qu\'est-ce qui vous dérange plus spécifiquement de celle-ci? Est-ce le type de pornographie qu\'il regarde, la fréquence, le fait qu\'il se masturbe sur d\'autres personnes que vous? Est-ce la masturbation étant dans un couple qui vous dérange? Sinon, quelles différences faites-vous entre vous masturber sur de la pornographie et utiliser ses fantasmes sexuels ou même des histoires érotiques? Quels sont vos propres stimulus pour vous exciter sexuellement?\r\n\r\nIl se peut fort bien que vos perceptions diffèrent de celle de votre conjoint, ce qui est tout à fait normal dans un couple. Toutefois, une trop grande différence de valeurs sur une situation amène le couple à une <a title=\"Chicane de couple\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/10/solutions-aux-chicanes-de-couple.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">impasse émotionnelle</a>. Cette situation conflictuelle nécessitera à chacun à réévaluer leurs valeurs et perceptions de la sexualité pour déterminer si les émotions et comportements de son partenaire nous conviennent. Il arrive des moments dans un couple où nous ne pouvons tout simplement pas trouver un commun accord et il faut apprendre à tolérer et accepter cette différence fondamentale de notre couple. Dans d\'autres instances, cette différence est trop difficile à vivre dans la relation et la rupture est une option envisageable. Seriez-vous prêt avec votre conjoint de discuter honnêtement et ouvertement sur le sujet de la pornographie? Avez-vous des appréhensions ou des éléments que vous aimeriez spécifier avec lui? Pensez-vous avoir besoin de l\'aide d\'un professionnel tel un sexologue pour vous accompagner dans ce conflit?\r\n\r\nAvant d\'entreprendre cette discussion avec votre conjoint, sachez qu\'il est tout à fait normal pour des partenaires ayant une vie sexuelle active et satisfaisante de se masturber. La masturbation répond à des besoins différents d\'une relation sexuelle et elle permet aussi un moment de détente et plaisir avec soi-même. Est-ce qu\'il vous arrive de vous masturber? Plusieurs hommes en couple utilisent la pornographie pour se stimuler durant la masturbation sans conséquence sur leur vie sexuelle. Il est à noter toutefois que certains styles et types de pornographie peuvent nuire à la vie sexuelle du couple à long terme si elle diffère trop d\'une sexualité saine entre deux individus (ex: violente, image corporelle irréaliste, focalisation seulement sur les organes génitaux). Vous mentionnez être inquiet à l\'égard du visionnement de la pornographie de votre partenaire. Quelles sont ses insécurités? Parfois, ses insécurités sont en lien avec notre <a title=\"jalousie et mythe\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/04/mettre-les-pendules-lheure-par-rapport_7.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">jalousie ou la peur de ne pas être la seule désirable aux yeux de notre partenaire</a>. Cela nécessitera donc un travail sur soi de votre part sur votre estime personnelle pour surmonter ses insécurités.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Aucune sensation\" tab_id=\"1487965894597-53380b4c-1818\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Bonjour, je suis en couple avec mon copain depuis 5 ans et il y a un an (depuis que nous habitons ensemble) j\'ai appris que mon copain se masturbait devant des films pornographiques. Quand même régulièrement. Nous avons une sexualité active, ce qui me rend plutôt inquiet. Il est au courant que je le sais et que cela me rend inquiet. J\'aimerais comprendre le besoin de mon copain par rapport à sa consommation de pornographie. Est-ce moi le problème? Est-ce courant? J’espère que vous pourrez répondre à mes questionnements, car cela créer des conflits dans mon couple et la question me préoccupe énormément depuis un an. Merci beaucoup pour votre temps.</strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nLe <a href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/pages/%22http://Le%20plaisir%20sexuel%20est%20un%20aspect%20de%20la%20sexualit%C3%A9%20qui%20prend%20beaucoup%20d%E2%80%99importance%20dans%20la%20sexualit%C3%A9.%20Elle%20est%20v%C3%A9cue%20de%20diff%C3%A9rentes%20mani%C3%A8res%20pour%20tous%20et%20chacun.%20Tu%20expliques%20ne%20rien%20ressentir%20durant%20les%20rapports%20sexuels.%20Qu%E2%80%99en%20est-il%20quand%20tu%20te%20masturbes?%20Est-ce%20que%20tu%20lui%20as%20d%C3%A9j%C3%A0%20montr%C3%A9%20la%20mani%C3%A8re%20dont%20tu%20aimais%20te%20faire%20toucher%20et%20caresser?%20Comment%20crois-tu%20qu%E2%80%99il%20r%C3%A9agirait?%20Si%20tu%20n%E2%80%99as%20jamais%20essay%C3%A9%20de%20te%20stimuler%20par%20toi-m%C3%AAme,%20cela%20pourrait%20%C3%AAtre%20une%20activit%C3%A9%20qui%20te%20permettra%20de%20conna%C3%AEtre%20tes%20pr%C3%A9f%C3%A9rences%20en%20d%C3%A9couvrant%20ton%20corps%20et%20les%20sensations%20qu%E2%80%99il%20peut%20te%20procurer.%20Parfois%20et%20surtout%20chez%20les%20filles%20adolescentes,%20l%E2%80%99apprentissage%20de%20s\">plaisir sexuel</a> est un aspect de la sexualité qui prend beaucoup d’importance dans la sexualité. Elle est vécue de différentes manières pour tous et chacun. Tu expliques ne rien ressentir durant les rapports sexuels. Qu’en est-il quand tu te masturbes? Est-ce que tu lui as déjà montré la manière dont tu aimais te faire toucher et caresser? Comment crois-tu qu’il réagirait? Si tu n’as jamais essayé de te stimuler par toi-même, cela pourrait être une activité qui te permettra de connaître tes préférences en découvrant ton corps et les sensations qu’il peut te procurer.\r\n\r\nParfois et surtout chez les filles adolescentes, l’apprentissage de son corps se fait plus difficilement pour une multitude de raisons dont sociales, personnelles, familiales, culturelles et relationnelles. Quels ont été les messages sur la sexualité et le plaisir sexuel pour les filles que tu as reçus? Est-ce que tu es d’accord avec ceux-ci? Comment te sens-tu durant les relations sexuelles avec ton partenaire? Calme, détendu, tendu, crispé, etc.? Pour ressentir du plaisir et une excitation sexuelle, il est nécessaire d’avoir une certaine tonicité musculaire au niveau du bassin et des mouvements corporels. Comment utilises-tu ton corps durant les rapports sexuels? Est-ce que tu es lubrifiée au niveau de la vulve et du vagin?\r\n\r\nParfois, les sensations au niveau du corps sont peu ressenties, car le désir sexuel n’est pas présent. Le désir sexuel se définit comme un élan ou le goût d’un rapprochement sexuel. Il existe différents types et catégories de désir sexuel et chacun apporte une dynamique différente au niveau de la relation. Crois-tu ressentir du désir sexuel envers ton partenaire? À ne pas confondre avec le sentiment amoureux! Qu’est-ce qui t’attire ou t’excite sexuellement chez lui? La pilule contraceptive peut parfois avoir un impact sur le désir sexuel, mais dans de très rares cas. Il serait possible pour toi de consulter ton médecin de famille et lui demander de t’en prescrire une autre pour voir si le désir sexuel changera, si ton désir est absent. La pilule n’aura pas contre pas un effet au niveau des sensations de ton corps et ta capacité à ressentir du plaisir.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Culpabilité sur ma vie sexuelle\" tab_id=\"1487965896525-2bffa916-708e\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Je suis une jeune fille de 23 ans. Je vous écris car depuis des mois, </b></span><span class=\"s1\"><b>j\'éprouve une énorme culpabilité sur ma vie sexuelle au cours de ces deux </b></span><span class=\"s1\"><b>dernières années.</b></span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Tout d\'abord, après ma séparation avec mon petit ami de longue date il y a presque deux ans, j\'ai commencé à regarder de plus en plus de pornographie. Cela a duré une année, puis j\'ai arrêté, comme pardégoût, avec l\'impression que tout cela finissait par me pervertir, mias aussi l\'impression que \"j\'en avais eu assez\", comme si j\'avais ovule découvrir ce que c\'était, par curiosité, et que ça m\'avait plu pendant un an jusqu\'à ce que je me rende compte que ça ne me convenait pas…</b></span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Quand j\'y repense aujourd\'hui, j\'éprouve encore beaucoup de culpabilité, comme si j\'avais fait une erreur, que j\'étais \"tombée dedans\" car je en suis fondamentalement pas en accord avec le monde de la pornographie, l\'image de la vie sexuelle, de la femme, de l\'homme, de la sexualité en général que la pornographie véhicule. Bien sûr, je respecte ceux à qui cela plait et comprends que cela puisse convenir à d\'autres et ne suis pas pleine de jugement (d\'ailleurs, je ne culpabilise que vis-à-vis de moi ; quand j\'imagine d\'autres personnes regarder du porno, cela me semble presque \"normal\", comme si j\'étais beaucoup plus sévère avec moi-même) ! </b></span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Simplement, j\'avais plutôt l\'impression que cela finissait par me pervertir; certaines images de ces films me revenaient à n\'importe quels moments hors contexte ; en pleine journée, il m\'arrivait d\'imaginer les personnes en face de moi dans ces situations pornographiques, mais m\'en rendais compte aussitôt et chassais alors rapidement l\'idée de mon esprit, comme si mon esprit m\'envoyait en tête des images que je ne voulais pas voir, mais Que. je ne pouvais pas lutter... Du coup, j\'avais honte et j\'ai encore </b></span><b>énormément de culpabilité à avoir pu avoir ces images \"à contre-cœur\" dans mon esprit, comme si ce n\'était pas moi qui les contrôlais…</b></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Est-ce bizarre ? Je me dis que personne ne s\'imagine la personne en face d\'elle dans une situation telle (même si ça ne durait qu\'une seconde dans ma tête puisque en total désaccord avec ces images, j\'avais honte qu\'elles me viennent à l\'esprit... mais ne pouvais pas le contrôler), alors jai beaucoup culpabilisé et me suis beaucoup inquiétée : suis-je perverse ???</b></span></p>\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Suite à avoir pris connaissance de ton courriel, je peux t’assurer que ce que tu vis est tout à fait normal. Plusieurs personnes vivent avec une culpabilité à l’égard de leur sexualité dû à leurs fantasmes et attirance sexuelles.</span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Malgré qu’on peut être en désaccord avec les valeurs véhiculées dans la pornographie, cela n’empêche pas nécessairement notre corps de réagir à la stimulation visuelle et auditive que celle-ci crée. Beaucoup de personne sont en discordance avec leur fantasmes sexuels car elles peuvent trouver dégoûtant ou mal ces derniers, mais tout même être très excité par celle-ci. Les fantasmes sont un aspect de la sexualité qui est très complex et remédier par nos blessures, nos expériences positives et négatives avec la sexualité, notre éducation, notre personnalité, etc. </span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Donc, ce qui nous excite ne fait pas toujours du sens parfois à première vue. Suite à une analyse plus en profondeur en thérapie avec un sexologue et psychothérapeute, on peut réussir à mieux comprendre et donner un sens à ces fantasmes sexuels. Sache que ton imagination sexuelle qui inclue les personnes que tu côtoie n’est en aucun cas perverse. L’être humain fantasme régulièrement dans une journée avec les gens de son entoure. On peut simplement les imaginer nue ou avoir des fantasmes plus élaborés de eux dans des contextes variés. Ce sont des pensées normales et naturelles. Parfois, se batter contre ses pulsions sexuelles peut au contraire leur donner du pouvoir érotique. Le taboo est souvent un élément très excitant, donc la culpabilité que tu ressens pourrait être cause de l’aspect érogène de tes flashs sexuels. </span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Il est certain que la difficulté que tu as es plutôt comment tu vis avec ce qui passes dans ta tête au moment des fantasmes de ton entourage. Il serait peut-être pertinent pour toi de consulter un sexologue et psychothérapeute pour que tu puisses vivre une sexualité en concordance avec tes valeurs et que tu sois en paix avec toi-même.</span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Comme tu l’as toi-même dit dans ton courriel, tu es plus sévère envers toi-même que les autres. Tu pourrais peut-être t’enlever de la pression que tu te mets inutilement à l’égard de ta sexualité et vivre plus dans l’acceptation de celle-ci et toutes ces facettes plutôt que de te culpabiliser constamment.</span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Sache que si tu voudrais explorer davantage ta sexualité, un <a title=\"sexologue et psychothérapeute\" href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/\" target=\"\">sexologue et psychothérapeute</a> te sera d’une grande aide à l’égard de ton vécu sexuelle.</span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Si cela t’intéresse, nous pourrions prendre un rendez-vous à mon bureau ou <a title=\"skype séance\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/02/procedure-pour-une-seance-par-webcam.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">skype</a> (si vous êtes à l’extérieur de Montréal)  et nous pourrions explorer en profondeur une manière pour toi de vivre en harmonie ta sexualité. </span></p>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][/vc_tta_accordion][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'FAQ', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1673-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-05-25 19:55:32', '2017-05-25 17:55:32', '', 1673, 'http://sexcoupletherapy.com/blog/2017/05/25/1673-revision-v1/', 0, 'revision', '', 0);
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(1802, 1, '2017-05-15 03:57:31', '2017-05-15 01:57:31', '[vc_row inner_container=\"true\"][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1481\" img_size=\"medium\" visibility=\"all\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Answers to sex questions by a sexologist (sex therapist) &amp; psychotherapist</h2>\r\n[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]This section answers real questions that are commonly asked to <strong>sexologist</strong> (sex therapist) &amp; <strong>psychotherapist</strong>. My expertise may guide you to help concerning certain sexual difficulties by reading the answers.\r\n\r\nIt is important to know that this does not replace therapy by a professional and they cannot be considered as a diagnostic. The answers may not fit every similar situation as I will be taking elements directly from the question. It is very probable that the answers may help you in your situation. This section is to help you reflect on your difficulty and to give professional information to help you find a solution.[/vc_column_text][gap size=\"30\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row padding_top=\"80\" padding_bottom=\"80\" bg_color=\"#f4f4f4\"][vc_column][vc_tta_accordion style=\"flat\" shape=\"square\" color=\"sandy-brown\" spacing=\"4\" active_section=\"1\" css=\".vc_custom_1488323215846{margin-left: 50px !important;border-right-width: 50px !important;padding-right: 100px !important;padding-left: 100px !important;border-right-color: #e58c59 !important;}\" no_fill=\"true\"][vc_tta_section title=\"Lack of sexual desire for a woman\" tab_id=\"1487964475587-e615d9cb-49d2\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<b><strong>Hello</strong></b><b><strong>,</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b><b><strong> am</strong></b><b><strong> married since 2005 and I’m</strong></b> <b><strong>35</strong></b><b><strong> years </strong></b><b><strong>and</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>2</strong></b> <b><strong>children</strong></b><b><strong>.</strong></b><b><strong> My problem is that I hate to make love with my husband. I love him a lot. I have chosen him as a husband and he does everything to please to me, but I do not know what is happening to me. Since the first day of our marriage, it has been the same thing. Each time it feels like rape to me.</strong></b>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<em>There are several reasons that could explain a lack of sexual desire or a dislike towards sexuality with a partner. Moreover, several people continue to have sexual relationships with their partner when there isn’t any interest to do it, and this is the case for men as for women. Sometimes, they do it out of marital obligation, to silence their persistent partner in their requests or to avoid a conflict. What are the factorswhich lead you to continue to have sexual activities when you do not feel the desire for them?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> can </em><em>be</em><em> very difficult to discuss </em><em>with</em><em> our partner our </em><em>disinterest</em><em> towards our couple’s </em><em>sex life</em><em>.</em><em> We can be afraid to disappoint them, hurt their feelings, create a conflict, undergo marital violence, etc. In any of these cases, it is important to respect ourselves. With this in mind, one can try to put their limits by refusing sex with their partner when they do not have the desire for it. How could you say this to your partner? How do you imagine the situation unfolding? Certain partners will strongly react to this refusal. They can become hot-tempered, sad, anxious, demoralized, angry, etc. How do you envision managing his reaction and the situation? What are the reasons which would prevent you from discussing it with him?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Avoiding</em><em> the </em><em>discussion can</em> <em>decrease</em><em> the </em><em>interest</em> <em>towards</em> <em>sexuality</em> <em>and</em> <em>consequently</em><em> brings </em><em>a</em> <em>person</em> <em>to hate</em><em>love-making</em> <em>with</em><em> their </em><em>partner</em><em>.</em><em> We can even develop unpleasant emotions towards our partner who agrees to have sex that we do not wish to have. Which emotions do you have towards your partner concerning thissituation? Certain people feel shame, disgust, anger, unhappiness, contempt, etc.</em>\r\n\r\n<em> Another</em> <em>aspect</em><em> which needs to be explored </em><em>is</em><em> the possible loss of respect </em><em>towards</em><em> the </em><em>partner</em><em> and ourselves </em><em>in</em><em> the process</em><em>.</em><em> When we agree to have sex that we do not wish to have, it becomes difficult to respect ourselves and our partner, which consequently, decreases our sexual desire towards them or sex altogether.How do you perceive your partner during a sex? What do you think of during sex? Do you believe that yourpartner feels your disinterest when you are physically intimate with him? What does that mean about you andyour relationship with your husband?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Our couple’s sexual dynamic is essential to evaluate when one partner feels a lack of sexual desire. More precisely, what do you hate about your sex life with your partner? What changes would you bring to your sex life? First of all, it is important to know our preferences when it comes to sex so we can then discuss it withour partner. Sometimes, couples have diverging ideas on certain sexual positions, practices or styles. Whatare your sexual preferences and those of your partner?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Do</em><em> you </em><em>believe</em><em> yourself to able to have </em><em>a</em><em> discussion </em><em>on</em><em> your </em><em>sexual</em> <em>practices</em> <em>with</em> <em>your</em><em> partner</em><em>?</em><em> This kind of conversation can create tensions in the couple and generate a conflict. It is more reassuring to perceive this conflict as a way to improve our relationship and our sex life then a fight with your partner. These conflicts are never easy to manage and often require the assistance of a professional, like a sex therapist or a couple’stherapist.</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> is also important to reflect on our own relationship with sexuality</em><em>.</em><em> The perception of sexuality is different for everyone. It is therefore preferable to question our perceptions about sex and relationship with sexuality in general. Do you feel sexual desire for other people? Do you like sexuality outside of your couple (masturbation, sexual fantasies, etc.)? What is your perception of sexuality? Did you ever have similar difficulties with other sexual partners? If you have a bad perception of sex or a difficult relationship with sexuality, it would be beneficial to consult a sex therapist individually in order to better understand thesefeeling.</em>[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Lower sexual desire for a man\" tab_id=\"1487964476053-b704912a-3f78\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello</strong></b> <b><strong>to</strong></b><b><strong> you</strong></b><b><strong>!</strong></b><b><strong> I have a big question! Is it possible that a 22 year old man doesn’t have any moredesire to have sex or is it simply a sign that our couple has problems? It’s now been 4 years that weare together, I am pregnant with my 3rd baby and the problem exists for the past 3 years. But now, it’s getting worse. For 2 months, we haven’t had any sexual contact!  We hardly kiss, touch, or hug each other. Do I need to leave this relationship?</strong></b>\r\n\r\n<em>There</em> <em>exist</em> <em>various</em> <em>reasons</em> <em>explaining</em> <em>a</em> <em>lack</em> <em>of</em> <em>sexual desire</em> <em>for</em> <em>one</em> <em>or</em> <em>both</em> <em>partners in a relationship</em><em>.</em><em> The dynamics of the couple and the satisfaction in the relationship can largely influence the sexual desire of a person towards their partner. It is also important to question about sexual satisfaction. What are your levelsof satisfaction in the couple and of your sex life for each one of you? Do you take the time to discuss your couple and sexual dissatisfactions? If so, how did you try to fix it?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> should be understood that in </em><em>each</em><em> couple</em><em>,</em><em> there is always a <u>Low Desire Partner</u> (LDP) and a <u>High Desire Partner</u> (HDP)</em><em>.</em><em> Contrary to popular beliefs, we find as many men as women being a LDP. The behaviours, attitudes and reactions of the HDP play a very important part on the sexual desire of their partner. Each one of these roles in the couple (HDP &amp; LDP) comes with its load of difficulties. The HDP often feels inadequatesexually and has the feeling of being unable to meet the sexual needs of their partner’s. They can also feelguilt, incomprehension, shame, anger, sadness for wanting more sex than their partner, etc. The LDP can feelpowerless, frustrated, harassed, and their personal self-esteem can become affected about not being a good partner. How do you manage/tolerate this difference between both of two?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>You</em> <em>mentioned</em> <em>that you were a mother</em> <em>of</em> <em>two</em> <em>children</em> <em>and</em> <em>a</em> <em>third</em><em> one </em><em>will soon</em><em> be part of the family. </em><em>There</em><em>is</em><em> a </em><em>certain</em> <em>adjustment</em> <em>which</em> <em>must</em> <em>occur</em> <em>for</em> <em>new parents</em> <em>who</em> <em>add</em><em> an extra </em><em>role</em> <em>of</em> <em>mother</em> <em>and</em> <em>father</em> <em>in</em> <em>their</em><em>couple</em><em>.</em><em> Sometimes, the role of being a man and a woman takes up less space or even disappears and are replaced by a mother and father </em><em>figure</em><em>.</em><em> Certain men have difficulty eroticizing the new image of motherwhom their partner now incarnates. As for women, their bodies change due to the pregnancy and it often has an impact on their perception of themselves which affects their femininity. Which impacts do you believe thatyour new roles of mother and father have had on your sex life?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Moreover</em><em>,</em><em> flirting </em><em>is frequently forgotten or put aside</em><em> in a couple </em><em>after</em><em> several </em><em>years</em> <em>of</em> <em>dating</em><em>.</em><em> We often take our partner for granted and limit our implication in seducing them. The High Desire Partner (HDP) will start to evaluate the level of sexual desire of their spouse rather than create it. Do you take the time to seduce yourselves in your couple? How do you do it? What happens if you don’t succeed?  Do you spend time as a couple, without the children?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>The</em> <em>lack</em> <em>of</em> <em>the</em> <em>sexual desire in one partner</em><em> is </em><em>a</em> <em>frequent</em> <em>step in a couple’s life</em> <em>and</em><em> is </em><em>even</em> <em>normal</em> <em>in</em><em> a </em><em>long term relationship</em><em>.</em><em> It is actually an opportunity to awaken and transform our sex life in the couple. On the other hand, it often requires leaving our comfort zone, to reveal ourselves on deeper levels and develop our eroticism. The assistance of a sex therapist often proves necessary due to the complexity of this difficulty.</em>[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"The importance of penis size\" tab_id=\"1487965861105-46994a77-8a48\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello sir, I would like to know what is the ideal size for a penis. For example: 15cm 18cm?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nThe size of the penis is an aspect which worries many men for various reasons. Several cultures andcivilizations put much emphasis on the size of male genitalia. For the man, it does not change anything when it comes to his sexual pleasure and the sexual arousal which he will be able to feel in his sexuality. For certainmen, the size of their penis will enable them to have more confidence in themselves and have theperception of being a better lover. Men who think they have a smaller penis then others often have a low sexual self-esteem which will negatively affect their appreciation of their sex life.\r\n\r\nThe size of the penis varies much from one man to another in his flask state (without an erection). On the other hand, the majority of penises in erection range from 5 to 6 inches on average according to international studies. One can speak of a micro penis when its length is below 4 inches when erect. However, studies also show that the majority of women are not worried about penis size. Certain women do attach some significance due to former sexual experience. In fact, some prefer a larger penis because of the feeling it provides during penetration or are sexually aroused when they see it or touch it. Others will prefer smaller ones because a larger penis can limit certain positions or can hurt. It all depends on personal preferences ofeach woman or man. Although the size of the penis has an importance for certain women, the great majorityput more emphasis on other factors to evaluate their sexual satisfaction with their partner. For example,tenderness, confidence, variety, manliness, intimacy, sexual intensity, etc.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is a complete sexual relationship\" tab_id=\"1487965863742-9699ccd9-badb\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello</strong></b><b><strong>,</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>a</strong></b> <b><strong>small</strong></b> <b><strong>question</strong></b><b><strong>. Do</strong></b><b><strong> most people prefer sex with penetration or is doing the 69 position (mutual oral sex) enough for them? Is the 69 position seen more as a preliminary or can it also be considered as having sex? Can 69 be considered a complete and satisfactory sexual act in a couple? I started a new relationship recently and my new boyfriend thinks that all women can be amply satisfied by doing the 69 position, according to his last relationships. That is why I ask my question.