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(275, 2, '2017-06-07 16:33:46', '2017-06-07 14:33:46', '<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b>How to Overcome The Issue?*</b></h2>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Sexual desire is defined as a sexual attraction or drive towards another person with whom we want to share real or fantasized sexual activities with. There are also many different types of sexual desire that one can express. Each one brings a dynamic to the couple and each partner may not share the same types of sexual desires or even the frequency to which they want sex with their spouse.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Rules of Couples</b></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">In every relationship, we find a <b>H</b>igh <b>D</b>esire <b>P</b>artner (<b>HDP</b>) and a <b>L</b>ow <b>D</b>esire <b>P</b>artner (<b>LDP</b>). In other words, you always get one partner who wants more sex than the other one. These roles are interchangeable in a couple and varies during the relationship. Men and women can be in either roles and sexual orientation plays no effect on it. Normally at the beginning of a relationship, we don\'t really see any difference. As time goes by, we tend to pinpoint who initiates more often, who wants it more, who avoids or even pretends they like it. As a universal rule, the LDP is the one who controls sex, whether they want to or not. They control how, when, how often, and the why of having sex. They have this control because they are the person who wants it less, therefore they get to choose. Sometimes, this is where name calling begins between them:</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<ul type=\"disc\">\r\n 	<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">You’re frigid!</li>\r\n 	<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">You never initiate.</li>\r\n 	<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">You want it all the time!</li>\r\n 	<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">I don\'t have time to build it, because you\'re always groping me</li>\r\n 	<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">It\'s because you don\'t love me anymore</li>\r\n 	<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">I tried everything, but nothing seems to work</li>\r\n 	<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">Your seeing someone else</li>\r\n 	<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">…</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>We\'re in a Relationship, We Are Suppose to Have Sex</b></h2>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">This dynamic is very frequent in couples who just don\'t know how to handle being rejected for sex. They think that after a while of being with a partner, that it sort of their partner\'s job or at least they own them some sex because they\'re a couple. Typically, the <b>H</b>igh <b>D</b>esire <b>P</b>artner (<b>HDP</b>) will start initiating more often for sex and after being rejected a multitude of times they can then become even less desirable because they put all the blame on the partner. Some will go even further and stop putting any type of effort into seducing their lover when they want sex, yet still blame their spouse.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>The HDP\'s Position</b></h4>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">The HDP does this to protect himself from feeling the hurt of rejection. When we\'ve been rejected on numerous occasions for sex from our partner we start to doubt our desirability. We tend to choose to put less effort into flirting with our spouse, because when we give all that we\'ve got and they still turn us down, it hurts even more. So the standard outcome is to start asking for sex from the <b>L</b>ow <b>D</b>esire <b>P</b>artner (<b>LDP</b>) rather than creating sexual desire in them by being desirable ourselves.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>The LDP\'s Position</b></h4>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Now at a first glance, we might think that the LDP has the better position right? They are satisfied and get the frequency of sex they want and they have the control. Which is what the HDP tells them frequently, sometimes. Not so fast! Neither position in the couple, really feels comfortable. The LDP constantly has to put their limits towards their partner and respect themselves even when sometimes being barraged with name calling. They can feel inadequate and afraid to lose their partner because of it. Sometimes, they don\'t like the sex they are having and don\'t want to hurt their partners feelings by telling them, so they try to avoid it. Most of the time, they don\'t feel they have control, because they are being bombarded by questions, accusations from their partner, which might lead them to offer <b>pity sex</b>.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<table style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\" align=\"center\">\r\n<tbody>\r\n<tr>\r\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\" href=\"http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-9PrQdEI2KiM/UzMeJxhJ7RI/AAAAAAAAAR8/r1AbdQtslIc/s1600/badsex.jpg\"><img title=\"Pity sex\" src=\"http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-9PrQdEI2KiM/UzMeJxhJ7RI/AAAAAAAAAR8/r1AbdQtslIc/s1600/badsex.jpg\" alt=\"sexual desire issues, sexologist montreal\" width=\"320\" height=\"173\" border=\"0\" /></a></td>\r\n</tr>\r\n<tr>\r\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\">Pity sex...should you really accept it?</td>\r\n</tr>\r\n</tbody>\r\n</table>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<h3 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Pity Sex</b></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Most couples will not want to admit they have pity sex, but it\'s probably the most common in long-term relationships where partners haven\'t dealt properly with their HDP and LDP dynamics. An unworked sexual desire issue between spouses brings <a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2014/03/unhealthy-relationship-patterns.