</strong></b>\r\n\r\nIn fact, sexual behaviours are varied and numerous in couples, whereas the popular belief is that sex is notcomplete without penetration and an orgasm (normally the men’s). With this restrictive way of thinking, oralsex will be regarded only as being part of sexual preliminaries. If this definition is used, it is thus consideredthat homosexuals and lesbians, the paraplegic or any person not using penetration in their sexual repertoiredo not have complete sexual relationships. What do you think about it? What is your definition of a sexual relationship?\r\n\r\nCertain people will define a sexual relationship as reaching orgasm. Others, by the level of satisfaction they obtain or the quality of the emotional exchange. Each definition is valid in itself, because everyone has theirown sexual preferences. The practice of oral sex can fully satisfy certain people, whereas others want the feelings that you can only get during penetration. Our definition of a “complete” sexual relationship can alsochange every time we have sex: a couple can be entirely satisfied with a manual stimulation (masturbate their partner’s) one evening, but want to practice penetration the next time they have sex. It is thus difficultto affirm that everyone can be satisfied by only one type of sexual behaviour. It is then important to varythese sexual practices on occasion in order to move away from a routine which tends to decrease the sexual desire of most couples <a href=\"http://http//sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">(read: </a><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">Lack of Sexual Desire is  Good for Your Couple</a><a href=\"http://http//sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">).</a>\r\n\r\nSometimes, partners do not agree on their definition of a “complete” sexual relationship. This leaves one of them dissatisfied; their needs are not being fulfilled during their sexual activities. In such a situation, a discussion between the partners is necessary so that each one finds their satisfaction. It is important to remain open to what the other can bring to us and to clearly explain what we are looking for in our sexuality<a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\">(read: </a><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\">Couple’s Communication Issues or Unable to Tolerate Intimacy?)</a>.\r\n\r\nAll in all, the more our perception of sexuality is widened, the more one has the potential to open up sexually.To limit our definition of a “complete” sexual relationship brings frustration, disappointment and dissatisfaction with our partner. We must sometimes leave our comfort zone, explore new avenues and redefine our perceptions of sexuality in order to develop our sexual maturity.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Masturbation and Virginity\" tab_id=\"1487965865928-cdbffe8f-1dd4\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>a</strong></b> <b><strong>problem</strong></b> <b><strong>which</strong></b> <b><strong>makes</strong></b> <b><strong>me</strong></b> <b><strong>live</strong></b> <b><strong>unhappiness,</strong></b> <b><strong>please</strong></b> <b><strong>help</strong></b> <b><strong>me</strong></b><b><strong>.</strong></b><b><strong> Does masturbation have a negative impact on my health? I am an 18 year old girl and I am so afraid that masturbation canmake me sterile because I heard that it causes several bad effects on health. Also masturbation has an influence on virginity! Please help me I am so frightened!</strong></b>\r\n\r\nMasturbation is a sexual activity which can be practiced individually or as a couple. It allows us to explore our body and the sexual sensations which it can provide. This practice also makes it possible to discover oursexual preferences, to explore various ways of arousing ourselves sexually and to increase our sexual pleasure. It also has advantages on our physical health; for example, it relaxes us, reduces our musculartensions and relieves stress. What are your reasons for masturbating?\r\n\r\nThere is no negative impact on the physical level when one masturbates and it does not affect fertility at all.In fact, it is even good to masturbate before, during and after pregnancy. Several myths on masturbation circulate to discourage people not to practice it, often for moral or religious reasons. Moreover, as mentioned above, masturbation also has various advantages on the psychological level. Does that reassure you?\r\n\r\nThe definition of virginity is not only cultural, but also differs from one person to another. For certain people,it will be associated with the presence of the hymen (thin membrane at the entrance of the vagina). For others, it will not be the case since the hymen can tear before the first penetration with a partner. For example, by using a tampon, practicing sports such as cycling or riding a horse, as well as masturbation, if penetration is used (fingers or objects). In addition, losing one’s virginity can be defined for certain people as the experience of a first sexual relationship. How do you perceive virginity? What importance do you grant it?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How to treat homosexuality?\" tab_id=\"1487965867788-930a9dd8-1d62\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Is it possible to leave homosexuality and to go back to heterosexuality? I was involved in homosexual relationships and I want to change. How can you help me? Is it possible to help me because you know routine blunts sensitivity or is man a creature of habit. How can you help me to be attracted by the opposite sex again? Is there a remedy?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nThere exists a variety of hypotheses explaining the origins of homosexuality, such as the level of hormones, development of the brain, sexual experiences, or a person’s upbringing. Some explanations are biological or social and a mixture of these two approaches exists as well. Several treatments and therapies have  already been tested in the past and they have proven to be dangerous and did not really help. It is thus not possible to treat or change someone’s sexual orientation, because it is not a disease or a mental health problem. How do you feel about this fact? What could help you to accept it better?\r\n\r\nSince our sexual orientation can’t be chosen, it can be difficult to accept it. This form of homophobia is generally influenced by personal values, cultural and family upbringing, as well as religion. On top of that, there are several myths on homosexuality, which persist in reinforcing homophobia. What are your reasons to prefer being heterosexual? How do you perceive each sexual orientation? What attracts you more towards heterosexuality rather than homosexuality? A therapy with a sex therapist can be necessary to overcome these difficulties and to better accept our homosexuality.\r\n\r\nThe process of acceptance is generally done in steps. There are some variations from one individual to another since each one will have a different personality, history and socio-cultural context. These steps include confusion, tolerance towards our sexual orientation, acceptance and finally their is pride in our sexual orientation. Where do you situate yourself in this process at the moment? Do you feel the need to be guided through this?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is Female Ejaculation?\" tab_id=\"1487965869509-b4cdf3d2-30ca\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello, how are you? I have a question, I was wondering what exactly is female ejaculation made of?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nFor many years now, there has been debates in the scientific community about the composition of female ejaculate. The latest research demonstrated that the liquid comes from the Skene glands, which are the equivalent of the prostate for men and that they can be found between the urethra and the vagina. On top of that, female ejaculate would also have the same composition as the liquid that is produced by the prostate in sperm. Although, since the exit point of female ejaculation is so near the urethra, it’s possible to find very small amounts of urine. It’s important to stress that urine is a sterile liquid and that female ejaculate can only have very insignificant traces of it.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Comment traiter le vaginisme?\" tab_id=\"1487965871669-2fdbc800-995c\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Souffrant de vaginisme, je souhaiterais savoir quel est le moyen le plus efficace pour en venir à bout. En ayant fouillé dans mon passé mon vaginisme trouverait sa source dans mon enfance adolescence, j’ai subi des attouchements par mon grand frère pendant quelques années, j\'ai enfoui cela dans un coin de ma tête sans penser que cela m’empêcherait un jour d\'avoir des relations sexuelles.</strong>\r\n\r\n<strong>Merci de votre précieuse aide.</strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIl existe différentes manières de traiter le vaginisme (fermeture des parois de l\'entrée du vagin qui empêche la pénétration par des doigts, un pénis, un spéculum ou des objets sexuels). Le traitement dépend de la cause et certains peuvent être combinés pour aider la femme à mieux vivre sa sexualité. <u>Une des causes principales</u> est d\'avoir vécu un abus sexuel. Suite à un tel évènement, le corps se protège aux prochaines expériences sexuelles et empêche une pénétration. L\'abus sexuel aura, de plus, d\'autres impacts sur la femme par rapport à sa perception de la sexualité, ses sentiments envers les hommes et les femmes, son rapport avec sa féminité, ses fantasmes sexuels et la relation avec son corps sexué. <a href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/pages/therapie\">Une thérapie avec un sexologue</a> peut s\'avérer nécessaire pour démêler tous ces éléments et vivre une sexualité épanouissante.\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nLes thérapies qui focalisent sur la <a href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/pages/atelier_sexualite\">réappropriation de sa féminité</a> au travers de son corps sont particulièrement efficaces pour retrouver le <a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2012/12/le-sex-le-corps-et-le-cerveau.html\">plaisir sexuel</a> avec soi-même et un(e) partenaire et ainsi mieux vivre avec l\'abus sexuel. Des activités exploratoires à effectuer à la maison seront souvent proposées par le sexologue pour apprendre à aimer son corps, se sentir davantage femme et jouir des différentes sensations que procurent le corps. Ces explorations permettent à la femme d’apprécier davantage sa sexualité en modifiant ses perceptions de celle-ci. Si la femme est en couple, des activités avec leur partenaire sont éventuellement intégrées pour vivre une sexualité à deux.\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIl est d\'ailleurs recommandé pour certaines femmes de suivre une physiothérapie spécialisée pour cette difficulté. Elles utiliseront des dilatateurs de tailles variantes pour simuler une pénétration vaginale et habituer la femme à la sensation. Il est important d\'aborder les aspects sexologiques en sexothérapie pendant ce traitement, car il pourrait davantage aggraver la difficulté, s\'il n\'y a pas un accompagnement adéquat de l\'expérience vécue. Certaines femmes par contre trouvent la méthode avec les dilatateurs comme étant mécanique et cela enlève l’aspect de plaisir sexuel associé avec la sexualité. De plus, l’achat des dilatateurs s’avère aussi très coûteux.\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIl est important de comprendre qu\'il existe diverses causes au vaginisme. Avant d\'entreprendre des activités exploratoires ou des exercices avec des dilatateurs, il faut d\'abord trouver la ou les <u>causes</u> sexologiques et physiologiques pour que le traitement soit adapté et individualisé pour chaque femme vivant avec cette difficulté sexuelle.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"L’identité de genre et l’orientation sexuelle\" tab_id=\"1487965876296-4664ca0a-6fa2\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Salut, ma question peut sembler étrange, mais voilà, je ne trouve pas d\'info sur internet. Est-ce possible de se sentir à la fois femme et homme, et sexuellement attiré par la personne du même sexe, dans les 2 cas, et non inversement. Je veux dire par la, se sentir femme, qui aime les femmes, et se sentir homme, qui aime les hommes.</strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nPour répondre à ta question qui est tout à fait légitime, il nécessite de définir la différence entre l’orientation sexuelle et l’identité de genre. L’orientation est défini comme étant l’attirance qu’on ressent envers un ou les deux sexes. Selon Klein (<a href=\"http://www.psychomedia.qc.ca/tests/klein\">http://www.psychomedia.qc.ca/tests/klein</a>), elle se détermine en 7 composantes, dont l’attirance physique/sexuelle, les comportements sexuels, les fantasmes sexuels, les préférences émotionnelles et sociales, la communauté fréquentée et l’identification à une orientation. On évalue chacun de celle-ci selon le passé, le présent et notre idéal. Comment te décrirais-tu selon chacune de ses composantes et périodes? Qu’est-ce que cette réflexion sur ton orientation sexuelle te fait ressentir, penser ou vivre?\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nL’identité de genre consiste à ressentir une appartenance à un ou l’autre des sexes. Je me sens homme ou je me sens femme. Pour certains, le sentiment d’appartenance n’est pas aussi clairement défini. Ils se questionnent, ils expérimentent et la majorité finit par se positionner. Il y a, par contre, des personnes qui se sentent réellement des deux sexes selon leur sentiment de la journée, les vêtements qu’ils portent, les activités qu’ils exercent, etc. Dans quelles circonstances te sens-tu comme un homme? Comme une femme? As-tu l’impression d’être perturbé par les changements de tes sentiments? Ou te sens-tu équilibré émotionnellement avec ta situation? Aurais-tu besoin d’éclaircissement sur ton sentiment d’appartenance à ton sexe?\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nL’orientation sexuelle et l’identité de genre sont interdépendantes. En d’autres termes, chacune peut avoir une influence sur l’autre, mais elles sont déterminées selon des facteurs propres à chacune. Il est tout à fait possible de se sentir comme un homme et une femme dans différentes situations et d’éprouver une attirance selon le contexte. L’important est d’abord de se sentir à l’aise avec son orientation sexuelle et son identité de genre. Qu’est-ce qui t’amène à te questionner sur ta sexualité à cet égard? As-tu l’impression qu’elle te crée des difficultés relationnelles, affectives ou sexuelles? Les sexologues sont spécialisés sur les questionnements liés à  l’identité de genre et à l’orientation sexuelle. Si tu en ressens le besoin, une sexothérapie peut t’aider à atteindre un équilibre!\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nBon cheminement.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Plaisir sexuel avec son partenaire\" tab_id=\"1487965878280-0b309368-6895\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Je suis une fille de 20 ans. Je ne peux pas avoir du plaisir avec mon mari, car je suis habitué de me masturber. Cela dure depuis 5 ans et je ne peux pas vivre comme ça. Aider moi.</strong>\r\n\r\nL\'incapacité à obtenir du plaisir sexuel avec son partenaire est causée par diverses raisons. Parfois, la cause provient du manque de connaissance de notre corps ou d\'une difficulté à démontrer et parler de nos préférences sexuelles avec notre partenaire. On peut éviter d\'en discuter pour ne pas blesser les sentiments de ce dernier. Par contre, plus longtemps on attend, plus il sera difficile d\'en discuter. Est-ce que ton partenaire est conscient de ta difficulté à ressentir du plaisir durant vos relations sexuelles? Qu\'est-ce qui pourrait t\'empêcher de lui en parler? Aurait-il des solutions à ce dilemme? Est-ce qu\'il y a des différences entre la manière dont tu t\'excites durant la masturbation et pendant les rapports sexuels?\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nLa relation que nous entretenons avec la sexualité et notre partenaire peut d\'ailleurs être un blocage à l\'orgasme. Celui-ci nécessite une variété de circonstances pour être atteint et plusieurs éléments peuvent y nuire quand nous sommes avec une autre personne. Il nécessite de consulter un <a href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/pages/contact\">sexologue</a> pour avoir une évaluation complète de ces blocages pour les comprendre et les surmonter.\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIl existe aussi d\'autres raisons expliquant cette situation. Chaque personne a un <a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/09/les-modes-dexcitation-sexuelle-partie-1.html\">Mode d\'Excitation Sexuelle</a> (MES) différent qui peut être difficile à reproduire par une autre personne. Chacun de ces MES ont leurs avantages, mais aussi leurs limites qui peuvent créer des difficultés sexuelles. La façon dont on se stimule durant la masturbation cristallise notre Mode d\'Excitation Sexuelle. Il faut donc apprendre à élargir les types de sensations qui peuvent nous exciter sexuellement durant les relations sexuelles. Pour élargir ses MES et apprécier davantage les multiples sensations que notre corps procure, il est possible d\'expérimenter par soi-même en variant les <a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2012/12/le-sex-le-corps-et-le-cerveau.html\">lois du corps</a>.\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIl est important de noter que la majorité des femmes atteignent l\'orgasme par la stimulation du clitoris qui est plus difficilement stimulé durant la pénétration. La femme ou leur partenaire peut stimuler le clitoris avec les doigts pour avoir un orgasme durant les relations sexuelles. Croyez-vous qu\'il serait aidant de stimuler votre clitoris durant les relations sexuelles avec votre partenaire?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Les pilules et outils agrandissantes fonctionnent-ils?\" tab_id=\"1487965881097-194eaf45-e6e2\"][vc_column_text]<b>Voilà depuis peu j\'ai eu 19 ans et je dois avouer que la taille de mon sexe me complexe légèrement. J\'ai commencer à fouiller le net a la recherche de solution qui pourrais m\'aider à l\'agrandir quelque peu car j\'ai l\'impression d\'avoir besoin de cela pour ma confiance en moi. J’ai vu beaucoup de choses et je voulais savoir si d\'après vous les extenseurs du pénis et les pilules d\'agrandissement marche réellement.</b>\r\n\r\n<span class=\"plus\">     </span>\r\n<div class=\"acc_container clear\">\r\n<div class=\"reponse\">\r\n\r\nLa grandeur du pénis concerne plusieurs hommes et peut affecter leur confiance à l’égard de la sexualité. Les pilules et outils prétendant agrandir les organes génitaux mâles n’ont jamais été étudiés à l’égard de leur taux de réussite ou de leur efficacité. De plus, il peut exister de nombreux effets indésirables d’utiliser ces méthodes. Est-ce que tu es prêt à prendre un tel risque? Est-ce que tu t’es bien informé des conséquences possibles, du fonctionnement et des résultats attendus de ces produits?\r\n\r\nNombreux sont les hommes qui veulent agrandir leur pénis car ils sont complexés. Une autre question intitulée : “L’importance de la taille du pénis.” explique les raisons derrière ce complexe masculin. Par contre, il est important de mettre en perspective qu’un homme a beaucoup d’autres éléments qu’il peut mettre de l’avant pour séduire une autre personne. Quelles sont tes qualités masculines? Quelles sont tes atouts en tant qu’amant? Amoureux?\r\n\r\nS’il est difficile de répondre à ces questions, il est fort pertinent de consulter un sexologue pour travailler sa confiance en soi au travers une sexo-thérapie. Cette dernière permet d’acquérir une aisance dans sa sexualité, apprécier ses forces, accepter ses limites et développer des habilités érotiques pour s’épanouir pleinement dans sa sexualité. Crois-tu avoir besoin de consultations avec un sexologue? Perçois-tu d’autres moyens avec lesquelles tu pourrais remédier à ta situation?\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Positions sexuelles\" tab_id=\"1487965882918-582529eb-5416\"][vc_column_text]<b>Il y a quelques jours on discutait entre amies sur les positions sexuelles et on se demandait pourquoi il existait autant de positions pour faire l\'amour ?</b>\r\n\r\n<span class=\"plus\">     </span>\r\n<div class=\"acc_container clear\">\r\n<div class=\"reponse\">\r\n\r\nLa variété des positions sexuelles apporte diverses sensations et stimulations sexuelles. Chaque personne a ses préférences qui sont déterminées par plusieurs facteurs. Parfois, le confort permet d’être plus détendues et d’apprécier les sensations physiques qui sont procurées. La variété des positions aide à changer la routine et la monotonie des relations sexuelles parfois présente. Elle nous procure aussi d’autres stimulations visuelles et d’apprendre à connaître notre partenaire de différentes façons.\r\n\r\nLes positions ont aussi un aspect psychologique et sexologique par rapport à la relation entre les partenaires. Certaines positions favorisent la prise en charge des mouvements et de l’intensité de celles-ci par l’homme et d’autres par la femme. Variez les positions sexuelles amènent un couple à explorer ses nombreuses dynamiques possibles et d’apprendre à connaître les différentes facettes de notre partenaire dans son érotisme. On peut vouloir prendre un rôle plus passif par moment ou plus actif dans d’autres.\r\n\r\nL’assortiment de positions sexuelles d’un couple a la capacité d’apporter de la nouveauté et d’exciter davantage. Par contre, il faut faire attention de ne pas juste se fier à la position elle-même pour mettre du piquant dans notre vie sexuelle. Notre attitude, notre intensité et connexion émotionnelle, notre capacité à se dévoiler et à être soi-même dans une relation sexuelle nous mène à une vie sexuelle plus épanouie.\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Fantasme sexuel\" tab_id=\"1487965884697-7394da5a-05b2\"][vc_column_text]<b>Je ne savais pas vraiment à qui poser la question. Donc, je me suis dit que la poser à un sexologue serait le meilleur! Voilà. Je suis avec mon chum depuis 8 mois maintenant, il habite à environ 1h de route de chez moi. Nous ne nous voyons pas la semaine, mais chaque fin de semaine, il vient chez moi. Il m\'a avoué l\'autre jour, la semaine, qu\'il regardait, à l\'occasion, du matériel pornographique style \'\'manga\'\', qui est appelée le \'\'futanari\'\' ce sont des relations sexuelles entre femmes, mais elles ont un pénis. Je me demandais... Qu\'est-ce qui attire les hommes au juste là dedans? Pourquoi ne pas regarder des relations sexuelles homme-femme à la place? Surtout, pourquoi une femme aurait un pénis, qu\'est-ce qui est excitant là-dedans? Il m\'assure que regarder des vidéos pornos de transsexuels ne l\'excite pas. Ça me dépasse. Je ne sais pas trop comment réagir, comment prendre cette nouvelle. Est-ce que c\'est quelque chose de courant chez les hommes?</b>\r\n\r\n<span class=\"plus\">     </span>\r\n<div class=\"acc_container clear\">\r\n<div class=\"reponse\">\r\n\r\nL\'imaginaire érotique d\'une personne prend une variété de formes différentes. Il y a toutes sortes de théories sexologiques expliquant l\'érotisation d\'un élément ou l\'autre que nous pouvons retrouver dans la sexualité. Pour arriver à la réponse, il nécessite d\'évaluer le vécu sexuel de la personne et déterminer l\'élément qui l\'excite dans le fantasme. Ce travail thérapeutique peut être pertinent si les fantasmes sont dérangeants pour la personne qui les utilise pour s\'exciter sexuelle. Par ailleurs, une personne qui consulte des films futanari pour se divertir, sans en avoir de besoin pour s\'exciter sexuellement et ne cause pas de difficulté dans sa sexualité, bénéficiera moins d\'une analyse de ses fantasmes sexuels. Qu\'est-ce qui te dérange dans ses fantasmes? Comment définirais-tu la norme de l\'imaginaire sexuel? D\'où proviennent les critères du normal vs l\'atypique, selon toi?\r\n\r\nIl y a un mouvement dans les dernières années où certaines personnes ont commencé à s\'identifier comme étant pan-sexuel. Ce terme désigne toute personne ayant la capacité d\'éprouver une excitation sexuelle ou un désir sexuel envers une personne consentante de tous genres sexuels (homme, femme, transsexuelle, transgenre, etc.). La pansexualité est une orientation sexuelle tout comme l\'hétérosexualité ou l\'homosexualité ou la bisexualité, mais qui inclut aussi les différentes variantes entre les 2 sexes. As-tu l\'impression que ton partenaire serait moins attiré par toi parce qu\'il écoute ce type de film érotique?\r\n\r\nIl n\'est pas facile de dévoiler ses fantasmes sexuels particulièrement si ceux-ci ne sont pas considérés comme étant la norme dans notre société. Être en mesure de dévoiler des fantasmes atypiques à sa partenaire démontre une capacité à être intime avec celle-ci. Nous ne pouvons rarement être certains de la réaction de l\'autre: rejet, dégoût, excitation, rapprochement, etc. Il y a toujours un risque à prendre dans une telle intimité sexuelle. Les 2 partenaires doivent s\'adapter à la révélation et se questionner profondément sur sa propre sexualité. Qu\'est-ce que cela suscite chez toi? Comment cela impacte la perception de ton partenaire et votre sexualité? Aimerais-tu lui poser des questions pour comprendre davantage?\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Vaginisme et médicament\" tab_id=\"1487965886508-2e1a661d-37c9\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Je ne savais pas vraiment à qui poser la question. Donc, je me suis dit que la poser à un sexologue serait le meilleur! Voilà. Je suis avec mon chum depuis 8 mois maintenant, il habite à environ 1h de route de chez moi. Nous ne nous voyons pas la semaine, mais chaque fin de semaine, il vient chez moi. Il m\'a avoué l\'autre jour, la semaine, qu\'il regardait, à l\'occasion, du matériel pornographique style \'\'manga\'\', qui est appelée le \'\'futanari\'\' ce sont des relations sexuelles entre femmes, mais elles ont un pénis. Je me demandais... Qu\'est-ce qui attire les hommes au juste là dedans? Pourquoi ne pas regarder des relations sexuelles homme-femme à la place? Surtout, pourquoi une femme aurait un pénis, qu\'est-ce qui est excitant là-dedans? Il m\'assure que regarder des vidéos pornos de transsexuels ne l\'excite pas. Ça me dépasse. Je ne sais pas trop comment réagir, comment prendre cette nouvelle. Est-ce que c\'est quelque chose de courant chez les hommes?</strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nEn ce qui concerne les médicaments que votre médecin vous a prescrits, je ne peux pas me positionner car je n\'ai pas une expertise médicale, mais plutôt thérapeutique. Le choix de prendre le risque des effets secondaires revient à vous dans le cas où vous êtes au courant de celles-ci.\r\n\r\nToutefois, je n\'ai jamais entendu parler d\'un traitement du vaginisme avec des médicaments, mais cela n\'empêche pas que cela soit une nouveau type de traitement. Selon mes recherches, vos médicaments prescrits rentrent dans la catégorie des anti-dépresseurs. Ces médicaments sont souvent prescrits pour les personnes ayant des troubles entourant l\'anxiété ou qui gère mal le stress, ce qui est souvent le cas chez les femmes ayant du vaginisme. Est-ce que cela serait votre cas par hasard? Si oui, votre médecin vous l\'a probablement prescrit pour cette raison, ce qui vous permettra d\'être plus détendu durant les relations sexuelles.\r\n\r\nPar contre, il existe d\'autres moyens de remédier à du vaginisme qui ne cause pas autant d\'effets secondaires. Une <a title=\"démarche thérapeutique\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/08/le-processus-dune-demarche-therapeutique.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">sexo-thérapie</a> par exemple regardera <a title=\"Ateliers\" href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/pages/atelier_sexualite\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">votre relation avec votre féminité</a>, les hommes, la sexualité, votre corps, la masturbation, votre vécu amoureux et sexuel, etc. Ces éléments jouent une grande part dans le plaisir sexuel qu\'une personne peut avoir durant les relations sexuelles. Vous avez mentionné le décès de votre père dans votre courriel. Cet évènement pourrait avoir une influence sur votre sexualité, selon la relation que vous avez entretenue avec celui-ci. Cette partie de la thérapie regarderait les éléments psycho-sexuel de votre difficulté.\r\n\r\nDes exercices de respiration pour gérer les émotions, des mouvements du bassin et une appropriation des muscles pelviens peuvent aider au vaginisme. Ainsi, une évaluation de votre <a title=\"Mode excitation sexuelle Partie 1\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/09/les-modes-dexcitation-sexuelle-partie-1.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">mode d\'excitation sexuelle</a>pourrait s\'avérer pertinente pour établir une cause au plan physiologique de votre vaginisme.\r\n\r\nJe vous propose donc de trouver un <a title=\"Contacter un sexologue\" href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/pages/contact\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">thérapeute spécialisé en sexualité</a> qui sera vous aidé avec cette difficulté.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Difficulté érectile et problèmes de santé\" tab_id=\"1487965888387-073159ab-43c8\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Bonjour, j\'ai 33 ans et vis avec l\'homme que j’ai épousé il y a 4 ans et avec lequel je partage ma vie depuis 13 ans. Nous n\'avons jamais réellement surmonté des problèmes insurmontables et sommes jusqu’à toujours arriver à un terrain d\'entente. J\'aime le sexe avec mon mari et rêve à plein d\'autres expériences excitantes, mais voilà, il y a 6 mois mon mari a fait un infarctus du myocarde et à même bien faillit en pas y survivre. ... Une partie de son coeur est fichu et il prend donc médicaments à vie. Après sa crise cardiaque une chose me turlupine pourra-t-il encore me faire l’amour?! Alors qu\'il fait sa rééducation cardiaque une semaine après être sortie de l\'hôpital, nous faisons parfois l\'amour, je vois mon mari en forme et très vigoureux, je me sens rassuré. Retour à la maison....lui ne change pas ses habitudes pour autant, il ne bouge pas, pas de sport comme le doc lui a conseillé, on a arrêté la cigarette il grossit comme à vu d\'oeil et prend presque tout dans le ventre, je déteste. ....Mais je l\'aime et j\'ai quand même envie de lui. Il rencontre en même temps des soucis érectiles, ses érections sont molles et n’endurent pas où alors tout simplement il n\'en a pas. Une fois il perd son érection en plein acte. Bien sûr je l\'aime et le rassure, mais moi personne pour me rassurer. Les médecins changent 3 fois son traitement et on y voit une amélioration, mais ça reste insuffisant. Nos rapports sont de très courtes durées, j\'ai peur que son pénis devienne mou c’est très frustrant. Je lui parle souvent de sexe, mais ça l’agace. Il dit qu\'il n\'est plus bon à rien que ça ne sert à rien de l\'exciter qu\'il ne bande pas...c\'est dur, car je l\'aime, mais en même temps j\'ai tellement besoin de sexe....je me mets à penser à avoir des amants à des aventures sans lendemain., je ne pense qu\'au sexe sans cesse....y a-t-il une solution à notre problème le temps va-t-il jouer en notre faveur? Je vous remercie vivement pour votre réponse que j\'attends impatiemment.</strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nLes problèmes cardiaques ont des effets importants sur la sexualité, surtout au niveau de l’excitation sexuelle (érection). Des ajustements et une adaptation sont nécessaires pour les deux partenaires au niveau de la sexualité. Comme vous l’avez dit dans votre courriel, le temps est un ingrédient clé à ces changements dans votre relation. Par contre, il nécessite aussi de mettre certains efforts et ne pas seulement attendre que le temps passe. Il faut l’utiliser de manière constructive.\r\n\r\nPar exemple, une thérapie de couple auprès d’un sexologue s’avère très utile dans ces circonstances pour aider chacun des partenaires à gérer leurs émotions et surmonter les obstacles qui se présentent suite à cet incident. Vous exprimez avoir personne à qui en discuter. <a title=\"Communication difficile\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/12/intimite-sexuelle-partie-i.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Qu’est-ce qui vous empêche d’en discuter avec votre partenaire de vos sentiments? </a>Croyez-vous qu’un soutien commun entre vous deux pourrait vous aider à vous adapter plus rapidement à ces changements? Quels avantages et inconvénients voyez-vous à lui en parler? Quand une personne garde ses émotions et frustrations pour elle-même, celles-ci s’accumulent et deviennent néfastes pour le bonheur du couple. La thérapie explorera votre <a title=\"dynamique de couple\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/10/quels-dynamiques-de-couple-avez-vous.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">dynamique de couple</a> pour vous outiller à travailler en équipe, ce qui vous donnera une meilleure chance de retrouver votre épanouissement sexuel.\r\n\r\nLes problèmes érectiles ont souvent une influence sur l’image que l’homme a de lui-même et sa masculinité. Pour cette raison, il faut apprendre à reconnaître ses forces en tant qu’homme de manière plus élargie que sur la fermeté de l’érection. Comment votre partenaire perçoit-il la masculinité et la virilité? Comment se sent-il dans sa masculinité depuis ses difficultés sexuelles? Quelle importance l’érection prend-elle dans sa satisfaction durant une relation sexuelle? Pourriez-vous ensemble explorer divers moyens pour exprimer sa masculinité à l’intérieur et à l’extérieur de votre sexualité?\r\n\r\nIl est possible que votre sexualité ne soit jamais comme auparavant. Cela est inévitable dans chaque couple, car le vieillissement et les maladies obligent à diversifier nos activités sexuelles et redéfinir les critères de notre satisfaction sexuelle. C’est un processus qui peut être long et difficile, mais qui pour plusieurs couples les rapproche au plan émotionnel et intime. <a title=\"Épanouissment sexuel\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2012/12/le-manque-de-desir-sexuel.html\" target=\"blank\">Certains réussissent à y trouver un plus grand épanouissement sexuel à travers ce type de difficulté. </a>\r\n\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Aucune sensation durant la pénétration\" tab_id=\"1487965890205-7cd53d5a-d2be\"][vc_column_text]<strong>J\'ai 40 ans et je suis divorcée depuis 1 an. Je suis actuellement avec un homme depuis 4 mois. Nous tenons beaucoup l\'un à l\'autre. Il me fait énormément jouir en pratiquant le cunnilingus, la position des cuillères, etc...mais lorsqu\'il me pénètre, je ne sens pratiquement pas son pénis ! Je n\'ose pas lui dire de peur de le vexer. Il arrive à éjaculer mais moi je ne sens pas son pénis se durcir. Cela m\'inquiète. Pouvez-vous m\'éclaircir à ce sujet ?</strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIl n’est pas évident de devoir parler de nos insatisfactions sexuelles à notre partenaire quand ce dernier en est la cause. Vous avez effectivement la bonne attitude de vous souciez de ses sentiments à l’égard de votre dévoilement. Par contre, quand on évite ce type de discussion avec notre partenaire, cela nous oblige à garder le secret pour nous et avoir des comportements sexuels qui ne sont pas plaisants. À court terme, on sauve un ego et on achète la paix. Toutefois à long terme, cela ne sera ni utile pour vous, ni pour lui. Il faut apprendre à tolérer ce genre de discussion qui nous pousse à développer une <a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/01/intimite-sexuelle-partie-2.html\">intimité validée par soi</a>. Sinon, la baisse de désir sexuel en est quasiment inévitable et il sera encore plus difficile d’avoir cette discussion plus loin dans votre relation.\r\n\r\nCette discussion vous permettra aussi de déterminer quelle est la cause probable. Il est possible qu’il ait des difficultés érectiles intra-vaginales qui engendrent peu de sensation durant la pénétration pour vous car son pénis n’est pas en érection complète. Cette difficulté peut d’ailleurs être traitée en <a href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/pages/therapie\">thérapie</a> par un professionnel de la santé tel un <b>sexologue. </b>La grosseur de son pénis pourrait aussi être un facteur contributif. Est-ce qu’il aurait un pénis plus petit que la norme en érection (5 à 7 cm)? Si tel est le cas, il se pourrait que les sensations soient moindres. Dans ce cas, il vous nécessitera de vous adapter à une sexualité ayant une variété de comportements sexuels pour satisfaire à chacun.\r\n\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Impacts de la pornographie dans le couple\" tab_id=\"1487965891995-b4d34a8d-330f\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Bonjour, je suis en couple avec mon copain depuis 5 ans et il y a un an (depuis que nous habitons ensemble) j\'ai appris que mon copain se masturbait devant des films pornographiques. Quand même régulièrement. Nous avons une sexualité active, ce qui me rend plutôt inquiet. Il est au courant que je le sais et que cela me rend inquiet. J\'aimerais comprendre le besoin de mon copain par rapport à sa consommation de pornographie. Est-ce moi le problème? Est-ce courant? J’espère que vous pourrez répondre à mes questionnements, car cela créer des conflits dans mon couple et la question me préoccupe énormément depuis un an. Merci beaucoup pour votre temps.</strong>\r\n\r\nLe visionnement de pornographie suscite une variété d\'émotions et de réactions chez les partenaires qui n\'en regardent pas. La pornographie touche à plusieurs valeurs chez un individu qui nécessite d\'être explorées. Quelles sont vos perceptions et celle de votre partenaire à l\'égard de la pornographie? Qu\'est-ce qui vous dérange plus spécifiquement de celle-ci? Est-ce le type de pornographie qu\'il regarde, la fréquence, le fait qu\'il se masturbe sur d\'autres personnes que vous? Est-ce la masturbation étant dans un couple qui vous dérange? Sinon, quelles différences faites-vous entre vous masturber sur de la pornographie et utiliser ses fantasmes sexuels ou même des histoires érotiques? Quels sont vos propres stimulus pour vous exciter sexuellement?\r\n\r\nIl se peut fort bien que vos perceptions diffèrent de celle de votre conjoint, ce qui est tout à fait normal dans un couple. Toutefois, une trop grande différence de valeurs sur une situation amène le couple à une <a title=\"Chicane de couple\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/10/solutions-aux-chicanes-de-couple.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">impasse émotionnelle</a>. Cette situation conflictuelle nécessitera à chacun à réévaluer leurs valeurs et perceptions de la sexualité pour déterminer si les émotions et comportements de son partenaire nous conviennent. Il arrive des moments dans un couple où nous ne pouvons tout simplement pas trouver un commun accord et il faut apprendre à tolérer et accepter cette différence fondamentale de notre couple. Dans d\'autres instances, cette différence est trop difficile à vivre dans la relation et la rupture est une option envisageable. Seriez-vous prêt avec votre conjoint de discuter honnêtement et ouvertement sur le sujet de la pornographie? Avez-vous des appréhensions ou des éléments que vous aimeriez spécifier avec lui? Pensez-vous avoir besoin de l\'aide d\'un professionnel tel un sexologue pour vous accompagner dans ce conflit?\r\n\r\nAvant d\'entreprendre cette discussion avec votre conjoint, sachez qu\'il est tout à fait normal pour des partenaires ayant une vie sexuelle active et satisfaisante de se masturber. La masturbation répond à des besoins différents d\'une relation sexuelle et elle permet aussi un moment de détente et plaisir avec soi-même. Est-ce qu\'il vous arrive de vous masturber? Plusieurs hommes en couple utilisent la pornographie pour se stimuler durant la masturbation sans conséquence sur leur vie sexuelle. Il est à noter toutefois que certains styles et types de pornographie peuvent nuire à la vie sexuelle du couple à long terme si elle diffère trop d\'une sexualité saine entre deux individus (ex: violente, image corporelle irréaliste, focalisation seulement sur les organes génitaux). Vous mentionnez être inquiet à l\'égard du visionnement de la pornographie de votre partenaire. Quelles sont ses insécurités? Parfois, ses insécurités sont en lien avec notre <a title=\"jalousie et mythe\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2013/04/mettre-les-pendules-lheure-par-rapport_7.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">jalousie ou la peur de ne pas être la seule désirable aux yeux de notre partenaire</a>. Cela nécessitera donc un travail sur soi de votre part sur votre estime personnelle pour surmonter ses insécurités.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Aucune sensation\" tab_id=\"1487965894597-53380b4c-1818\"][vc_column_text]<strong>Bonjour, je suis en couple avec mon copain depuis 5 ans et il y a un an (depuis que nous habitons ensemble) j\'ai appris que mon copain se masturbait devant des films pornographiques. Quand même régulièrement. Nous avons une sexualité active, ce qui me rend plutôt inquiet. Il est au courant que je le sais et que cela me rend inquiet. J\'aimerais comprendre le besoin de mon copain par rapport à sa consommation de pornographie. Est-ce moi le problème? Est-ce courant? J’espère que vous pourrez répondre à mes questionnements, car cela créer des conflits dans mon couple et la question me préoccupe énormément depuis un an. Merci beaucoup pour votre temps.</strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\nLe <a href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/pages/%22http://Le%20plaisir%20sexuel%20est%20un%20aspect%20de%20la%20sexualit%C3%A9%20qui%20prend%20beaucoup%20d%E2%80%99importance%20dans%20la%20sexualit%C3%A9.%20Elle%20est%20v%C3%A9cue%20de%20diff%C3%A9rentes%20mani%C3%A8res%20pour%20tous%20et%20chacun.%20Tu%20expliques%20ne%20rien%20ressentir%20durant%20les%20rapports%20sexuels.%20Qu%E2%80%99en%20est-il%20quand%20tu%20te%20masturbes?%20Est-ce%20que%20tu%20lui%20as%20d%C3%A9j%C3%A0%20montr%C3%A9%20la%20mani%C3%A8re%20dont%20tu%20aimais%20te%20faire%20toucher%20et%20caresser?%20Comment%20crois-tu%20qu%E2%80%99il%20r%C3%A9agirait?%20Si%20tu%20n%E2%80%99as%20jamais%20essay%C3%A9%20de%20te%20stimuler%20par%20toi-m%C3%AAme,%20cela%20pourrait%20%C3%AAtre%20une%20activit%C3%A9%20qui%20te%20permettra%20de%20conna%C3%AEtre%20tes%20pr%C3%A9f%C3%A9rences%20en%20d%C3%A9couvrant%20ton%20corps%20et%20les%20sensations%20qu%E2%80%99il%20peut%20te%20procurer.%20Parfois%20et%20surtout%20chez%20les%20filles%20adolescentes,%20l%E2%80%99apprentissage%20de%20s\">plaisir sexuel</a> est un aspect de la sexualité qui prend beaucoup d’importance dans la sexualité. Elle est vécue de différentes manières pour tous et chacun. Tu expliques ne rien ressentir durant les rapports sexuels. Qu’en est-il quand tu te masturbes? Est-ce que tu lui as déjà montré la manière dont tu aimais te faire toucher et caresser? Comment crois-tu qu’il réagirait? Si tu n’as jamais essayé de te stimuler par toi-même, cela pourrait être une activité qui te permettra de connaître tes préférences en découvrant ton corps et les sensations qu’il peut te procurer.\r\n\r\nParfois et surtout chez les filles adolescentes, l’apprentissage de son corps se fait plus difficilement pour une multitude de raisons dont sociales, personnelles, familiales, culturelles et relationnelles. Quels ont été les messages sur la sexualité et le plaisir sexuel pour les filles que tu as reçus? Est-ce que tu es d’accord avec ceux-ci? Comment te sens-tu durant les relations sexuelles avec ton partenaire? Calme, détendu, tendu, crispé, etc.? Pour ressentir du plaisir et une excitation sexuelle, il est nécessaire d’avoir une certaine tonicité musculaire au niveau du bassin et des mouvements corporels. Comment utilises-tu ton corps durant les rapports sexuels? Est-ce que tu es lubrifiée au niveau de la vulve et du vagin?\r\n\r\nParfois, les sensations au niveau du corps sont peu ressenties, car le désir sexuel n’est pas présent. Le désir sexuel se définit comme un élan ou le goût d’un rapprochement sexuel. Il existe différents types et catégories de désir sexuel et chacun apporte une dynamique différente au niveau de la relation. Crois-tu ressentir du désir sexuel envers ton partenaire? À ne pas confondre avec le sentiment amoureux! Qu’est-ce qui t’attire ou t’excite sexuellement chez lui? La pilule contraceptive peut parfois avoir un impact sur le désir sexuel, mais dans de très rares cas. Il serait possible pour toi de consulter ton médecin de famille et lui demander de t’en prescrire une autre pour voir si le désir sexuel changera, si ton désir est absent. La pilule n’aura pas contre pas un effet au niveau des sensations de ton corps et ta capacité à ressentir du plaisir.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Culpabilité sur ma vie sexuelle\" tab_id=\"1487965896525-2bffa916-708e\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Je suis une jeune fille de 23 ans. Je vous écris car depuis des mois, </b></span><span class=\"s1\"><b>j\'éprouve une énorme culpabilité sur ma vie sexuelle au cours de ces deux </b></span><span class=\"s1\"><b>dernières années.</b></span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Tout d\'abord, après ma séparation avec mon petit ami de longue date il y a presque deux ans, j\'ai commencé à regarder de plus en plus de pornographie. Cela a duré une année, puis j\'ai arrêté, comme pardégoût, avec l\'impression que tout cela finissait par me pervertir, mias aussi l\'impression que \"j\'en avais eu assez\", comme si j\'avais ovule découvrir ce que c\'était, par curiosité, et que ça m\'avait plu pendant un an jusqu\'à ce que je me rende compte que ça ne me convenait pas…</b></span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Quand j\'y repense aujourd\'hui, j\'éprouve encore beaucoup de culpabilité, comme si j\'avais fait une erreur, que j\'étais \"tombée dedans\" car je en suis fondamentalement pas en accord avec le monde de la pornographie, l\'image de la vie sexuelle, de la femme, de l\'homme, de la sexualité en général que la pornographie véhicule. Bien sûr, je respecte ceux à qui cela plait et comprends que cela puisse convenir à d\'autres et ne suis pas pleine de jugement (d\'ailleurs, je ne culpabilise que vis-à-vis de moi ; quand j\'imagine d\'autres personnes regarder du porno, cela me semble presque \"normal\", comme si j\'étais beaucoup plus sévère avec moi-même) ! </b></span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Simplement, j\'avais plutôt l\'impression que cela finissait par me pervertir; certaines images de ces films me revenaient à n\'importe quels moments hors contexte ; en pleine journée, il m\'arrivait d\'imaginer les personnes en face de moi dans ces situations pornographiques, mais m\'en rendais compte aussitôt et chassais alors rapidement l\'idée de mon esprit, comme si mon esprit m\'envoyait en tête des images que je ne voulais pas voir, mais Que. je ne pouvais pas lutter... Du coup, j\'avais honte et j\'ai encore </b></span><b>énormément de culpabilité à avoir pu avoir ces images \"à contre-cœur\" dans mon esprit, comme si ce n\'était pas moi qui les contrôlais…</b></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Est-ce bizarre ? Je me dis que personne ne s\'imagine la personne en face d\'elle dans une situation telle (même si ça ne durait qu\'une seconde dans ma tête puisque en total désaccord avec ces images, j\'avais honte qu\'elles me viennent à l\'esprit... mais ne pouvais pas le contrôler), alors jai beaucoup culpabilisé et me suis beaucoup inquiétée : suis-je perverse ???</b></span></p>\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Suite à avoir pris connaissance de ton courriel, je peux t’assurer que ce que tu vis est tout à fait normal. Plusieurs personnes vivent avec une culpabilité à l’égard de leur sexualité dû à leurs fantasmes et attirance sexuelles.</span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Malgré qu’on peut être en désaccord avec les valeurs véhiculées dans la pornographie, cela n’empêche pas nécessairement notre corps de réagir à la stimulation visuelle et auditive que celle-ci crée. Beaucoup de personne sont en discordance avec leur fantasmes sexuels car elles peuvent trouver dégoûtant ou mal ces derniers, mais tout même être très excité par celle-ci. Les fantasmes sont un aspect de la sexualité qui est très complex et remédier par nos blessures, nos expériences positives et négatives avec la sexualité, notre éducation, notre personnalité, etc. </span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Donc, ce qui nous excite ne fait pas toujours du sens parfois à première vue. Suite à une analyse plus en profondeur en thérapie avec un sexologue et psychothérapeute, on peut réussir à mieux comprendre et donner un sens à ces fantasmes sexuels. Sache que ton imagination sexuelle qui inclue les personnes que tu côtoie n’est en aucun cas perverse. L’être humain fantasme régulièrement dans une journée avec les gens de son entoure. On peut simplement les imaginer nue ou avoir des fantasmes plus élaborés de eux dans des contextes variés. Ce sont des pensées normales et naturelles. Parfois, se batter contre ses pulsions sexuelles peut au contraire leur donner du pouvoir érotique. Le taboo est souvent un élément très excitant, donc la culpabilité que tu ressens pourrait être cause de l’aspect érogène de tes flashs sexuels. </span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Il est certain que la difficulté que tu as es plutôt comment tu vis avec ce qui passes dans ta tête au moment des fantasmes de ton entourage. Il serait peut-être pertinent pour toi de consulter un sexologue et psychothérapeute pour que tu puisses vivre une sexualité en concordance avec tes valeurs et que tu sois en paix avec toi-même.</span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Comme tu l’as toi-même dit dans ton courriel, tu es plus sévère envers toi-même que les autres. Tu pourrais peut-être t’enlever de la pression que tu te mets inutilement à l’égard de ta sexualité et vivre plus dans l’acceptation de celle-ci et toutes ces facettes plutôt que de te culpabiliser constamment.</span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Sache que si tu voudrais explorer davantage ta sexualité, un <a title=\"sexologue et psychothérapeute\" href=\"https://lesexologue.ca/fr/\" target=\"\">sexologue et psychothérapeute</a> te sera d’une grande aide à l’égard de ton vécu sexuelle.</span></p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Si cela t’intéresse, nous pourrions prendre un rendez-vous à mon bureau ou <a title=\"skype séance\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/02/procedure-pour-une-seance-par-webcam.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">skype</a> (si vous êtes à l’extérieur de Montréal)  et nous pourrions explorer en profondeur une manière pour toi de vivre en harmonie ta sexualité. </span></p>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][/vc_tta_accordion][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'FAQ', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1673-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-05-15 03:57:31', '2017-05-15 01:57:31', '', 1673, 'http://lesexologue.ca/blog/2017/05/15/1673-revision-v1/', 0, 'revision', '', 0);