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">alliance issues</a> into the couple. Let us look more deeply into the pity sex dynamic. It is defined as offering sex we do not want to our partner because we are afraid of losing them or we just want them to stop asking profusely for sex or to avoid another conflict about the situation. As you might imagine, pity sex is the worst type of sex you can offer and get in a relationship. It is neither fun nor pleasurable for either people. The LDP is rarely if not at all participating in this type of sexual activity, which the HDP obviously sees or feels. The LDP might even make such remarks as: «let\'s get this over with» and the like.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">What is even more surprising in this situation, is not only does the LDP offer such awful sex, the HDP accepts it. Their way of thinking is: «well...if I don\'t take this...I won\'t get any at all». This is where they\'re shooting themselves in the foot. Not only is accepting pity sex from a spouse a lack of respect to themselves, it\'s a lack of respect to their partner as well. Think about it for a second: Why should your partner put any effort into sex if you\'re willing to take anything that is given to you. This lack of respect of self, makes a person truly undesirable. Second, if the partner doesn\'t feel like they\'re respected because they are seen as a piece of meat their spouse just wants to have sex with, don\'t expect them to do it for very long or even enjoy sex. This dynamic also makes the LDP feel undesirable to themselves, and therefore lacks sexual desire, because they lack integrity.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<table style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\" align=\"center\">\r\n<tbody>\r\n<tr>\r\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\" href=\"http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-krVOEbH1l_s/UzMeYa_LiDI/AAAAAAAAASE/gc6ItECsuQA/s1600/bad+sex+masturbation.jpg\"><img title=\"Bad sex\" src=\"http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-krVOEbH1l_s/UzMeYa_LiDI/AAAAAAAAASE/gc6ItECsuQA/s1600/bad+sex+masturbation.jpg\" alt=\"low desire issues, sexologist montreal, sex therapist\" width=\"240\" height=\"320\" border=\"0\" /></a></td>\r\n</tr>\r\n<tr>\r\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\">Yes, if you want to keep having bad sex!!</td>\r\n</tr>\r\n</tbody>\r\n</table>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"color: black; font-family: Times; font-size: medium; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"color: black; font-family: Times; font-size: medium; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: normal; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px;\">\r\n<div style=\"margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small; text-align: justify;\">* Inspired by the book Intimacy and Desire from David Schnarch</span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">READ THE NEXT CHAPTER</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2014/03/getting-yourself-together-promotes-sexual-desire.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"color: #6fa8dc;\"><b><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16pt;\">Getting Yourself Together, Promotes Sexual Desire!: </span></b><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: 16pt;\">Overcoming The Fear of Rejection</span></span></a>', 'Different Levels of Sexual Desire Between Partners in a Couple', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '54-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-06-07 16:33:46', '2017-06-07 14:33:46', '', 54, 'http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2017/06/54-revision-v1.html', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
(57, 1, '2013-08-21 15:01:00', '2013-08-21 13:01:00', '&nbsp;\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"background-color: white; color: #333333; float: none; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">SEX, baseball &amp; PIZZA</span></span></h4>\r\n<br style=\"background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.142857551574707px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px;\" /><br style=\"background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.142857551574707px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px;\" /><span style=\"background-color: white; color: #333333; float: none; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.142857551574707px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px;\">A MUST WATCH!</span>\r\n\r\n\r\nHow can changing our perception of sexuality in a simple manner so that we have more satisfactory sex lives.\r\n\r\nThis video explains how we\'ve being going at it all wrong for many years.\r\n\r\n\r\n<br style=\"background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.142857551574707px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px;\" /><br style=\"background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.142857551574707px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px;\" /><a style=\"background-color: white; color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.142857551574707px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-decoration: underline; text-indent: 0px;\" href=\"http://www.ted.com/talks/al_vernacchio_sex_needs_a_new_metaphor_here_s_one.