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(1806, 1, '2017-05-15 07:37:36', '2017-05-15 05:37:36', '[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<h2>Webseries: Sensual &amp; Erotic Education</h2>\n<h2>Video capsules on sexuality</h2>\nThis webseries, offered by a sexologist and psychotherapist will be educational and reflective. It will offer information and activities to explore alone or with a partner. It will also allow the viewers to obtain a more healthy and satisfying sexual and romantic life. The videos will put to the test your perceptions and beliefs about sex. Ultimately, the webseries aims to offer people more possibilities in their sex lives and to become more mature as a person and a partner. <a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#procedure\">Purchasing procedure of a webseries!</a>\n<div class=\"book\"></div>\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1598\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1488316059680{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\n<h2 class=\"title\">Websérie Éducation Sensuelle &amp; Érotique: Saison 1</h2>\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\n<div>La <a title=\"Éducation sexuelle, sensuelle &amp; érotique\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html\" target=\"\">SAISON 1 de la websérie</a> porte les concepts du désir, de l\'excitation et le plaisir sexuel pour aussi vous apprendre les différentes manières de séduire amoureuse et sexuellement. On réfléchit aussi à la différence entre la présence sexuelle et la performance sexuelle et les enjeux derrière ces dynamiques sexuelles. Une série complète de 9 vidéos sur l\'importance de maintenir et augmenter le désir sexuel dans un couple à long terme fait aussi sa place dans cette saison.</div>\n<div></div>\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#video0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie Intro: Augmenter plaisir sexuel</a>\n<a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#seduction\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 01: Séduction</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#presence\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 02: Présence sexuelle</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#desir1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 03: Maintenir désir sexuel</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#desir2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 04: Prochaine étape de votre couple</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#desir3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 05: Gérer la différence du désir sexuel</a></div>\n<div></div>\n<div></div>\n<div><big></big>Chaque série coûte 10$ et comporte 3 vidéos par websérie</div>\n</div>\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1601\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\n<p class=\"title\">Websérie: Augmenter votre intimité &amp; satisfaction sexuelle</p>\n\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\n<div>Vous aimeriez avoir une vie sexuelle plus épanouie, satisfaisante, connecté et intéressante entre vous et votre partenaire. Vous cherchez à renouer une vie sexuelle passionnée, spontanée et avec le plaisir comme au début de votre relation. Cette websérie vous servira à explorer votre sexualité à des niveaux que vous n\'y avez peut-être jamais pensés.</div>\n<div></div>\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.1) Types de désir sexuel</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.2) Connexion sexuelle</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.3) Augmenter connexion sexuelle</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.4) Regard intime</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video5\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.5) Toucher avec intention</a></div>\n<div></div>\n<div></div>\n<div><big><a title=\"Augmenter intimité et satisfaction sexuelle\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=K33VLPCANYUYA\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR SEULEMENT 15$</big></div>\n</div>\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1602\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1488316049075{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\n<h2 class=\"title\">Websérie: Jalousie</h2>\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\n<div>Vivez-vous dans une couple où la jalousie règne? Êtes-vous tanné des chicanes interminables sur les insécurités de votre partenaire? Aimeriez-vous mettre fin à votre sentiment de jalousie? Si vous avez répondu à l\'affirmative à une de ces questions, cette websérie pourrait sauver votre couple. Apprenez ce que la jalousie apporte comme insatisfaction dans un couple, la cause et des façons d\'y remédier. Que vous soyez le partenaire jaloux ou celui qui subit la jalousie, ces vidéos vous aidera.</div>\n<div></div>\n<div></div>\n<div>\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/comment-arreter-la-jalousie.html#video1\">2.6) Jalousie: Destructeur de couple</a></div>\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/comment-arreter-la-jalousie.html#video2\">2.7) Causes de la jalousie</a></div>\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/comment-arreter-la-jalousie.html#video3\">2.8) Entente préalable</a></div>\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/comment-arreter-la-jalousie.html#video4\">2.9) Arrêter la jalousie</a></div>\n<div></div>\n<div></div>\n<div><a title=\"jalousie\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=53UJ5PM7GZYL2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR SEULEMENT 12$</div>\n</div>\n</div>\n<div class=\"desc_livre\"></div>\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1603\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\n<h2 class=\"title\">Websérie: Syndrome du Nice guy</h2>\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\n<div>\n\nPlusieurs hommes ont adopté la personnalité du nice guy suite à leur expérience de vie. Malgré certains avantages de ces comportements, il existent des inconvénients à adhérer à cette dynamique. Difficulté à séduire, problème sexuel, zone d\'ami et frustrations accumulées sont quelques une des difficultés qui émergent de ce syndrome chez les hommes.\n<div></div>\n<div>\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/11/syndrome-du-nice-guy.html#video1\" target=\"\">1) Syndrome du Nice Guy &amp; LA zone d\'ami</a></div>\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/11/syndrome-du-nice-guy.html#video2\">2) Syndrome du Nice Guy &amp; manque d\'honnêteté</a></div>\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/11/syndrome-du-nice-guy.html#video3\">3) Nice Guy &amp; difficulté sexuelle</a></div>\n</div>\n<div></div>\n<a title=\"websérie 6\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=6STJANEDUVLEN\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR SEULEMENT 10$\n\n</div>\n</div>\n<div class=\"desc_livre\"></div>\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1605\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1488316597911{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\n<h2 class=\"title\">Série Intimité: Retrouver la passion et le désir sexuel</h2>\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\n<div>Avez-vous perdu la flamme dans votre couple?  Cherchez-vous à comprendre pour quelles raisons vous avez perdu le désir sexuel? Cette série de vidéo englobe les nombreuses dynamiques et éléments qui minent le désir sexuel. On explore ce qui fonctionne et ne fonctionne pas dans les relations et en offrant des pistes de réflexion et des activités exploratoires pour renouer l\'intimité sexuelle et augmenter votre satisfaction dans le couple.</div>\n<div></div>\n<div><u> </u></div>\n<div><u>CONTENU DE LA SÉRIE</u></div>\n<div><u> </u></div>\n<div><a title=\"serie intimité partie 1\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2016/03/intimite-retrouver-passion-desir-sexuel.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">PARTIE 1: Baisse de désir sexuel...une opportunité!</a></div>\n<div></div>\n<div>1) Évolution du désir sexuel</div>\n<div>2) La prochaine étape de votre sexualité et votre relation</div>\n<div>3) Gérer les différences au plan sexuel</div>\n<div></div>\n<div><a title=\"serie intimité partie 2\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2016/03/serie-intimite-desir-sexuel.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Partie 2: Rétablir la connexion sexuelle</a></div>\n<div></div>\n<div>4) Apprendre à séduire de nouveau</div>\n<div>5) De la performance à la présence sexuelle</div>\n<div>6) Augmenter votre capacité à connecter sexuellement avec votre partenaire</div>\n<div></div>\n<div></div>\n<div><b>Plus de 3h45 de contenu</b></div>\n<div><b> </b></div>\n<div>\n<div></div>\n<div><big><a title=\"acheter serie intimité\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=4XEZCHJ9FGYEJ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR SEULEMENT 55$\n</big></div>\n</div>\n</div>\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1606\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1489707148081{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\n<h1 class=\"title\">Progamme: Éjaculation précoce/rapide</h1>\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\n\nL\'éjaculation rapide est la difficulté sexuelle la plus commune chez les hommes. Ces vidéos vous apprendront à mieux gérer l\'excitation par l\'utilisation de votre corps, exploreront les aspects émotionnelles et psychologiques de l\'éjaculation rapide et vous feront réfléchir sur votre dynamique sexuelle et relationnelle.\n<div></div>\n<div><a title=\"Introduction\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Vidéo Introduction</a> (visionner gratuitement)</div>\n<div></div>\n<div><a title=\"Désir, plaisir &amp; excitation\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video1\" target=\"\">1) Désir, excitation &amp; plaisir sexuel: les différences</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"plaisir sexuel &amp; espace\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video2\" target=\"\">2) Plaisir sexuel &amp; l\'espace de votre corps</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"Tonicité, vitesse &amp; plaisir sexuelle\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video3\" target=\"\">3) Tonicité &amp; vitesse de votre corps</a></div>\n<div></div>\n<div><a title=\"Mode d\'excitation sexuelle Partie 1\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video4\" target=\"\">4) Mode d\'excitation sexuelle Partie 1</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"Mode d\'excitation sexuelle Partie 2\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video5\" target=\"\">5) Mode d\'excitation sexuelle Partie 2</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"Fluidité &amp; volupté sexuelle\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video6\" target=\"\">6) Apprendre la volupté et fluidité sexuelle</a></div>\n<div></div>\n<div><a title=\"éjaculation rapide &amp; vitesse\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video7\" target=\"\">7) Éjaculation rapide: Une vitesse généralisée</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"ejaculation précoce &amp; anxiété\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video8\" target=\"\">8) Éjaculation rapide: Des anxiétés profondes</a></div>\n<div><a title=\"éjaculation précoce &amp; difficultés relationnelle\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video9\" target=\"\">9) Éjaculation rapide: Difficultés relationnelles</a></div>\n<div></div>\n<div><a title=\"Masculinité fragilisé\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video10\" target=\"\">10) Masculinité fragilisé</a></div>\n<div></div>\n<div></div>\n<div><big><a title=\"Programme éjaculation précoce\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=5H5XUUMSGHFES\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR 40$</big></div>\n</div>\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'Capsules vidéos', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1733-autosave-v1', '', '', '2017-05-15 07:37:36', '2017-05-15 05:37:36', '', 1733, 'http://lesexologue.ca/blog/2017/05/15/1733-autosave-v1/', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
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Ultimately, the webseries aims to offer people more possibilities in their sex lives and to become more mature as a person and a partner. <a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#procedure\">Purchasing procedure of a webseries!</a>\r\n<div class=\"book\"></div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1598\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1488316059680{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Webseries: Sensual &amp; Erotic Education</h2>\r\n<h2 class=\"title\">Saison 1</h2>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n<div>La <a title=\"Éducation sexuelle, sensuelle &amp; érotique\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html\" target=\"\">SAISON 1 de la websérie</a> porte les concepts du désir, de l\'excitation et le plaisir sexuel pour aussi vous apprendre les différentes manières de séduire amoureuse et sexuellement. On réfléchit aussi à la différence entre la présence sexuelle et la performance sexuelle et les enjeux derrière ces dynamiques sexuelles. Une série complète de 9 vidéos sur l\'importance de maintenir et augmenter le désir sexuel dans un couple à long terme fait aussi sa place dans cette saison.</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#video0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie Intro: Augmenter plaisir sexuel</a>\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#seduction\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 01: Séduction</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#presence\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 02: Présence sexuelle</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#desir1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 03: Maintenir désir sexuel</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#desir2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 04: Prochaine étape de votre couple</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#desir3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 05: Gérer la différence du désir sexuel</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><big></big>Chaque série coûte 10$ et comporte 3 vidéos par websérie</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1601\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<p class=\"title\">Websérie: Augmenter votre intimité &amp; satisfaction sexuelle</p>\r\n\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n<div>Vous aimeriez avoir une vie sexuelle plus épanouie, satisfaisante, connecté et intéressante entre vous et votre partenaire. Vous cherchez à renouer une vie sexuelle passionnée, spontanée et avec le plaisir comme au début de votre relation. Cette websérie vous servira à explorer votre sexualité à des niveaux que vous n\'y avez peut-être jamais pensés.</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.1) Types de désir sexuel</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.2) Connexion sexuelle</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.3) Augmenter connexion sexuelle</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.4) Regard intime</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video5\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.5) Toucher avec intention</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><big><a title=\"Augmenter intimité et satisfaction sexuelle\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=K33VLPCANYUYA\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR SEULEMENT 15$</big></div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1602\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1488316049075{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2 class=\"title\">Websérie: Jalousie</h2>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n<div>Vivez-vous dans une couple où la jalousie règne? Êtes-vous tanné des chicanes interminables sur les insécurités de votre partenaire? Aimeriez-vous mettre fin à votre sentiment de jalousie? Si vous avez répondu à l\'affirmative à une de ces questions, cette websérie pourrait sauver votre couple. Apprenez ce que la jalousie apporte comme insatisfaction dans un couple, la cause et des façons d\'y remédier. Que vous soyez le partenaire jaloux ou celui qui subit la jalousie, ces vidéos vous aidera.</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/comment-arreter-la-jalousie.html#video1\">2.6) Jalousie: Destructeur de couple</a></div>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/comment-arreter-la-jalousie.html#video2\">2.7) Causes de la jalousie</a></div>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/comment-arreter-la-jalousie.html#video3\">2.8) Entente préalable</a></div>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/comment-arreter-la-jalousie.html#video4\">2.9) Arrêter la jalousie</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"jalousie\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=53UJ5PM7GZYL2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR SEULEMENT 12$</div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\"></div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1603\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2 class=\"title\">Websérie: Syndrome du Nice guy</h2>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n<div>\r\n\r\nPlusieurs hommes ont adopté la personnalité du nice guy suite à leur expérience de vie. Malgré certains avantages de ces comportements, il existent des inconvénients à adhérer à cette dynamique. Difficulté à séduire, problème sexuel, zone d\'ami et frustrations accumulées sont quelques une des difficultés qui émergent de ce syndrome chez les hommes.\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/11/syndrome-du-nice-guy.html#video1\" target=\"\">1) Syndrome du Nice Guy &amp; LA zone d\'ami</a></div>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/11/syndrome-du-nice-guy.html#video2\">2) Syndrome du Nice Guy &amp; manque d\'honnêteté</a></div>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/11/syndrome-du-nice-guy.html#video3\">3) Nice Guy &amp; difficulté sexuelle</a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<a title=\"websérie 6\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=6STJANEDUVLEN\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR SEULEMENT 10$\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\"></div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1605\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1488316597911{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2 class=\"title\">Série Intimité: Retrouver la passion et le désir sexuel</h2>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n<div>Avez-vous perdu la flamme dans votre couple?  Cherchez-vous à comprendre pour quelles raisons vous avez perdu le désir sexuel? Cette série de vidéo englobe les nombreuses dynamiques et éléments qui minent le désir sexuel. On explore ce qui fonctionne et ne fonctionne pas dans les relations et en offrant des pistes de réflexion et des activités exploratoires pour renouer l\'intimité sexuelle et augmenter votre satisfaction dans le couple.</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><u> </u></div>\r\n<div><u>CONTENU DE LA SÉRIE</u></div>\r\n<div><u> </u></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"serie intimité partie 1\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2016/03/intimite-retrouver-passion-desir-sexuel.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">PARTIE 1: Baisse de désir sexuel...une opportunité!</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div>1) Évolution du désir sexuel</div>\r\n<div>2) La prochaine étape de votre sexualité et votre relation</div>\r\n<div>3) Gérer les différences au plan sexuel</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"serie intimité partie 2\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2016/03/serie-intimite-desir-sexuel.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Partie 2: Rétablir la connexion sexuelle</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div>4) Apprendre à séduire de nouveau</div>\r\n<div>5) De la performance à la présence sexuelle</div>\r\n<div>6) Augmenter votre capacité à connecter sexuellement avec votre partenaire</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><b>Plus de 3h45 de contenu</b></div>\r\n<div><b> </b></div>\r\n<div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><big><a title=\"acheter serie intimité\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=4XEZCHJ9FGYEJ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR SEULEMENT 55$\r\n</big></div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1606\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1489707148081{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h1 class=\"title\">Progamme: Éjaculation précoce/rapide</h1>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n\r\nL\'éjaculation rapide est la difficulté sexuelle la plus commune chez les hommes. Ces vidéos vous apprendront à mieux gérer l\'excitation par l\'utilisation de votre corps, exploreront les aspects émotionnelles et psychologiques de l\'éjaculation rapide et vous feront réfléchir sur votre dynamique sexuelle et relationnelle.\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Introduction\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Vidéo Introduction</a> (visionner gratuitement)</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Désir, plaisir &amp; excitation\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video1\" target=\"\">1) Désir, excitation &amp; plaisir sexuel: les différences</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"plaisir sexuel &amp; espace\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video2\" target=\"\">2) Plaisir sexuel &amp; l\'espace de votre corps</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Tonicité, vitesse &amp; plaisir sexuelle\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video3\" target=\"\">3) Tonicité &amp; vitesse de votre corps</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Mode d\'excitation sexuelle Partie 1\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video4\" target=\"\">4) Mode d\'excitation sexuelle Partie 1</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Mode d\'excitation sexuelle Partie 2\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video5\" target=\"\">5) Mode d\'excitation sexuelle Partie 2</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Fluidité &amp; volupté sexuelle\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video6\" target=\"\">6) Apprendre la volupté et fluidité sexuelle</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"éjaculation rapide &amp; vitesse\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video7\" target=\"\">7) Éjaculation rapide: Une vitesse généralisée</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"ejaculation précoce &amp; anxiété\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video8\" target=\"\">8) Éjaculation rapide: Des anxiétés profondes</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"éjaculation précoce &amp; difficultés relationnelle\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video9\" target=\"\">9) Éjaculation rapide: Difficultés relationnelles</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Masculinité fragilisé\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video10\" target=\"\">10) Masculinité fragilisé</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><big><a title=\"Programme éjaculation précoce\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=5H5XUUMSGHFES\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR 40$</big></div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'Capsules vidéos', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1733-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-05-15 07:39:03', '2017-05-15 05:39:03', '', 1733, 'http://lesexologue.ca/blog/2017/05/15/1733-revision-v1/', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
(1808, 1, '2017-05-15 07:39:56', '2017-05-15 05:39:56', '[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Webseries: Sensual &amp; Erotic Education</h2>\r\n<h2>Video capsules on sexuality</h2>\r\nThis webseries, offered by a sexologist and psychotherapist will be educational and reflective. It will offer information and activities to explore alone or with a partner. It will also allow the viewers to obtain a more healthy and satisfying sexual and romantic life. The videos will put to the test your perceptions and beliefs about sex. Ultimately, the webseries aims to offer people more possibilities in their sex lives and to become more mature as a person and a partner. <a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#procedure\">Purchasing procedure of a webseries!</a>\r\n<div class=\"book\"></div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1598\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1488316059680{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Webseries: Sensual &amp; Erotic Education</h2>\r\n<h2 class=\"title\">Saison 1</h2>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n<div>La <a title=\"Éducation sexuelle, sensuelle &amp; érotique\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html\" target=\"\">SAISON 1 de la websérie</a> porte les concepts du désir, de l\'excitation et le plaisir sexuel pour aussi vous apprendre les différentes manières de séduire amoureuse et sexuellement. On réfléchit aussi à la différence entre la présence sexuelle et la performance sexuelle et les enjeux derrière ces dynamiques sexuelles. Une série complète de 9 vidéos sur l\'importance de maintenir et augmenter le désir sexuel dans un couple à long terme fait aussi sa place dans cette saison.</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#video0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie Intro: Augmenter plaisir sexuel</a>\r\n<a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#seduction\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 01: Séduction</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#presence\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 02: Présence sexuelle</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#desir1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 03: Maintenir désir sexuel</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#desir2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 04: Prochaine étape de votre couple</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/07/education-sensuelle-erotique.html#desir3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Websérie 05: Gérer la différence du désir sexuel</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><big></big>Chaque série coûte 10$ et comporte 3 vidéos par websérie</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1601\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<p class=\"title\">Websérie: Augmenter votre intimité &amp; satisfaction sexuelle</p>\r\n\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n<div>Vous aimeriez avoir une vie sexuelle plus épanouie, satisfaisante, connecté et intéressante entre vous et votre partenaire. Vous cherchez à renouer une vie sexuelle passionnée, spontanée et avec le plaisir comme au début de votre relation. Cette websérie vous servira à explorer votre sexualité à des niveaux que vous n\'y avez peut-être jamais pensés.</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.1) Types de désir sexuel</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.2) Connexion sexuelle</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.3) Augmenter connexion sexuelle</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.4) Regard intime</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/augmenter-satisfaction-sexe.html#video5\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2.5) Toucher avec intention</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><big><a title=\"Augmenter intimité et satisfaction sexuelle\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=K33VLPCANYUYA\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR SEULEMENT 15$</big></div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1602\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1488316049075{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2 class=\"title\">Websérie: Jalousie</h2>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n<div>Vivez-vous dans une couple où la jalousie règne? Êtes-vous tanné des chicanes interminables sur les insécurités de votre partenaire? Aimeriez-vous mettre fin à votre sentiment de jalousie? Si vous avez répondu à l\'affirmative à une de ces questions, cette websérie pourrait sauver votre couple. Apprenez ce que la jalousie apporte comme insatisfaction dans un couple, la cause et des façons d\'y remédier. Que vous soyez le partenaire jaloux ou celui qui subit la jalousie, ces vidéos vous aidera.</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/comment-arreter-la-jalousie.html#video1\">2.6) Jalousie: Destructeur de couple</a></div>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/comment-arreter-la-jalousie.html#video2\">2.7) Causes de la jalousie</a></div>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/comment-arreter-la-jalousie.html#video3\">2.8) Entente préalable</a></div>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/09/comment-arreter-la-jalousie.html#video4\">2.9) Arrêter la jalousie</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"jalousie\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=53UJ5PM7GZYL2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR SEULEMENT 12$</div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\"></div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1603\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2 class=\"title\">Websérie: Syndrome du Nice guy</h2>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n<div>\r\n\r\nPlusieurs hommes ont adopté la personnalité du nice guy suite à leur expérience de vie. Malgré certains avantages de ces comportements, il existent des inconvénients à adhérer à cette dynamique. Difficulté à séduire, problème sexuel, zone d\'ami et frustrations accumulées sont quelques une des difficultés qui émergent de ce syndrome chez les hommes.\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div>\r\n<div><a title=\"\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/11/syndrome-du-nice-guy.html#video1\" target=\"\">1) Syndrome du Nice Guy &amp; LA zone d\'ami</a></div>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/11/syndrome-du-nice-guy.html#video2\">2) Syndrome du Nice Guy &amp; manque d\'honnêteté</a></div>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/11/syndrome-du-nice-guy.html#video3\">3) Nice Guy &amp; difficulté sexuelle</a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<a title=\"websérie 6\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=6STJANEDUVLEN\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR SEULEMENT 10$\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\"></div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1605\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1488316597911{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2 class=\"title\">Série Intimité: Retrouver la passion et le désir sexuel</h2>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n<div>Avez-vous perdu la flamme dans votre couple?  Cherchez-vous à comprendre pour quelles raisons vous avez perdu le désir sexuel? Cette série de vidéo englobe les nombreuses dynamiques et éléments qui minent le désir sexuel. On explore ce qui fonctionne et ne fonctionne pas dans les relations et en offrant des pistes de réflexion et des activités exploratoires pour renouer l\'intimité sexuelle et augmenter votre satisfaction dans le couple.</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><u> </u></div>\r\n<div><u>CONTENU DE LA SÉRIE</u></div>\r\n<div><u> </u></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"serie intimité partie 1\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2016/03/intimite-retrouver-passion-desir-sexuel.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">PARTIE 1: Baisse de désir sexuel...une opportunité!</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div>1) Évolution du désir sexuel</div>\r\n<div>2) La prochaine étape de votre sexualité et votre relation</div>\r\n<div>3) Gérer les différences au plan sexuel</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"serie intimité partie 2\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2016/03/serie-intimite-desir-sexuel.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Partie 2: Rétablir la connexion sexuelle</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div>4) Apprendre à séduire de nouveau</div>\r\n<div>5) De la performance à la présence sexuelle</div>\r\n<div>6) Augmenter votre capacité à connecter sexuellement avec votre partenaire</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><b>Plus de 3h45 de contenu</b></div>\r\n<div><b> </b></div>\r\n<div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><big><a title=\"acheter serie intimité\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=4XEZCHJ9FGYEJ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR SEULEMENT 55$\r\n</big></div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"1606\" img_size=\"medium\" alignment=\"center\" css=\".vc_custom_1489707148081{padding-top: 40px !important;}\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h1 class=\"title\">Progamme: Éjaculation précoce/rapide</h1>\r\n<div class=\"desc_livre\">\r\n\r\nL\'éjaculation rapide est la difficulté sexuelle la plus commune chez les hommes. Ces vidéos vous apprendront à mieux gérer l\'excitation par l\'utilisation de votre corps, exploreront les aspects émotionnelles et psychologiques de l\'éjaculation rapide et vous feront réfléchir sur votre dynamique sexuelle et relationnelle.\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Introduction\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Vidéo Introduction</a> (visionner gratuitement)</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Désir, plaisir &amp; excitation\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video1\" target=\"\">1) Désir, excitation &amp; plaisir sexuel: les différences</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"plaisir sexuel &amp; espace\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video2\" target=\"\">2) Plaisir sexuel &amp; l\'espace de votre corps</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Tonicité, vitesse &amp; plaisir sexuelle\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video3\" target=\"\">3) Tonicité &amp; vitesse de votre corps</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Mode d\'excitation sexuelle Partie 1\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video4\" target=\"\">4) Mode d\'excitation sexuelle Partie 1</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Mode d\'excitation sexuelle Partie 2\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video5\" target=\"\">5) Mode d\'excitation sexuelle Partie 2</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Fluidité &amp; volupté sexuelle\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video6\" target=\"\">6) Apprendre la volupté et fluidité sexuelle</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"éjaculation rapide &amp; vitesse\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video7\" target=\"\">7) Éjaculation rapide: Une vitesse généralisée</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"ejaculation précoce &amp; anxiété\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video8\" target=\"\">8) Éjaculation rapide: Des anxiétés profondes</a></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"éjaculation précoce &amp; difficultés relationnelle\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video9\" target=\"\">9) Éjaculation rapide: Difficultés relationnelles</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a title=\"Masculinité fragilisé\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2014/10/solution-ejaculation-precoce.html#video10\" target=\"\">10) Masculinité fragilisé</a></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><big><a title=\"Programme éjaculation précoce\" href=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&amp;hosted_button_id=5H5XUUMSGHFES\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ACHETER</a> POUR 40$</big></div>\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'Video capsules', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1733-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-05-15 07:39:56', '2017-05-15 05:39:56', '', 1733, 'http://lesexologue.ca/blog/2017/05/15/1733-revision-v1/', 0, 'revision', '', 0);
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(2824, 2, '2019-03-20 20:44:40', '2019-03-20 19:44:40', '<h2>Baisse de désir sexuel...une opportunité!</h2>\r\n<h3></h3>\r\n<h3></h3>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; font-weight: normal; text-align: center;\">VIDÉO D\'INTRODUCTION</div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; font-size: medium; font-weight: normal; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; font-size: medium; font-weight: normal; text-align: center;\"><iframe class=\"YOUTUBE-iframe-video\" src=\"https://www.youtube.com/embed/4yf2lqGOdIA?feature=player_embedded\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-thumbnail-src=\"https://i.ytimg.com/vi/4yf2lqGOdIA/0.jpg\"></iframe></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; font-size: medium; font-weight: normal; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; font-size: medium; font-weight: normal; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><form action=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr\" method=\"post\" target=\"_top\">\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><input name=\"cmd\" type=\"hidden\" value=\"_s-xclick\" />\r\n<input name=\"hosted_button_id\" type=\"hidden\" value=\"4XEZCHJ9FGYEJ\" /></div>\r\n</form></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; font-size: medium; font-weight: normal; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; font-size: medium; font-weight: normal; text-align: center;\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; font-size: medium; font-weight: normal; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n<h3>1. Évolution du désir sexuel</h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">\r\n<h4>1.1) Étape du désir sexuel</h4>\r\n</div>\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><iframe class=\"YOUTUBE-iframe-video\" src=\"https://www.youtube.com/embed/VhBqpDGO_1g?feature=player_embedded\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-thumbnail-src=\"https://i.ytimg.com/s_vi/VhBqpDGO_1g/default.jpg?sqp=CIiQ6rcF&amp;rs=AOn4CLDTWvFs3Bb-CVfGrqQBHQDY8CProA\"></iframe></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<h4 style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">1.2) Opportunité sexuelle: baisse de désir</h4>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe class=\"YOUTUBE-iframe-video\" src=\"https://www.youtube.com/embed/H91KMsxda4c?feature=player_embedded\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-thumbnail-src=\"https://i.ytimg.com/s_vi/H91KMsxda4c/default.jpg?sqp=CMSu6rcF&amp;rs=AOn4CLAE4q5uFDCpkCVkNDE-iO7vFof9dg\"></iframe></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">\r\n<h4>1.3) Intimité et désir sexuel: un mariage essentiel</h4>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><iframe class=\"YOUTUBE-iframe-video\" src=\"https://www.youtube.com/embed/vjVRrEGEt54?feature=player_embedded\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-thumbnail-src=\"https://i.ytimg.com/s_vi/vjVRrEGEt54/default.jpg?sqp=CMSu6rcF&amp;rs=AOn4CLBWYEibFtRbciWP1gntgX4Dyp_03Q\"></iframe></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><form action=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr\" method=\"post\" target=\"_top\">\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><input name=\"cmd\" type=\"hidden\" value=\"_s-xclick\" />\r\n<input name=\"hosted_button_id\" type=\"hidden\" value=\"4XEZCHJ9FGYEJ\" /></div>\r\n</form></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">\r\n<div></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.agence360.co/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2016/03/nudite-sexuelle2.jpg\"><img title=\"couple sexualité\" src=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.agence360.co/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2016/03/nudite-sexuelle2.jpg\" alt=\"sexologue montreal, desir sexuel. therapie couple, perte libido\" border=\"0\" /></a></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<h3 style=\"clear: both; text-align: left;\">2. La prochaine étape de votre sexualité et de votre relation</h3>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<h4 style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">2.1) Une question d\'intégrité</h4>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">\r\n\r\n<iframe class=\"YOUTUBE-iframe-video\" src=\"https://www.youtube.com/embed/VH8h2oCeDho?feature=player_embedded\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-thumbnail-src=\"https://i.ytimg.com/s_vi/VH8h2oCeDho/default.jpg?sqp=CMSu6rcF&amp;rs=AOn4CLA-e9---AQh__nFp56E3tPkQXKrbA\"></iframe>\r\n<h4>2.2) Décisions difficiles et désir sexuel</h4>\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><iframe class=\"YOUTUBE-iframe-video\" src=\"https://www.youtube.com/embed/AK9LcNOQ_GA?feature=player_embedded\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-thumbnail-src=\"https://i.ytimg.com/s_vi/AK9LcNOQ_GA/default.jpg?sqp=CLDa8bcF&amp;rs=AOn4CLAIphYNCluA19d3XC32_ZlaYC56Yg\"></iframe></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<h4 style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">2.3) Amour et haine dans les relations amoureuses</h4>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<iframe class=\"YOUTUBE-iframe-video\" src=\"https://www.youtube.com/embed/CvTRr0DmAms?feature=player_embedded\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-thumbnail-src=\"https://i.ytimg.com/s_vi/CvTRr0DmAms/default.jpg?sqp=CLDa8bcF&amp;rs=AOn4CLCdLZuHuFxnlEH28Cbz8FbLy50U9A\"></iframe>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><form action=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr\" method=\"post\" target=\"_top\">\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><input name=\"cmd\" type=\"hidden\" value=\"_s-xclick\" />\r\n<input name=\"hosted_button_id\" type=\"hidden\" value=\"4XEZCHJ9FGYEJ\" /></div>\r\n</form></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<h3 style=\"text-align: left;\">3. Gérer les différences au plan sexuel</h3>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div>\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">3.1) Différences de désir avec son partenaire sexuelle</h4>\r\n</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><iframe class=\"YOUTUBE-iframe-video\" src=\"https://www.youtube.com/embed/XM3M22MDRbY?feature=player_embedded\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-thumbnail-src=\"https://i.ytimg.com/s_vi/XM3M22MDRbY/default.jpg?sqp=CNzc8bcF&amp;rs=AOn4CLAxheCenMFkTF_c2iSGyW9-Il6o8A\"></iframe></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">\r\n<h4>3.2) Différences alliances dans une relation</h4>\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><iframe class=\"YOUTUBE-iframe-video\" src=\"https://www.youtube.com/embed/QdNDunZeiaM?feature=player_embedded\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-thumbnail-src=\"https://i.ytimg.com/s_vi/QdNDunZeiaM/default.jpg?sqp=CNzc8bcF&amp;rs=AOn4CLCeejGehQx8WWXXFonlywXTnD6ZFw\"></iframe></div>\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<h4>3.3) Voulez-vous vraiment changer votre dynamique de couple</h4>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><iframe class=\"YOUTUBE-iframe-video\" src=\"https://www.youtube.com/embed/fS0vbGuGkts?feature=player_embedded\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-thumbnail-src=\"https://i.ytimg.com/s_vi/fS0vbGuGkts/default.jpg?sqp=CNzc8bcF&amp;rs=AOn4CLD_SIjsnwhYmbJFWYg8_P-OknS_yg\"></iframe></div>\r\n&nbsp;\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2016/03/serie-intimite-desir-sexuel.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Accéder  à la suite: Partie 2</a></div>\r\n</div>', 'Série Intimité partie 1', '', 'publish', 'closed', 'closed', 'SiRpDSBdSO', 'serie-intimite-1', '', '', '2019-03-20 20:56:53', '2019-03-20 19:56:53', '', 1593, 'http://lesexologue.ca/?page_id=2824/', 0, 'page', '', 0),
(1915, 2, '2017-05-24 01:06:00', '2017-05-23 23:06:00', '[vc_row padding_top=\"0\" padding_bottom=\"0\"][vc_column][noo_rev_slider slider=\"slide-home\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row inner_container=\"true\"][vc_column width=\"2/3\"][gap size=\"10\" visibility=\"visible-pc\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2 class=\"custom-title-home\">Sexologue Psychothérapeute à Montréal</h2>\r\nJe suis sexologue psychothérapeute gradué du baccalauréat et de la maîtrise clinique en sexologie de l\'Université du Québec à Montréal (UQAM). J\'ai suivi <a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/05/formations-continues-sexologue-psychotherapeute.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">diverses formations connexes</a> à cette profession et je suis membre de l’Ordre professionnels des sexologues du Québec (OPSQ), de l\'Association des sexologues du Québec (ASQ). J\'ai un permis de psychothérapeute émis par l\'Ordre des Psychologues du Québec (OPQ). 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(1812, 2, '2017-05-17 00:56:24', '2017-05-16 22:56:24', '[vc_row padding_top=\"0\" padding_bottom=\"0\"][vc_column][noo_rev_slider slider=\"slide-home\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row inner_container=\"true\"][vc_column width=\"2/3\"][gap size=\"10\" visibility=\"visible-pc\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2 class=\"custom-title-home\">Sexologue &amp; Psychothérapeute à Montréal</h2>\r\nJe suis sexologue &amp; psychothérapeute gradué du baccalauréat et de la maîtrise clinique en sexologie de l\'Université du Québec à Montréal (UQAM). J\'ai suivi <a href=\"http://montreal.lesexologue.ca/2015/05/formations-continues-sexologue-psychotherapeute.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">diverses formations connexes</a> à cette profession et je suis membre de l’Ordre professionnels des sexologues du Québec (OPSQ), de l\'Association des sexologues du Québec (ASQ) et la Société Québécoise des Psychothérapeutes Professionnels (SQPP). Ce site est dédié aux personnes qui souhaitent en connaître davantage sur la profession du sexologue et/ou aimeraient avoir recours à mes services. 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(2998, 2, '2019-07-18 18:48:22', '2019-07-18 16:48:22', '[vc_row inner_container=\"true\"][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"2448\" img_size=\"medium\" visibility=\"all\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Answers to sex questions by a sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist</h2>\r\n[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]This section answers questions related to the process of psychotherapy with a sex therapist and psychotherapist.\r\n\r\nThe answers will help you better understand the competence of sex therapist and psychotherapist and the process of therapy with a healthcare professional.\r\n<p class=\"p1\">If you have any more questions, please contact us through on <a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.com/contact/\">CONTACT</a> page.</p>\r\n[/vc_column_text][gap size=\"30\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row padding_top=\"80\" padding_bottom=\"80\" bg_color=\"#f4f4f4\"][vc_column][vc_tta_accordion style=\"flat\" shape=\"square\" color=\"sandy-brown\" spacing=\"4\" active_section=\"1\" css=\".vc_custom_1563464974483{margin-left: 50px !important;border-right-width: 50px !important;padding-right: 100px !important;padding-left: 100px !important;border-right-color: #e58c59 !important;}\" no_fill=\"true\" collapsible_all=\"true\"][vc_tta_section title=\"Lack of sexual desire for a woman\" tab_id=\"1487964475587-e615d9cb-49d2\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<b><strong>Hello</strong></b><b><strong>,</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b><b><strong> am</strong></b><b><strong> married since 2005 and I’m</strong></b> <b><strong>35</strong></b><b><strong> years </strong></b><b><strong>and</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>2</strong></b> <b><strong>children</strong></b><b><strong>.</strong></b><b><strong> My problem is that I hate to make love with my husband. I love him a lot. I have chosen him as a husband and he does everything to please to me, but I do not know what is happening to me. Since the first day of our marriage, it has been the same thing. Each time it feels like rape to me.</strong></b>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<em>There are several reasons that could explain a lack of sexual desire or a dislike towards sexuality with a partner. Moreover, several people continue to have sexual relationships with their partner when there isn’t any interest to do it, and this is the case for men as for women. Sometimes, they do it out of marital obligation, to silence their persistent partner in their requests or to avoid a conflict. What are the factorswhich lead you to continue to have sexual activities when you do not feel the desire for them?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> can </em><em>be</em><em> very difficult to discuss </em><em>with</em><em> our partner our </em><em>disinterest</em><em> towards our couple’s </em><em>sex life</em><em>.</em><em> We can be afraid to disappoint them, hurt their feelings, create a conflict, undergo marital violence, etc. In any of these cases, it is important to respect ourselves. With this in mind, one can try to put their limits by refusing sex with their partner when they do not have the desire for it. How could you say this to your partner? How do you imagine the situation unfolding? Certain partners will strongly react to this refusal. They can become hot-tempered, sad, anxious, demoralized, angry, etc. How do you envision managing his reaction and the situation? What are the reasons which would prevent you from discussing it with him?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Avoiding</em><em> the </em><em>discussion can</em> <em>decrease</em><em> the </em><em>interest</em> <em>towards</em> <em>sexuality</em> <em>and</em> <em>consequently</em><em> brings </em><em>a</em> <em>person</em> <em>to hate</em><em>love-making</em> <em>with</em><em> their </em><em>partner</em><em>.</em><em> We can even develop unpleasant emotions towards our partner who agrees to have sex that we do not wish to have. Which emotions do you have towards your partner concerning thissituation? Certain people feel shame, disgust, anger, unhappiness, contempt, etc.</em>\r\n\r\n<em> Another</em> <em>aspect</em><em> which needs to be explored </em><em>is</em><em> the possible loss of respect </em><em>towards</em><em> the </em><em>partner</em><em> and ourselves </em><em>in</em><em> the process</em><em>.</em><em> When we agree to have sex that we do not wish to have, it becomes difficult to respect ourselves and our partner, which consequently, decreases our sexual desire towards them or sex altogether.How do you perceive your partner during a sex? What do you think of during sex? Do you believe that yourpartner feels your disinterest when you are physically intimate with him? What does that mean about you andyour relationship with your husband?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Our couple’s sexual dynamic is essential to evaluate when one partner feels a lack of sexual desire. More precisely, what do you hate about your sex life with your partner? What changes would you bring to your sex life? First of all, it is important to know our preferences when it comes to sex so we can then discuss it withour partner. Sometimes, couples have diverging ideas on certain sexual positions, practices or styles. Whatare your sexual preferences and those of your partner?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Do</em><em> you </em><em>believe</em><em> yourself to able to have </em><em>a</em><em> discussion </em><em>on</em><em> your </em><em>sexual</em> <em>practices</em> <em>with</em> <em>your</em><em> partner</em><em>?</em><em> This kind of conversation can create tensions in the couple and generate a conflict. It is more reassuring to perceive this conflict as a way to improve our relationship and our sex life then a fight with your partner. These conflicts are never easy to manage and often require the assistance of a professional, like a sex therapist or a couple’stherapist.</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> is also important to reflect on our own relationship with sexuality</em><em>.</em><em> The perception of sexuality is different for everyone. It is therefore preferable to question our perceptions about sex and relationship with sexuality in general. Do you feel sexual desire for other people? Do you like sexuality outside of your couple (masturbation, sexual fantasies, etc.)? What is your perception of sexuality? Did you ever have similar difficulties with other sexual partners? If you have a bad perception of sex or a difficult relationship with sexuality, it would be beneficial to consult a sex therapist individually in order to better understand thesefeeling.</em>[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Lower sexual desire for a man\" tab_id=\"1487964476053-b704912a-3f78\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello</strong></b> <b><strong>to</strong></b><b><strong> you</strong></b><b><strong>!</strong></b><b><strong> I have a big question! Is it possible that a 22 year old man doesn’t have any moredesire to have sex or is it simply a sign that our couple has problems? It’s now been 4 years that weare together, I am pregnant with my 3rd baby and the problem exists for the past 3 years. But now, it’s getting worse. For 2 months, we haven’t had any sexual contact!  We hardly kiss, touch, or hug each other. Do I need to leave this relationship?</strong></b>\r\n\r\n<em>There</em> <em>exist</em> <em>various</em> <em>reasons</em> <em>explaining</em> <em>a</em> <em>lack</em> <em>of</em> <em>sexual desire</em> <em>for</em> <em>one</em> <em>or</em> <em>both</em> <em>partners in a relationship</em><em>.</em><em> The dynamics of the couple and the satisfaction in the relationship can largely influence the sexual desire of a person towards their partner. It is also important to question about sexual satisfaction. What are your levelsof satisfaction in the couple and of your sex life for each one of you? Do you take the time to discuss your couple and sexual dissatisfactions? If so, how did you try to fix it?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> should be understood that in </em><em>each</em><em> couple</em><em>,</em><em> there is always a <u>Low Desire Partner</u> (LDP) and a <u>High Desire Partner</u> (HDP)</em><em>.</em><em> Contrary to popular beliefs, we find as many men as women being a LDP. The behaviours, attitudes and reactions of the HDP play a very important part on the sexual desire of their partner. Each one of these roles in the couple (HDP &amp; LDP) comes with its load of difficulties. The HDP often feels inadequatesexually and has the feeling of being unable to meet the sexual needs of their partner’s. They can also feelguilt, incomprehension, shame, anger, sadness for wanting more sex than their partner, etc. The LDP can feelpowerless, frustrated, harassed, and their personal self-esteem can become affected about not being a good partner. How do you manage/tolerate this difference between both of two?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>You</em> <em>mentioned</em> <em>that you were a mother</em> <em>of</em> <em>two</em> <em>children</em> <em>and</em> <em>a</em> <em>third</em><em> one </em><em>will soon</em><em> be part of the family. </em><em>There</em><em>is</em><em> a </em><em>certain</em> <em>adjustment</em> <em>which</em> <em>must</em> <em>occur</em> <em>for</em> <em>new parents</em> <em>who</em> <em>add</em><em> an extra </em><em>role</em> <em>of</em> <em>mother</em> <em>and</em> <em>father</em> <em>in</em> <em>their</em><em>couple</em><em>.</em><em> Sometimes, the role of being a man and a woman takes up less space or even disappears and are replaced by a mother and father </em><em>figure</em><em>.</em><em> Certain men have difficulty eroticizing the new image of motherwhom their partner now incarnates. As for women, their bodies change due to the pregnancy and it often has an impact on their perception of themselves which affects their femininity. Which impacts do you believe thatyour new roles of mother and father have had on your sex life?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Moreover</em><em>,</em><em> flirting </em><em>is frequently forgotten or put aside</em><em> in a couple </em><em>after</em><em> several </em><em>years</em> <em>of</em> <em>dating</em><em>.</em><em> We often take our partner for granted and limit our implication in seducing them. The High Desire Partner (HDP) will start to evaluate the level of sexual desire of their spouse rather than create it. Do you take the time to seduce yourselves in your couple? How do you do it? What happens if you don’t succeed?  Do you spend time as a couple, without the children?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>The</em> <em>lack</em> <em>of</em> <em>the</em> <em>sexual desire in one partner</em><em> is </em><em>a</em> <em>frequent</em> <em>step in a couple’s life</em> <em>and</em><em> is </em><em>even</em> <em>normal</em> <em>in</em><em> a </em><em>long term relationship</em><em>.</em><em> It is actually an opportunity to awaken and transform our sex life in the couple. On the other hand, it often requires leaving our comfort zone, to reveal ourselves on deeper levels and develop our eroticism. The assistance of a sex therapist often proves necessary due to the complexity of this difficulty.</em>[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"The importance of penis size\" tab_id=\"1487965861105-46994a77-8a48\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello sir, I would like to know what is the ideal size for a penis. For example: 15cm 18cm?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nThe size of the penis is an aspect which worries many men for various reasons. Several cultures andcivilizations put much emphasis on the size of male genitalia. For the man, it does not change anything when it comes to his sexual pleasure and the sexual arousal which he will be able to feel in his sexuality. For certainmen, the size of their penis will enable them to have more confidence in themselves and have theperception of being a better lover. Men who think they have a smaller penis then others often have a low sexual self-esteem which will negatively affect their appreciation of their sex life.\r\n\r\nThe size of the penis varies much from one man to another in his flask state (without an erection). On the other hand, the majority of penises in erection range from 5 to 6 inches on average according to international studies. One can speak of a micro penis when its length is below 4 inches when erect. However, studies also show that the majority of women are not worried about penis size. Certain women do attach some significance due to former sexual experience. In fact, some prefer a larger penis because of the feeling it provides during penetration or are sexually aroused when they see it or touch it. Others will prefer smaller ones because a larger penis can limit certain positions or can hurt. It all depends on personal preferences ofeach woman or man. Although the size of the penis has an importance for certain women, the great majorityput more emphasis on other factors to evaluate their sexual satisfaction with their partner. For example,tenderness, confidence, variety, manliness, intimacy, sexual intensity, etc.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is a complete sexual relationship\" tab_id=\"1487965863742-9699ccd9-badb\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello</strong></b><b><strong>,</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>a</strong></b> <b><strong>small</strong></b> <b><strong>question</strong></b><b><strong>. Do</strong></b><b><strong> most people prefer sex with penetration or is doing the 69 position (mutual oral sex) enough for them? Is the 69 position seen more as a preliminary or can it also be considered as having sex? Can 69 be considered a complete and satisfactory sexual act in a couple? I started a new relationship recently and my new boyfriend thinks that all women can be amply satisfied by doing the 69 position, according to his last relationships. That is why I ask my question.</strong></b>\r\n\r\nIn fact, sexual behaviours are varied and numerous in couples, whereas the popular belief is that sex is notcomplete without penetration and an orgasm (normally the men’s). With this restrictive way of thinking, oralsex will be regarded only as being part of sexual preliminaries. If this definition is used, it is thus consideredthat homosexuals and lesbians, the paraplegic or any person not using penetration in their sexual repertoiredo not have complete sexual relationships. What do you think about it? What is your definition of a sexual relationship?\r\n\r\nCertain people will define a sexual relationship as reaching orgasm. Others, by the level of satisfaction they obtain or the quality of the emotional exchange. Each definition is valid in itself, because everyone has theirown sexual preferences. The practice of oral sex can fully satisfy certain people, whereas others want the feelings that you can only get during penetration. Our definition of a “complete” sexual relationship can alsochange every time we have sex: a couple can be entirely satisfied with a manual stimulation (masturbate their partner’s) one evening, but want to practice penetration the next time they have sex. It is thus difficultto affirm that everyone can be satisfied by only one type of sexual behaviour. It is then important to varythese sexual practices on occasion in order to move away from a routine which tends to decrease the sexual desire of most couples <a href=\"http://http//sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">(read: </a><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">Lack of Sexual Desire is  Good for Your Couple</a><a href=\"http://http//sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">).</a>\r\n\r\nSometimes, partners do not agree on their definition of a “complete” sexual relationship. This leaves one of them dissatisfied; their needs are not being fulfilled during their sexual activities. In such a situation, a discussion between the partners is necessary so that each one finds their satisfaction. It is important to remain open to what the other can bring to us and to clearly explain what we are looking for in our sexuality<a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\">(read: </a><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\">Couple’s Communication Issues or Unable to Tolerate Intimacy?)</a>.\r\n\r\nAll in all, the more our perception of sexuality is widened, the more one has the potential to open up sexually.To limit our definition of a “complete” sexual relationship brings frustration, disappointment and dissatisfaction with our partner. We must sometimes leave our comfort zone, explore new avenues and redefine our perceptions of sexuality in order to develop our sexual maturity.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Masturbation and Virginity\" tab_id=\"1487965865928-cdbffe8f-1dd4\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>a</strong></b> <b><strong>problem</strong></b> <b><strong>which</strong></b> <b><strong>makes</strong></b> <b><strong>me</strong></b> <b><strong>live</strong></b> <b><strong>unhappiness,</strong></b> <b><strong>please</strong></b> <b><strong>help</strong></b> <b><strong>me</strong></b><b><strong>.</strong></b><b><strong> Does masturbation have a negative impact on my health? I am an 18 year old girl and I am so afraid that masturbation canmake me sterile because I heard that it causes several bad effects on health. Also masturbation has an influence on virginity! Please help me I am so frightened!</strong></b>\r\n\r\nMasturbation is a sexual activity which can be practiced individually or as a couple. It allows us to explore our body and the sexual sensations which it can provide. This practice also makes it possible to discover oursexual preferences, to explore various ways of arousing ourselves sexually and to increase our sexual pleasure. It also has advantages on our physical health; for example, it relaxes us, reduces our musculartensions and relieves stress. What are your reasons for masturbating?\r\n\r\nThere is no negative impact on the physical level when one masturbates and it does not affect fertility at all.In fact, it is even good to masturbate before, during and after pregnancy. Several myths on masturbation circulate to discourage people not to practice it, often for moral or religious reasons. Moreover, as mentioned above, masturbation also has various advantages on the psychological level. Does that reassure you?\r\n\r\nThe definition of virginity is not only cultural, but also differs from one person to another. For certain people,it will be associated with the presence of the hymen (thin membrane at the entrance of the vagina). For others, it will not be the case since the hymen can tear before the first penetration with a partner. For example, by using a tampon, practicing sports such as cycling or riding a horse, as well as masturbation, if penetration is used (fingers or objects). In addition, losing one’s virginity can be defined for certain people as the experience of a first sexual relationship. How do you perceive virginity? What importance do you grant it?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How to treat homosexuality?\" tab_id=\"1487965867788-930a9dd8-1d62\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Is it possible to leave homosexuality and to go back to heterosexuality? I was involved in homosexual relationships and I want to change. How can you help me? Is it possible to help me because you know routine blunts sensitivity or is man a creature of habit. How can you help me to be attracted by the opposite sex again? Is there a remedy?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nThere exists a variety of hypotheses explaining the origins of homosexuality, such as the level of hormones, development of the brain, sexual experiences, or a person’s upbringing. Some explanations are biological or social and a mixture of these two approaches exists as well. Several treatments and therapies have  already been tested in the past and they have proven to be dangerous and did not really help. It is thus not possible to treat or change someone’s sexual orientation, because it is not a disease or a mental health problem. How do you feel about this fact? What could help you to accept it better?\r\n\r\nSince our sexual orientation can’t be chosen, it can be difficult to accept it. This form of homophobia is generally influenced by personal values, cultural and family upbringing, as well as religion. On top of that, there are several myths on homosexuality, which persist in reinforcing homophobia. What are your reasons to prefer being heterosexual? How do you perceive each sexual orientation? What attracts you more towards heterosexuality rather than homosexuality? A therapy with a sex therapist can be necessary to overcome these difficulties and to better accept our homosexuality.\r\n\r\nThe process of acceptance is generally done in steps. There are some variations from one individual to another since each one will have a different personality, history and socio-cultural context. These steps include confusion, tolerance towards our sexual orientation, acceptance and finally their is pride in our sexual orientation. Where do you situate yourself in this process at the moment? Do you feel the need to be guided through this?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is Female Ejaculation?\" tab_id=\"1487965869509-b4cdf3d2-30ca\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello, how are you? I have a question, I was wondering what exactly is female ejaculation made of?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nFor many years now, there has been debates in the scientific community about the composition of female ejaculate. The latest research demonstrated that the liquid comes from the Skene glands, which are the equivalent of the prostate for men and that they can be found between the urethra and the vagina. On top of that, female ejaculate would also have the same composition as the liquid that is produced by the prostate in sperm. Although, since the exit point of female ejaculation is so near the urethra, it’s possible to find very small amounts of urine. It’s important to stress that urine is a sterile liquid and that female ejaculate can only have very insignificant traces of it.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][/vc_tta_accordion][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"1/6\"][vc_separator color=\"\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"2/3\"][vc_column_text]This section answers real questions that are commonly asked to <a href=\"/?page_id=167\"><strong>sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist</strong></a>. My expertise may guide you to help concerning certain sexual difficulties by reading the answers.\r\n\r\nIt is important to know that this does not replace therapy by a professional and they cannot be considered as a diagnostic. The answers may not fit every similar situation as I will be taking elements directly from the question. It is very probable that the answers may help you in your situation. This section is to help you reflect on your difficulty and to give professional information and help you find a solution.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"1/6\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row padding_top=\"80\" padding_bottom=\"80\" bg_color=\"#f4f4f4\"][vc_column][vc_tta_accordion style=\"flat\" shape=\"square\" color=\"sandy-brown\" spacing=\"4\" active_section=\"1\" css=\".vc_custom_1563464990422{margin-left: 50px !important;border-right-width: 50px !important;padding-right: 100px !important;padding-left: 100px !important;border-right-color: #e58c59 !important;}\" no_fill=\"true\" collapsible_all=\"true\"][vc_tta_section title=\"What is the price of a session?\" tab_id=\"1563464646692-87116cc6-0711\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<div>\r\n\r\nThe sessions are 50 minutes in length and cost 95$ each. Taxes are included.\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How can I pay for the fees?\" tab_id=\"1563464646912-813a8edf-9a7a\"][vc_column_text]These are the ways you can pay:\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Cash</li>\r\n 	<li>Debit Interac (requires paypay feature)</li>\r\n 	<li>Cheques</li>\r\n 	<li>E-transfer by email</li>\r\n 	<li><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">NO CREDIT CARDS ARE ACCEPTED</span></li>\r\n</ul>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How many sessions do I need?\" tab_id=\"1563464647282-5466ebcd-9b1c\"][vc_column_text]The number of sessions is determined by a number of factors such as:\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Your involvement in the therapeutic process</li>\r\n 	<li>The therapeutic relationship with you sex therapist</li>\r\n 	<li>The causes of your sexual difficulty</li>\r\n 	<li>The nature of the difficulty</li>\r\n 	<li>The duration and evolution of the sexual difficulty</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nGenerally, a therapeutic process can last 15 to 20 sessions. This can be shorter or longer depending on the critera mentionned above.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How do I choose my sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist?\" tab_id=\"1563464647674-df755a95-b4ba\"][vc_column_text]It is really important to choose your sex therapist according to your comfort, the therapeutic approach of the sex therapist and their respective specialties. Each sex therapist psychotherapist at least have a master\'s degree in clinical sexology. Some have bachelors in sexology and others in a related field in healthcare such as psychology. Generally, we all have the same competence to <a href=\"https://sexcoupletherapy.com/therapie/\">treat sexual and relationship issues</a>, but we have each individual interest and specialities that we have developed over the course of our practice.\r\n\r\nYou can consult the list of our <a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.com/sextherapist-psychotherapist/sextherapist-clinic/\">sex therapist and psychotherapist</a> to choose one according to your preferences\r\n\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is the difference between a male and female therapist?\" tab_id=\"1563464648075-828e9e6f-18bb\"][vc_column_text]The short response is that there is no difference between them if you consider the profesionnal training and competence for each. We each receive the same training which requires a master\'s degree in clinical sexology. We may have different interest of specialized trainings from our years of practice.\r\n\r\nThe difference is more related to your own dynamic\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Are you more at ease with a woman or a man to talk about sexuality?</li>\r\n 	<li>Have your reflected on what may be the reasons behind that choice?</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nSometimes the discomfort we feel might even be related to the reason your are consulting a sex therapist. It is important to know that a male or female therapist will not better understand you or your situation because of their own gender. It is important to feel comfortable with the sex therapist you choose.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Can I treat my problem with only one session?\" tab_id=\"1563464648491-2c2dcccc-5db9\"][vc_column_text]That is particularly rare that you can solve a sexual issue with just one session. The first sessions are to evaluate your situation and determine the causes of the issues at hand. Afterwards, you discuss what are the following steps in your process in the futures sessions by determining your goals and expecations\r\n\r\nIt can happen in certain circumstances, that the first session will allow you to obtain some information and clarify misconceptions about sexuality which allows you to change the issue you consulted for.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Should I consult a psychologist or sextherapist psychotherapist?\" tab_id=\"1563464648927-68219c03-73d9\"][vc_column_text]A psychologist and sextherapist psychotherapist offer the same service called psychotherapy to their clients. What differs between these 2 professions is their field of expertise and certain reserved acts.\r\n\r\nThe psychologist is more specialized with mental health (eg. depression, anxiety, personality disorders, etc.) They can also accompany people through relational, familial and couple\'s issues.\r\n\r\nThe sex therapist and psychotherapist is more specialized in couples relationships and sexuality. They offer individual and couples therapy by exploring the various experiences of a sexual relationship. They also explore the global dynamic of the relationship and the individual\'s background and life experiences. The evaluate the evolution and sexual education received and the impact on the history and present situation of their client.\r\n\r\nOnly sex therapist can evaluate sexual issues, while psychologist are allowed to evaluate and diagnose mental health issues, such as mentionned above.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][/vc_tta_accordion][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'FAQ', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1673-revision-v1', '', '', '2019-07-18 18:48:22', '2019-07-18 16:48:22', '', 1673, 'http://sexcoupletherapy.com/blog/2019/07/18/1673-revision-v1/', 0, 'revision', '', 0);
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(3000, 2, '2019-07-18 19:58:18', '2019-07-18 17:58:18', '[vc_row inner_container=\"true\"][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"2448\" img_size=\"medium\" visibility=\"all\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Answers to sex questions by a sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist</h2>\r\n[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]This section answers questions related to the process of psychotherapy with a sex therapist and psychotherapist.\r\n\r\nThe answers will help you better understand the competence of sex therapist and psychotherapist and the process of therapy with a healthcare professional.\r\n<p class=\"p1\">If you have any more questions, please contact us through on <a href=\"/?page_id=167\">CONTACT</a> page.</p>\r\n[/vc_column_text][gap size=\"30\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row padding_top=\"80\" padding_bottom=\"80\" bg_color=\"#f4f4f4\"][vc_column][vc_tta_accordion style=\"flat\" shape=\"square\" color=\"sandy-brown\" spacing=\"4\" active_section=\"1\" css=\".vc_custom_1563464990422{margin-left: 50px !important;border-right-width: 50px !important;padding-right: 100px !important;padding-left: 100px !important;border-right-color: #e58c59 !important;}\" no_fill=\"true\" collapsible_all=\"true\"][vc_tta_section title=\"What is the price of a session?\" tab_id=\"1563464646692-87116cc6-0711\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<div>\r\n\r\nThe sessions are 50 minutes in length and cost 95$ each. Taxes are included.\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How can I pay for the fees?\" tab_id=\"1563464646912-813a8edf-9a7a\"][vc_column_text]These are the ways you can pay:\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Cash</li>\r\n 	<li>Debit Interac (requires paypay feature)</li>\r\n 	<li>Cheques</li>\r\n 	<li>E-transfer by email</li>\r\n 	<li><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">NO CREDIT CARDS ARE ACCEPTED</span></li>\r\n</ul>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How many sessions do I need?\" tab_id=\"1563464647282-5466ebcd-9b1c\"][vc_column_text]The number of sessions is determined by a number of factors such as:\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Your involvement in the therapeutic process</li>\r\n 	<li>The therapeutic relationship with you sex therapist</li>\r\n 	<li>The causes of your sexual difficulty</li>\r\n 	<li>The nature of the difficulty</li>\r\n 	<li>The duration and evolution of the sexual difficulty</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nGenerally, a therapeutic process can last 15 to 20 sessions. This can be shorter or longer depending on the critera mentionned above.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How do I choose my sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist?\" tab_id=\"1563464647674-df755a95-b4ba\"][vc_column_text]It is really important to choose your sex therapist according to your comfort, the therapeutic approach of the sex therapist and their respective specialties. Each sex therapist psychotherapist at least have a master\'s degree in clinical sexology. Some have bachelors in sexology and others in a related field in healthcare such as psychology. Generally, we all have the same competence to <a href=\"https://sexcoupletherapy.com/therapie/\">treat sexual and relationship issues</a>, but we have each individual interest and specialities that we have developed over the course of our practice.\r\n\r\nYou can consult the list of our <a href=\"/?page_id=2516\">sex therapist and psychotherapist</a> to choose one according to your preferences\r\n\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is the difference between a male and female therapist?\" tab_id=\"1563464648075-828e9e6f-18bb\"][vc_column_text]The short response is that there is no difference between them if you consider the profesionnal training and competence for each. We each receive the same training which requires a master\'s degree in clinical sexology. We may have different interest of specialized trainings from our years of practice.\r\n\r\nThe difference is more related to your own dynamic\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Are you more at ease with a woman or a man to talk about sexuality?</li>\r\n 	<li>Have your reflected on what may be the reasons behind that choice?</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nSometimes the discomfort we feel might even be related to the reason your are consulting a sex therapist. It is important to know that a male or female therapist will not better understand you or your situation because of their own gender. It is important to feel comfortable with the sex therapist you choose.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Can I treat my problem with only one session?\" tab_id=\"1563464648491-2c2dcccc-5db9\"][vc_column_text]That is particularly rare that you can solve a sexual issue with just one session. The first sessions are to evaluate your situation and determine the causes of the issues at hand. Afterwards, you discuss what are the following steps in your process in the futures sessions by determining your goals and expecations\r\n\r\nIt can happen in certain circumstances, that the first session will allow you to obtain some information and clarify misconceptions about sexuality which allows you to change the issue you consulted for.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Should I consult a psychologist or sextherapist psychotherapist?\" tab_id=\"1563464648927-68219c03-73d9\"][vc_column_text]A psychologist and sextherapist psychotherapist offer the same service called psychotherapy to their clients. What differs between these 2 professions is their field of expertise and certain reserved acts.\r\n\r\nThe psychologist is more specialized with mental health (eg. depression, anxiety, personality disorders, etc.) They can also accompany people through relational, familial and couple\'s issues.\r\n\r\nThe sex therapist and psychotherapist is more specialized in couples relationships and sexuality. They offer individual and couples therapy by exploring the various experiences of a sexual relationship. They also explore the global dynamic of the relationship and the individual\'s background and life experiences. The evaluate the evolution and sexual education received and the impact on the history and present situation of their client.\r\n\r\nOnly sex therapist can evaluate sexual issues, while psychologist are allowed to evaluate and diagnose mental health issues, such as mentionned above.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What therapeutic approaches do you use?\" tab_id=\"1563468565124-5468622e-00d2\"][vc_column_text]Each sex therapist psychotherapist uses different approaches and styles of interventions. By reading their profiles on the <a href=\"/?page_id=2516\">page of our professionals</a>, you will be able to be informed about each of their approaches.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Does everyone at your clinic offer psychotherapy?\" tab_id=\"1563468694656-6e318546-384d\"][vc_column_text]We all have the same professional titles of <strong>sex therapist</strong> &amp; <strong>psychotherapist</strong>. We are members of the Order of Sexologist of Québec and we detain a permit of psychotherapist from the Order of Psychologist of Quebec.\r\n\r\nWe have each received our certification to evaluation sexual issues given by the Order of sexologist of Quebec.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Do my insurances reimburse your services?\" tab_id=\"1563468852295-e79c359d-3bf8\"][vc_column_text]That depends of your individual insurance plan. You have to verify directely with your insurance company what services and by which professionals you are covered.\r\n\r\nAccording to the law since 2012, psychologist and psychotherapist offer the same service of psychotherapy in the province of Quebec. If your insurance covers psychotherapy or psychotherapists, the fees of our sessions will be covered according to your plans specificities.\r\n\r\nIf your insurance covers psychologist, they may or may not cover the cost. Since the service is considered the same under the law, some insurance companies are flexible enough to insure both professions. Others only reimburse the service if it is offered by a specific professional. You will need to inform yourself directely with the company.\r\n\r\nIn all cases, our fees are tax deductible and your medical costs at the end of the year. So, don\'t forget to keep your receipts![/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is the frequency of the sessions?\" tab_id=\"1563469114279-e4ad1e88-7303\"][vc_column_text]Generally, a psychotherapy is most effective when the sessions are on a regular basis, ideally each week. As the therapy progresses, we space out the sessions to let your autonomy and indidivual exploration develop.\r\n\r\nHowever, your financial means, your availability, your needs and expectations are also determining factors in the frequency.\r\n\r\nYou can discuss this with your sextherapist psychotherapist to adapt to your needs in the first session and as the therapy progresses.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][/vc_tta_accordion][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"1/6\"][vc_separator color=\"\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"2/3\"][vc_column_text]This section answers real questions that are commonly asked to <a href=\"/?page_id=167\"><strong>sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist</strong></a>. My expertise may guide you to help concerning certain sexual difficulties by reading the answers.\r\n\r\nIt is important to know that this does not replace therapy by a professional and they cannot be considered as a diagnostic. The answers may not fit every similar situation as I will be taking elements directly from the question. It is very probable that the answers may help you in your situation. This section is to help you reflect on your difficulty and to give professional information and help you find a solution.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"1/6\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row padding_top=\"80\" padding_bottom=\"80\" bg_color=\"#f4f4f4\"][vc_column][vc_tta_accordion style=\"flat\" shape=\"square\" color=\"sandy-brown\" spacing=\"4\" active_section=\"1\" css=\".vc_custom_1563464974483{margin-left: 50px !important;border-right-width: 50px !important;padding-right: 100px !important;padding-left: 100px !important;border-right-color: #e58c59 !important;}\" no_fill=\"true\" collapsible_all=\"true\"][vc_tta_section title=\"Lack of sexual desire for a woman\" tab_id=\"1487964475587-e615d9cb-49d2\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<b><strong>Hello</strong></b><b><strong>,</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b><b><strong> am</strong></b><b><strong> married since 2005 and I’m</strong></b> <b><strong>35</strong></b><b><strong> years </strong></b><b><strong>and</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>2</strong></b> <b><strong>children</strong></b><b><strong>.</strong></b><b><strong> My problem is that I hate to make love with my husband. I love him a lot. I have chosen him as a husband and he does everything to please to me, but I do not know what is happening to me. Since the first day of our marriage, it has been the same thing. Each time it feels like rape to me.</strong></b>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<em>There are several reasons that could explain a lack of sexual desire or a dislike towards sexuality with a partner. Moreover, several people continue to have sexual relationships with their partner when there isn’t any interest to do it, and this is the case for men as for women. Sometimes, they do it out of marital obligation, to silence their persistent partner in their requests or to avoid a conflict. What are the factorswhich lead you to continue to have sexual activities when you do not feel the desire for them?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> can </em><em>be</em><em> very difficult to discuss </em><em>with</em><em> our partner our </em><em>disinterest</em><em> towards our couple’s </em><em>sex life</em><em>.</em><em> We can be afraid to disappoint them, hurt their feelings, create a conflict, undergo marital violence, etc. In any of these cases, it is important to respect ourselves. With this in mind, one can try to put their limits by refusing sex with their partner when they do not have the desire for it. How could you say this to your partner? How do you imagine the situation unfolding? Certain partners will strongly react to this refusal. They can become hot-tempered, sad, anxious, demoralized, angry, etc. How do you envision managing his reaction and the situation? What are the reasons which would prevent you from discussing it with him?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Avoiding</em><em> the </em><em>discussion can</em> <em>decrease</em><em> the </em><em>interest</em> <em>towards</em> <em>sexuality</em> <em>and</em> <em>consequently</em><em> brings </em><em>a</em> <em>person</em> <em>to hate</em><em>love-making</em> <em>with</em><em> their </em><em>partner</em><em>.</em><em> We can even develop unpleasant emotions towards our partner who agrees to have sex that we do not wish to have. Which emotions do you have towards your partner concerning thissituation? Certain people feel shame, disgust, anger, unhappiness, contempt, etc.</em>\r\n\r\n<em> Another</em> <em>aspect</em><em> which needs to be explored </em><em>is</em><em> the possible loss of respect </em><em>towards</em><em> the </em><em>partner</em><em> and ourselves </em><em>in</em><em> the process</em><em>.</em><em> When we agree to have sex that we do not wish to have, it becomes difficult to respect ourselves and our partner, which consequently, decreases our sexual desire towards them or sex altogether.How do you perceive your partner during a sex? What do you think of during sex? Do you believe that yourpartner feels your disinterest when you are physically intimate with him? What does that mean about you andyour relationship with your husband?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Our couple’s sexual dynamic is essential to evaluate when one partner feels a lack of sexual desire. More precisely, what do you hate about your sex life with your partner? What changes would you bring to your sex life? First of all, it is important to know our preferences when it comes to sex so we can then discuss it withour partner. Sometimes, couples have diverging ideas on certain sexual positions, practices or styles. Whatare your sexual preferences and those of your partner?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Do</em><em> you </em><em>believe</em><em> yourself to able to have </em><em>a</em><em> discussion </em><em>on</em><em> your </em><em>sexual</em> <em>practices</em> <em>with</em> <em>your</em><em> partner</em><em>?</em><em> This kind of conversation can create tensions in the couple and generate a conflict. It is more reassuring to perceive this conflict as a way to improve our relationship and our sex life then a fight with your partner. These conflicts are never easy to manage and often require the assistance of a professional, like a sex therapist or a couple’stherapist.</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> is also important to reflect on our own relationship with sexuality</em><em>.</em><em> The perception of sexuality is different for everyone. It is therefore preferable to question our perceptions about sex and relationship with sexuality in general. Do you feel sexual desire for other people? Do you like sexuality outside of your couple (masturbation, sexual fantasies, etc.)? What is your perception of sexuality? Did you ever have similar difficulties with other sexual partners? If you have a bad perception of sex or a difficult relationship with sexuality, it would be beneficial to consult a sex therapist individually in order to better understand thesefeeling.</em>[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Lower sexual desire for a man\" tab_id=\"1487964476053-b704912a-3f78\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello</strong></b> <b><strong>to</strong></b><b><strong> you</strong></b><b><strong>!</strong></b><b><strong> I have a big question! Is it possible that a 22 year old man doesn’t have any moredesire to have sex or is it simply a sign that our couple has problems? It’s now been 4 years that weare together, I am pregnant with my 3rd baby and the problem exists for the past 3 years. But now, it’s getting worse. For 2 months, we haven’t had any sexual contact!  We hardly kiss, touch, or hug each other. Do I need to leave this relationship?</strong></b>\r\n\r\n<em>There</em> <em>exist</em> <em>various</em> <em>reasons</em> <em>explaining</em> <em>a</em> <em>lack</em> <em>of</em> <em>sexual desire</em> <em>for</em> <em>one</em> <em>or</em> <em>both</em> <em>partners in a relationship</em><em>.</em><em> The dynamics of the couple and the satisfaction in the relationship can largely influence the sexual desire of a person towards their partner. It is also important to question about sexual satisfaction. What are your levelsof satisfaction in the couple and of your sex life for each one of you? Do you take the time to discuss your couple and sexual dissatisfactions? If so, how did you try to fix it?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> should be understood that in </em><em>each</em><em> couple</em><em>,</em><em> there is always a <u>Low Desire Partner</u> (LDP) and a <u>High Desire Partner</u> (HDP)</em><em>.</em><em> Contrary to popular beliefs, we find as many men as women being a LDP. The behaviours, attitudes and reactions of the HDP play a very important part on the sexual desire of their partner. Each one of these roles in the couple (HDP &amp; LDP) comes with its load of difficulties. The HDP often feels inadequatesexually and has the feeling of being unable to meet the sexual needs of their partner’s. They can also feelguilt, incomprehension, shame, anger, sadness for wanting more sex than their partner, etc. The LDP can feelpowerless, frustrated, harassed, and their personal self-esteem can become affected about not being a good partner. How do you manage/tolerate this difference between both of two?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>You</em> <em>mentioned</em> <em>that you were a mother</em> <em>of</em> <em>two</em> <em>children</em> <em>and</em> <em>a</em> <em>third</em><em> one </em><em>will soon</em><em> be part of the family. </em><em>There</em><em>is</em><em> a </em><em>certain</em> <em>adjustment</em> <em>which</em> <em>must</em> <em>occur</em> <em>for</em> <em>new parents</em> <em>who</em> <em>add</em><em> an extra </em><em>role</em> <em>of</em> <em>mother</em> <em>and</em> <em>father</em> <em>in</em> <em>their</em><em>couple</em><em>.</em><em> Sometimes, the role of being a man and a woman takes up less space or even disappears and are replaced by a mother and father </em><em>figure</em><em>.</em><em> Certain men have difficulty eroticizing the new image of motherwhom their partner now incarnates. As for women, their bodies change due to the pregnancy and it often has an impact on their perception of themselves which affects their femininity. Which impacts do you believe thatyour new roles of mother and father have had on your sex life?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Moreover</em><em>,</em><em> flirting </em><em>is frequently forgotten or put aside</em><em> in a couple </em><em>after</em><em> several </em><em>years</em> <em>of</em> <em>dating</em><em>.</em><em> We often take our partner for granted and limit our implication in seducing them. The High Desire Partner (HDP) will start to evaluate the level of sexual desire of their spouse rather than create it. Do you take the time to seduce yourselves in your couple? How do you do it? What happens if you don’t succeed?  Do you spend time as a couple, without the children?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>The</em> <em>lack</em> <em>of</em> <em>the</em> <em>sexual desire in one partner</em><em> is </em><em>a</em> <em>frequent</em> <em>step in a couple’s life</em> <em>and</em><em> is </em><em>even</em> <em>normal</em> <em>in</em><em> a </em><em>long term relationship</em><em>.</em><em> It is actually an opportunity to awaken and transform our sex life in the couple. On the other hand, it often requires leaving our comfort zone, to reveal ourselves on deeper levels and develop our eroticism. The assistance of a sex therapist often proves necessary due to the complexity of this difficulty.</em>[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"The importance of penis size\" tab_id=\"1487965861105-46994a77-8a48\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello sir, I would like to know what is the ideal size for a penis. For example: 15cm 18cm?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nThe size of the penis is an aspect which worries many men for various reasons. Several cultures andcivilizations put much emphasis on the size of male genitalia. For the man, it does not change anything when it comes to his sexual pleasure and the sexual arousal which he will be able to feel in his sexuality. For certainmen, the size of their penis will enable them to have more confidence in themselves and have theperception of being a better lover. Men who think they have a smaller penis then others often have a low sexual self-esteem which will negatively affect their appreciation of their sex life.\r\n\r\nThe size of the penis varies much from one man to another in his flask state (without an erection). On the other hand, the majority of penises in erection range from 5 to 6 inches on average according to international studies. One can speak of a micro penis when its length is below 4 inches when erect. However, studies also show that the majority of women are not worried about penis size. Certain women do attach some significance due to former sexual experience. In fact, some prefer a larger penis because of the feeling it provides during penetration or are sexually aroused when they see it or touch it. Others will prefer smaller ones because a larger penis can limit certain positions or can hurt. It all depends on personal preferences ofeach woman or man. Although the size of the penis has an importance for certain women, the great majorityput more emphasis on other factors to evaluate their sexual satisfaction with their partner. For example,tenderness, confidence, variety, manliness, intimacy, sexual intensity, etc.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is a complete sexual relationship\" tab_id=\"1487965863742-9699ccd9-badb\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello</strong></b><b><strong>,</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>a</strong></b> <b><strong>small</strong></b> <b><strong>question</strong></b><b><strong>. Do</strong></b><b><strong> most people prefer sex with penetration or is doing the 69 position (mutual oral sex) enough for them? Is the 69 position seen more as a preliminary or can it also be considered as having sex? Can 69 be considered a complete and satisfactory sexual act in a couple? I started a new relationship recently and my new boyfriend thinks that all women can be amply satisfied by doing the 69 position, according to his last relationships. That is why I ask my question.</strong></b>\r\n\r\nIn fact, sexual behaviours are varied and numerous in couples, whereas the popular belief is that sex is notcomplete without penetration and an orgasm (normally the men’s). With this restrictive way of thinking, oralsex will be regarded only as being part of sexual preliminaries. If this definition is used, it is thus consideredthat homosexuals and lesbians, the paraplegic or any person not using penetration in their sexual repertoiredo not have complete sexual relationships. What do you think about it? What is your definition of a sexual relationship?\r\n\r\nCertain people will define a sexual relationship as reaching orgasm. Others, by the level of satisfaction they obtain or the quality of the emotional exchange. Each definition is valid in itself, because everyone has theirown sexual preferences. The practice of oral sex can fully satisfy certain people, whereas others want the feelings that you can only get during penetration. Our definition of a “complete” sexual relationship can alsochange every time we have sex: a couple can be entirely satisfied with a manual stimulation (masturbate their partner’s) one evening, but want to practice penetration the next time they have sex. It is thus difficultto affirm that everyone can be satisfied by only one type of sexual behaviour. It is then important to varythese sexual practices on occasion in order to move away from a routine which tends to decrease the sexual desire of most couples <a href=\"http://http//sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">(read: </a><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">Lack of Sexual Desire is  Good for Your Couple</a><a href=\"http://http//sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">).</a>\r\n\r\nSometimes, partners do not agree on their definition of a “complete” sexual relationship. This leaves one of them dissatisfied; their needs are not being fulfilled during their sexual activities. In such a situation, a discussion between the partners is necessary so that each one finds their satisfaction. It is important to remain open to what the other can bring to us and to clearly explain what we are looking for in our sexuality<a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\">(read: </a><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\">Couple’s Communication Issues or Unable to Tolerate Intimacy?)</a>.\r\n\r\nAll in all, the more our perception of sexuality is widened, the more one has the potential to open up sexually.To limit our definition of a “complete” sexual relationship brings frustration, disappointment and dissatisfaction with our partner. We must sometimes leave our comfort zone, explore new avenues and redefine our perceptions of sexuality in order to develop our sexual maturity.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Masturbation and Virginity\" tab_id=\"1487965865928-cdbffe8f-1dd4\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>a</strong></b> <b><strong>problem</strong></b> <b><strong>which</strong></b> <b><strong>makes</strong></b> <b><strong>me</strong></b> <b><strong>live</strong></b> <b><strong>unhappiness,</strong></b> <b><strong>please</strong></b> <b><strong>help</strong></b> <b><strong>me</strong></b><b><strong>.</strong></b><b><strong> Does masturbation have a negative impact on my health? I am an 18 year old girl and I am so afraid that masturbation canmake me sterile because I heard that it causes several bad effects on health. Also masturbation has an influence on virginity! Please help me I am so frightened!</strong></b>\r\n\r\nMasturbation is a sexual activity which can be practiced individually or as a couple. It allows us to explore our body and the sexual sensations which it can provide. This practice also makes it possible to discover oursexual preferences, to explore various ways of arousing ourselves sexually and to increase our sexual pleasure. It also has advantages on our physical health; for example, it relaxes us, reduces our musculartensions and relieves stress. What are your reasons for masturbating?\r\n\r\nThere is no negative impact on the physical level when one masturbates and it does not affect fertility at all.In fact, it is even good to masturbate before, during and after pregnancy. Several myths on masturbation circulate to discourage people not to practice it, often for moral or religious reasons. Moreover, as mentioned above, masturbation also has various advantages on the psychological level. Does that reassure you?\r\n\r\nThe definition of virginity is not only cultural, but also differs from one person to another. For certain people,it will be associated with the presence of the hymen (thin membrane at the entrance of the vagina). For others, it will not be the case since the hymen can tear before the first penetration with a partner. For example, by using a tampon, practicing sports such as cycling or riding a horse, as well as masturbation, if penetration is used (fingers or objects). In addition, losing one’s virginity can be defined for certain people as the experience of a first sexual relationship. How do you perceive virginity? What importance do you grant it?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How to treat homosexuality?\" tab_id=\"1487965867788-930a9dd8-1d62\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Is it possible to leave homosexuality and to go back to heterosexuality? I was involved in homosexual relationships and I want to change. How can you help me? Is it possible to help me because you know routine blunts sensitivity or is man a creature of habit. How can you help me to be attracted by the opposite sex again? Is there a remedy?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nThere exists a variety of hypotheses explaining the origins of homosexuality, such as the level of hormones, development of the brain, sexual experiences, or a person’s upbringing. Some explanations are biological or social and a mixture of these two approaches exists as well. Several treatments and therapies have  already been tested in the past and they have proven to be dangerous and did not really help. It is thus not possible to treat or change someone’s sexual orientation, because it is not a disease or a mental health problem. How do you feel about this fact? What could help you to accept it better?\r\n\r\nSince our sexual orientation can’t be chosen, it can be difficult to accept it. This form of homophobia is generally influenced by personal values, cultural and family upbringing, as well as religion. On top of that, there are several myths on homosexuality, which persist in reinforcing homophobia. What are your reasons to prefer being heterosexual? How do you perceive each sexual orientation? What attracts you more towards heterosexuality rather than homosexuality? A therapy with a sex therapist can be necessary to overcome these difficulties and to better accept our homosexuality.\r\n\r\nThe process of acceptance is generally done in steps. There are some variations from one individual to another since each one will have a different personality, history and socio-cultural context. These steps include confusion, tolerance towards our sexual orientation, acceptance and finally their is pride in our sexual orientation. Where do you situate yourself in this process at the moment? Do you feel the need to be guided through this?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is Female Ejaculation?\" tab_id=\"1487965869509-b4cdf3d2-30ca\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello, how are you? I have a question, I was wondering what exactly is female ejaculation made of?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nFor many years now, there has been debates in the scientific community about the composition of female ejaculate. The latest research demonstrated that the liquid comes from the Skene glands, which are the equivalent of the prostate for men and that they can be found between the urethra and the vagina. On top of that, female ejaculate would also have the same composition as the liquid that is produced by the prostate in sperm. Although, since the exit point of female ejaculation is so near the urethra, it’s possible to find very small amounts of urine. It’s important to stress that urine is a sterile liquid and that female ejaculate can only have very insignificant traces of it.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][/vc_tta_accordion][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'FAQ', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1673-revision-v1', '', '', '2019-07-18 19:58:18', '2019-07-18 17:58:18', '', 1673, 'http://sexcoupletherapy.com/blog/2019/07/18/1673-revision-v1/', 0, 'revision', '', 0);
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(2999, 2, '2019-07-18 19:05:06', '2019-07-18 17:05:06', '[vc_row inner_container=\"true\"][vc_column width=\"5/12\"][vc_single_image image=\"2448\" img_size=\"medium\" visibility=\"all\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"7/12\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<h2>Answers to sex questions by a sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist</h2>\r\n[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]This section answers questions related to the process of psychotherapy with a sex therapist and psychotherapist.\r\n\r\nThe answers will help you better understand the competence of sex therapist and psychotherapist and the process of therapy with a healthcare professional.\r\n<p class=\"p1\">If you have any more questions, please contact us through on <a href=\"/?page_id=167\">CONTACT</a> page.</p>\r\n[/vc_column_text][gap size=\"30\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row padding_top=\"80\" padding_bottom=\"80\" bg_color=\"#f4f4f4\"][vc_column][vc_tta_accordion style=\"flat\" shape=\"square\" color=\"sandy-brown\" spacing=\"4\" active_section=\"1\" css=\".vc_custom_1563464990422{margin-left: 50px !important;border-right-width: 50px !important;padding-right: 100px !important;padding-left: 100px !important;border-right-color: #e58c59 !important;}\" no_fill=\"true\" collapsible_all=\"true\"][vc_tta_section title=\"What is the price of a session?\" tab_id=\"1563464646692-87116cc6-0711\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<div>\r\n\r\nThe sessions are 50 minutes in length and cost 95$ each. Taxes are included.\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How can I pay for the fees?\" tab_id=\"1563464646912-813a8edf-9a7a\"][vc_column_text]These are the ways you can pay:\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Cash</li>\r\n 	<li>Debit Interac (requires paypay feature)</li>\r\n 	<li>Cheques</li>\r\n 	<li>E-transfer by email</li>\r\n 	<li><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">NO CREDIT CARDS ARE ACCEPTED</span></li>\r\n</ul>\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How many sessions do I need?\" tab_id=\"1563464647282-5466ebcd-9b1c\"][vc_column_text]The number of sessions is determined by a number of factors such as:\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Your involvement in the therapeutic process</li>\r\n 	<li>The therapeutic relationship with you sex therapist</li>\r\n 	<li>The causes of your sexual difficulty</li>\r\n 	<li>The nature of the difficulty</li>\r\n 	<li>The duration and evolution of the sexual difficulty</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nGenerally, a therapeutic process can last 15 to 20 sessions. This can be shorter or longer depending on the critera mentionned above.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How do I choose my sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist?\" tab_id=\"1563464647674-df755a95-b4ba\"][vc_column_text]It is really important to choose your sex therapist according to your comfort, the therapeutic approach of the sex therapist and their respective specialties. Each sex therapist psychotherapist at least have a master\'s degree in clinical sexology. Some have bachelors in sexology and others in a related field in healthcare such as psychology. Generally, we all have the same competence to <a href=\"https://sexcoupletherapy.com/therapie/\">treat sexual and relationship issues</a>, but we have each individual interest and specialities that we have developed over the course of our practice.\r\n\r\nYou can consult the list of our <a href=\"/?page_id=2516\">sex therapist and psychotherapist</a> to choose one according to your preferences\r\n\r\n[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is the difference between a male and female therapist?\" tab_id=\"1563464648075-828e9e6f-18bb\"][vc_column_text]The short response is that there is no difference between them if you consider the profesionnal training and competence for each. We each receive the same training which requires a master\'s degree in clinical sexology. We may have different interest of specialized trainings from our years of practice.\r\n\r\nThe difference is more related to your own dynamic\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Are you more at ease with a woman or a man to talk about sexuality?</li>\r\n 	<li>Have your reflected on what may be the reasons behind that choice?</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nSometimes the discomfort we feel might even be related to the reason your are consulting a sex therapist. It is important to know that a male or female therapist will not better understand you or your situation because of their own gender. It is important to feel comfortable with the sex therapist you choose.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Can I treat my problem with only one session?\" tab_id=\"1563464648491-2c2dcccc-5db9\"][vc_column_text]That is particularly rare that you can solve a sexual issue with just one session. The first sessions are to evaluate your situation and determine the causes of the issues at hand. Afterwards, you discuss what are the following steps in your process in the futures sessions by determining your goals and expecations\r\n\r\nIt can happen in certain circumstances, that the first session will allow you to obtain some information and clarify misconceptions about sexuality which allows you to change the issue you consulted for.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Should I consult a psychologist or sextherapist psychotherapist?\" tab_id=\"1563464648927-68219c03-73d9\"][vc_column_text]A psychologist and sextherapist psychotherapist offer the same service called psychotherapy to their clients. What differs between these 2 professions is their field of expertise and certain reserved acts.\r\n\r\nThe psychologist is more specialized with mental health (eg. depression, anxiety, personality disorders, etc.) They can also accompany people through relational, familial and couple\'s issues.\r\n\r\nThe sex therapist and psychotherapist is more specialized in couples relationships and sexuality. They offer individual and couples therapy by exploring the various experiences of a sexual relationship. They also explore the global dynamic of the relationship and the individual\'s background and life experiences. The evaluate the evolution and sexual education received and the impact on the history and present situation of their client.\r\n\r\nOnly sex therapist can evaluate sexual issues, while psychologist are allowed to evaluate and diagnose mental health issues, such as mentionned above.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What therapeutic approaches do you use?\" tab_id=\"1563468565124-5468622e-00d2\"][vc_column_text]Each sex therapist psychotherapist uses different approaches and styles of interventions. By reading their profiles on the <a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.com/sextherapist-psychotherapist/sextherapist-clinic/\">page of our professionals</a>, you will be able to be informed about each of their approaches.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Does everyone at your clinic offer psychotherapy?\" tab_id=\"1563468694656-6e318546-384d\"][vc_column_text]We all have the same professional titles of <strong>sex therapist</strong> &amp; <strong>psychotherapist</strong>. We are members of the Order of Sexologist of Québec and we detain a permit of psychotherapist from the Order of Psychologist of Quebec.\r\n\r\nWe have each received our certification to evaluation sexual issues given by the Order of sexologist of Quebec.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Do my insurances reimburse your services?\" tab_id=\"1563468852295-e79c359d-3bf8\"][vc_column_text]That depends of your individual insurance plan. You have to verify directely with your insurance company what services and by which professionals you are covered.\r\n\r\nAccording to the law since 2012, psychologist and psychotherapist offer the same service of psychotherapy in the province of Quebec. If your insurance covers psychotherapy or psychotherapists, the fees of our sessions will be covered according to your plans specificities.\r\n\r\nIf your insurance covers psychologist, they may or may not cover the cost. Since the service is considered the same under the law, some insurance companies are flexible enough to insure both professions. Others only reimburse the service if it is offered by a specific professional. You will need to inform yourself directely with the company.\r\n\r\nIn all cases, our fees are tax deductible and your medical costs at the end of the year. So, don\'t forget to keep your receipts![/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is the frequency of the sessions?\" tab_id=\"1563469114279-e4ad1e88-7303\"][vc_column_text]Generally, a psychotherapy is most effective when the sessions are on a regular basis, ideally each week. As the therapy progresses, we space out the sessions to let your autonomy and indidivual exploration develop.\r\n\r\nHowever, your financial means, your availability, your needs and expectations are also determining factors in the frequency.\r\n\r\nYou can discuss this with your sextherapist psychotherapist to adapt to your needs in the first session and as the therapy progresses.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][/vc_tta_accordion][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=\"1/6\"][vc_separator color=\"\"][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"2/3\"][vc_column_text]This section answers real questions that are commonly asked to <a href=\"/?page_id=167\"><strong>sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist</strong></a>. My expertise may guide you to help concerning certain sexual difficulties by reading the answers.\r\n\r\nIt is important to know that this does not replace therapy by a professional and they cannot be considered as a diagnostic. The answers may not fit every similar situation as I will be taking elements directly from the question. It is very probable that the answers may help you in your situation. This section is to help you reflect on your difficulty and to give professional information and help you find a solution.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column width=\"1/6\"][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row padding_top=\"80\" padding_bottom=\"80\" bg_color=\"#f4f4f4\"][vc_column][vc_tta_accordion style=\"flat\" shape=\"square\" color=\"sandy-brown\" spacing=\"4\" active_section=\"1\" css=\".vc_custom_1563464974483{margin-left: 50px !important;border-right-width: 50px !important;padding-right: 100px !important;padding-left: 100px !important;border-right-color: #e58c59 !important;}\" no_fill=\"true\" collapsible_all=\"true\"][vc_tta_section title=\"Lack of sexual desire for a woman\" tab_id=\"1487964475587-e615d9cb-49d2\"][vc_column_text]\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<b><strong>Hello</strong></b><b><strong>,</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b><b><strong> am</strong></b><b><strong> married since 2005 and I’m</strong></b> <b><strong>35</strong></b><b><strong> years </strong></b><b><strong>and</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>2</strong></b> <b><strong>children</strong></b><b><strong>.</strong></b><b><strong> My problem is that I hate to make love with my husband. I love him a lot. I have chosen him as a husband and he does everything to please to me, but I do not know what is happening to me. Since the first day of our marriage, it has been the same thing. Each time it feels like rape to me.</strong></b>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<em>There are several reasons that could explain a lack of sexual desire or a dislike towards sexuality with a partner. Moreover, several people continue to have sexual relationships with their partner when there isn’t any interest to do it, and this is the case for men as for women. Sometimes, they do it out of marital obligation, to silence their persistent partner in their requests or to avoid a conflict. What are the factorswhich lead you to continue to have sexual activities when you do not feel the desire for them?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> can </em><em>be</em><em> very difficult to discuss </em><em>with</em><em> our partner our </em><em>disinterest</em><em> towards our couple’s </em><em>sex life</em><em>.</em><em> We can be afraid to disappoint them, hurt their feelings, create a conflict, undergo marital violence, etc. In any of these cases, it is important to respect ourselves. With this in mind, one can try to put their limits by refusing sex with their partner when they do not have the desire for it. How could you say this to your partner? How do you imagine the situation unfolding? Certain partners will strongly react to this refusal. They can become hot-tempered, sad, anxious, demoralized, angry, etc. How do you envision managing his reaction and the situation? What are the reasons which would prevent you from discussing it with him?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Avoiding</em><em> the </em><em>discussion can</em> <em>decrease</em><em> the </em><em>interest</em> <em>towards</em> <em>sexuality</em> <em>and</em> <em>consequently</em><em> brings </em><em>a</em> <em>person</em> <em>to hate</em><em>love-making</em> <em>with</em><em> their </em><em>partner</em><em>.</em><em> We can even develop unpleasant emotions towards our partner who agrees to have sex that we do not wish to have. Which emotions do you have towards your partner concerning thissituation? Certain people feel shame, disgust, anger, unhappiness, contempt, etc.</em>\r\n\r\n<em> Another</em> <em>aspect</em><em> which needs to be explored </em><em>is</em><em> the possible loss of respect </em><em>towards</em><em> the </em><em>partner</em><em> and ourselves </em><em>in</em><em> the process</em><em>.</em><em> When we agree to have sex that we do not wish to have, it becomes difficult to respect ourselves and our partner, which consequently, decreases our sexual desire towards them or sex altogether.How do you perceive your partner during a sex? What do you think of during sex? Do you believe that yourpartner feels your disinterest when you are physically intimate with him? What does that mean about you andyour relationship with your husband?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Our couple’s sexual dynamic is essential to evaluate when one partner feels a lack of sexual desire. More precisely, what do you hate about your sex life with your partner? What changes would you bring to your sex life? First of all, it is important to know our preferences when it comes to sex so we can then discuss it withour partner. Sometimes, couples have diverging ideas on certain sexual positions, practices or styles. Whatare your sexual preferences and those of your partner?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Do</em><em> you </em><em>believe</em><em> yourself to able to have </em><em>a</em><em> discussion </em><em>on</em><em> your </em><em>sexual</em> <em>practices</em> <em>with</em> <em>your</em><em> partner</em><em>?</em><em> This kind of conversation can create tensions in the couple and generate a conflict. It is more reassuring to perceive this conflict as a way to improve our relationship and our sex life then a fight with your partner. These conflicts are never easy to manage and often require the assistance of a professional, like a sex therapist or a couple’stherapist.</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> is also important to reflect on our own relationship with sexuality</em><em>.</em><em> The perception of sexuality is different for everyone. It is therefore preferable to question our perceptions about sex and relationship with sexuality in general. Do you feel sexual desire for other people? Do you like sexuality outside of your couple (masturbation, sexual fantasies, etc.)? What is your perception of sexuality? Did you ever have similar difficulties with other sexual partners? If you have a bad perception of sex or a difficult relationship with sexuality, it would be beneficial to consult a sex therapist individually in order to better understand thesefeeling.</em>[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Lower sexual desire for a man\" tab_id=\"1487964476053-b704912a-3f78\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello</strong></b> <b><strong>to</strong></b><b><strong> you</strong></b><b><strong>!</strong></b><b><strong> I have a big question! Is it possible that a 22 year old man doesn’t have any moredesire to have sex or is it simply a sign that our couple has problems? It’s now been 4 years that weare together, I am pregnant with my 3rd baby and the problem exists for the past 3 years. But now, it’s getting worse. For 2 months, we haven’t had any sexual contact!  We hardly kiss, touch, or hug each other. Do I need to leave this relationship?</strong></b>\r\n\r\n<em>There</em> <em>exist</em> <em>various</em> <em>reasons</em> <em>explaining</em> <em>a</em> <em>lack</em> <em>of</em> <em>sexual desire</em> <em>for</em> <em>one</em> <em>or</em> <em>both</em> <em>partners in a relationship</em><em>.</em><em> The dynamics of the couple and the satisfaction in the relationship can largely influence the sexual desire of a person towards their partner. It is also important to question about sexual satisfaction. What are your levelsof satisfaction in the couple and of your sex life for each one of you? Do you take the time to discuss your couple and sexual dissatisfactions? If so, how did you try to fix it?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>It</em><em> should be understood that in </em><em>each</em><em> couple</em><em>,</em><em> there is always a <u>Low Desire Partner</u> (LDP) and a <u>High Desire Partner</u> (HDP)</em><em>.</em><em> Contrary to popular beliefs, we find as many men as women being a LDP. The behaviours, attitudes and reactions of the HDP play a very important part on the sexual desire of their partner. Each one of these roles in the couple (HDP &amp; LDP) comes with its load of difficulties. The HDP often feels inadequatesexually and has the feeling of being unable to meet the sexual needs of their partner’s. They can also feelguilt, incomprehension, shame, anger, sadness for wanting more sex than their partner, etc. The LDP can feelpowerless, frustrated, harassed, and their personal self-esteem can become affected about not being a good partner. How do you manage/tolerate this difference between both of two?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>You</em> <em>mentioned</em> <em>that you were a mother</em> <em>of</em> <em>two</em> <em>children</em> <em>and</em> <em>a</em> <em>third</em><em> one </em><em>will soon</em><em> be part of the family. </em><em>There</em><em>is</em><em> a </em><em>certain</em> <em>adjustment</em> <em>which</em> <em>must</em> <em>occur</em> <em>for</em> <em>new parents</em> <em>who</em> <em>add</em><em> an extra </em><em>role</em> <em>of</em> <em>mother</em> <em>and</em> <em>father</em> <em>in</em> <em>their</em><em>couple</em><em>.</em><em> Sometimes, the role of being a man and a woman takes up less space or even disappears and are replaced by a mother and father </em><em>figure</em><em>.</em><em> Certain men have difficulty eroticizing the new image of motherwhom their partner now incarnates. As for women, their bodies change due to the pregnancy and it often has an impact on their perception of themselves which affects their femininity. Which impacts do you believe thatyour new roles of mother and father have had on your sex life?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Moreover</em><em>,</em><em> flirting </em><em>is frequently forgotten or put aside</em><em> in a couple </em><em>after</em><em> several </em><em>years</em> <em>of</em> <em>dating</em><em>.</em><em> We often take our partner for granted and limit our implication in seducing them. The High Desire Partner (HDP) will start to evaluate the level of sexual desire of their spouse rather than create it. Do you take the time to seduce yourselves in your couple? How do you do it? What happens if you don’t succeed?  Do you spend time as a couple, without the children?</em>\r\n\r\n<em>The</em> <em>lack</em> <em>of</em> <em>the</em> <em>sexual desire in one partner</em><em> is </em><em>a</em> <em>frequent</em> <em>step in a couple’s life</em> <em>and</em><em> is </em><em>even</em> <em>normal</em> <em>in</em><em> a </em><em>long term relationship</em><em>.</em><em> It is actually an opportunity to awaken and transform our sex life in the couple. On the other hand, it often requires leaving our comfort zone, to reveal ourselves on deeper levels and develop our eroticism. The assistance of a sex therapist often proves necessary due to the complexity of this difficulty.</em>[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"The importance of penis size\" tab_id=\"1487965861105-46994a77-8a48\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello sir, I would like to know what is the ideal size for a penis. For example: 15cm 18cm?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nThe size of the penis is an aspect which worries many men for various reasons. Several cultures andcivilizations put much emphasis on the size of male genitalia. For the man, it does not change anything when it comes to his sexual pleasure and the sexual arousal which he will be able to feel in his sexuality. For certainmen, the size of their penis will enable them to have more confidence in themselves and have theperception of being a better lover. Men who think they have a smaller penis then others often have a low sexual self-esteem which will negatively affect their appreciation of their sex life.\r\n\r\nThe size of the penis varies much from one man to another in his flask state (without an erection). On the other hand, the majority of penises in erection range from 5 to 6 inches on average according to international studies. One can speak of a micro penis when its length is below 4 inches when erect. However, studies also show that the majority of women are not worried about penis size. Certain women do attach some significance due to former sexual experience. In fact, some prefer a larger penis because of the feeling it provides during penetration or are sexually aroused when they see it or touch it. Others will prefer smaller ones because a larger penis can limit certain positions or can hurt. It all depends on personal preferences ofeach woman or man. Although the size of the penis has an importance for certain women, the great majorityput more emphasis on other factors to evaluate their sexual satisfaction with their partner. For example,tenderness, confidence, variety, manliness, intimacy, sexual intensity, etc.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is a complete sexual relationship\" tab_id=\"1487965863742-9699ccd9-badb\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello</strong></b><b><strong>,</strong></b> <b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>a</strong></b> <b><strong>small</strong></b> <b><strong>question</strong></b><b><strong>. Do</strong></b><b><strong> most people prefer sex with penetration or is doing the 69 position (mutual oral sex) enough for them? Is the 69 position seen more as a preliminary or can it also be considered as having sex? Can 69 be considered a complete and satisfactory sexual act in a couple? I started a new relationship recently and my new boyfriend thinks that all women can be amply satisfied by doing the 69 position, according to his last relationships. That is why I ask my question.</strong></b>\r\n\r\nIn fact, sexual behaviours are varied and numerous in couples, whereas the popular belief is that sex is notcomplete without penetration and an orgasm (normally the men’s). With this restrictive way of thinking, oralsex will be regarded only as being part of sexual preliminaries. If this definition is used, it is thus consideredthat homosexuals and lesbians, the paraplegic or any person not using penetration in their sexual repertoiredo not have complete sexual relationships. What do you think about it? What is your definition of a sexual relationship?\r\n\r\nCertain people will define a sexual relationship as reaching orgasm. Others, by the level of satisfaction they obtain or the quality of the emotional exchange. Each definition is valid in itself, because everyone has theirown sexual preferences. The practice of oral sex can fully satisfy certain people, whereas others want the feelings that you can only get during penetration. Our definition of a “complete” sexual relationship can alsochange every time we have sex: a couple can be entirely satisfied with a manual stimulation (masturbate their partner’s) one evening, but want to practice penetration the next time they have sex. It is thus difficultto affirm that everyone can be satisfied by only one type of sexual behaviour. It is then important to varythese sexual practices on occasion in order to move away from a routine which tends to decrease the sexual desire of most couples <a href=\"http://http//sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">(read: </a><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">Lack of Sexual Desire is  Good for Your Couple</a><a href=\"http://http//sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\">).</a>\r\n\r\nSometimes, partners do not agree on their definition of a “complete” sexual relationship. This leaves one of them dissatisfied; their needs are not being fulfilled during their sexual activities. In such a situation, a discussion between the partners is necessary so that each one finds their satisfaction. It is important to remain open to what the other can bring to us and to clearly explain what we are looking for in our sexuality<a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\">(read: </a><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\">Couple’s Communication Issues or Unable to Tolerate Intimacy?)</a>.\r\n\r\nAll in all, the more our perception of sexuality is widened, the more one has the potential to open up sexually.To limit our definition of a “complete” sexual relationship brings frustration, disappointment and dissatisfaction with our partner. We must sometimes leave our comfort zone, explore new avenues and redefine our perceptions of sexuality in order to develop our sexual maturity.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"Masturbation and Virginity\" tab_id=\"1487965865928-cdbffe8f-1dd4\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>I</strong></b> <b><strong>have</strong></b> <b><strong>a</strong></b> <b><strong>problem</strong></b> <b><strong>which</strong></b> <b><strong>makes</strong></b> <b><strong>me</strong></b> <b><strong>live</strong></b> <b><strong>unhappiness,</strong></b> <b><strong>please</strong></b> <b><strong>help</strong></b> <b><strong>me</strong></b><b><strong>.</strong></b><b><strong> Does masturbation have a negative impact on my health? I am an 18 year old girl and I am so afraid that masturbation canmake me sterile because I heard that it causes several bad effects on health. Also masturbation has an influence on virginity! Please help me I am so frightened!</strong></b>\r\n\r\nMasturbation is a sexual activity which can be practiced individually or as a couple. It allows us to explore our body and the sexual sensations which it can provide. This practice also makes it possible to discover oursexual preferences, to explore various ways of arousing ourselves sexually and to increase our sexual pleasure. It also has advantages on our physical health; for example, it relaxes us, reduces our musculartensions and relieves stress. What are your reasons for masturbating?\r\n\r\nThere is no negative impact on the physical level when one masturbates and it does not affect fertility at all.In fact, it is even good to masturbate before, during and after pregnancy. Several myths on masturbation circulate to discourage people not to practice it, often for moral or religious reasons. Moreover, as mentioned above, masturbation also has various advantages on the psychological level. Does that reassure you?\r\n\r\nThe definition of virginity is not only cultural, but also differs from one person to another. For certain people,it will be associated with the presence of the hymen (thin membrane at the entrance of the vagina). For others, it will not be the case since the hymen can tear before the first penetration with a partner. For example, by using a tampon, practicing sports such as cycling or riding a horse, as well as masturbation, if penetration is used (fingers or objects). In addition, losing one’s virginity can be defined for certain people as the experience of a first sexual relationship. How do you perceive virginity? What importance do you grant it?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"How to treat homosexuality?\" tab_id=\"1487965867788-930a9dd8-1d62\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Is it possible to leave homosexuality and to go back to heterosexuality? I was involved in homosexual relationships and I want to change. How can you help me? Is it possible to help me because you know routine blunts sensitivity or is man a creature of habit. How can you help me to be attracted by the opposite sex again? Is there a remedy?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nThere exists a variety of hypotheses explaining the origins of homosexuality, such as the level of hormones, development of the brain, sexual experiences, or a person’s upbringing. Some explanations are biological or social and a mixture of these two approaches exists as well. Several treatments and therapies have  already been tested in the past and they have proven to be dangerous and did not really help. It is thus not possible to treat or change someone’s sexual orientation, because it is not a disease or a mental health problem. How do you feel about this fact? What could help you to accept it better?\r\n\r\nSince our sexual orientation can’t be chosen, it can be difficult to accept it. This form of homophobia is generally influenced by personal values, cultural and family upbringing, as well as religion. On top of that, there are several myths on homosexuality, which persist in reinforcing homophobia. What are your reasons to prefer being heterosexual? How do you perceive each sexual orientation? What attracts you more towards heterosexuality rather than homosexuality? A therapy with a sex therapist can be necessary to overcome these difficulties and to better accept our homosexuality.\r\n\r\nThe process of acceptance is generally done in steps. There are some variations from one individual to another since each one will have a different personality, history and socio-cultural context. These steps include confusion, tolerance towards our sexual orientation, acceptance and finally their is pride in our sexual orientation. Where do you situate yourself in this process at the moment? Do you feel the need to be guided through this?[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=\"What is Female Ejaculation?\" tab_id=\"1487965869509-b4cdf3d2-30ca\"][vc_column_text]<b><strong>Hello, how are you? I have a question, I was wondering what exactly is female ejaculation made of?</strong></b>\r\n\r\nFor many years now, there has been debates in the scientific community about the composition of female ejaculate. The latest research demonstrated that the liquid comes from the Skene glands, which are the equivalent of the prostate for men and that they can be found between the urethra and the vagina. On top of that, female ejaculate would also have the same composition as the liquid that is produced by the prostate in sperm. Although, since the exit point of female ejaculation is so near the urethra, it’s possible to find very small amounts of urine. It’s important to stress that urine is a sterile liquid and that female ejaculate can only have very insignificant traces of it.[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][/vc_tta_accordion][/vc_column][/vc_row]', 'FAQ', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '1673-revision-v1', '', '', '2019-07-18 19:05:06', '2019-07-18 17:05:06', '', 1673, 'http://sexcoupletherapy.com/blog/2019/07/18/1673-revision-v1/', 0, 'revision', '', 0);