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow nofollow noopener noreferrer\">http://www.ted.com/talks/al_vernacchio_sex_needs_a_new_metaphor_here_s_one.html</a>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">BASEBALL PERSPECTIVE OF SEX</h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Competitive</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Loser-winner situation</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Externaly-control</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Ruled bound</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Goal directed</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">PIZZA PERSPECTIVE OF SEX</h3>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Inclusive</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Communicative</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">pleasure oriented</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Internal-control</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Cooperative</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Invites exploration</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n&nbsp;', 'Change the paradigm of sex!', '', 'publish', 'open', 'open', '', 'change-the-paradigm-of-sex', '', '', '2017-10-20 03:02:45', '2017-10-20 01:02:45', '', 0, 'http://sexcoupletherapy.agence360.co/2013/08/change-the-paradigm-of-sex.html', 0, 'post', '', 0),
(418, 2, '2017-10-20 03:02:45', '2017-10-20 01:02:45', '&nbsp;\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"background-color: white; color: #333333; float: none; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">SEX, baseball &amp; PIZZA</span></span></h4>\r\n<br style=\"background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.142857551574707px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px;\" /><br style=\"background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.142857551574707px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px;\" /><span style=\"background-color: white; color: #333333; float: none; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.142857551574707px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px;\">A MUST WATCH!</span>\r\n\r\n\r\nHow can changing our perception of sexuality in a simple manner so that we have more satisfactory sex lives.\r\n\r\nThis video explains how we\'ve being going at it all wrong for many years.\r\n\r\n\r\n<br style=\"background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.142857551574707px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px;\" /><br style=\"background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.142857551574707px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px;\" /><a style=\"background-color: white; color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; font-family: \'lucida grande\', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.142857551574707px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 18px; text-align: left; text-decoration: underline; text-indent: 0px;\" href=\"http://www.ted.com/talks/al_vernacchio_sex_needs_a_new_metaphor_here_s_one.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow nofollow noopener noreferrer\">http://www.ted.com/talks/al_vernacchio_sex_needs_a_new_metaphor_here_s_one.html</a>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">BASEBALL PERSPECTIVE OF SEX</h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Competitive</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Loser-winner situation</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Externaly-control</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Ruled bound</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Goal directed</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">PIZZA PERSPECTIVE OF SEX</h3>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Inclusive</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Communicative</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">pleasure oriented</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Internal-control</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Cooperative</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Invites exploration</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n&nbsp;', 'Change the paradigm of sex!', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '57-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-10-20 03:02:45', '2017-10-20 01:02:45', '', 57, 'http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2017/10/57-revision-v1.html', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
(58, 1, '2013-06-15 04:17:00', '2013-06-15 02:17:00', '<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"> <span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><i><b>The underlying issue in couples*</b></i></span></span></span></h1>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Couples fight and it\'s always going to be that way, it\'s inevitable. It\'s not the most fun thing to do with the love of our life. We would all prefer that we all get along and we live happily ever after. Unfortunately and fortunately that is not how it works. People can\'t agree on everything especially when it\'s truly important to who we are and how we act. Our sense of self or commonly know as our identity plays a huge role in our romantic relationships. We can\'t always agree to disagree with our partner, because sometimes you only have one choice, you have to choose and you need to put aside the other choice. Sacrifices are needed in relationships and these tend to create lots of arguments in relationships. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Couples have conflicts on a regular basis and that is totally fine. What really matters is how you deal with them. It\'s not rare to find partners in a battle on a specific subject which neither of them wants to be wrong about or wants to let go of their point of view of the situation. They are both emotionally attached to their perception of the situation and each contradicts the other ones. This is called <b>emotional gridlock! </b><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">The symptoms of this are the following:</span></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\">Repetitive arguments</li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">quickly get frustrated about a topic or argument</span></span></li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Feelings of being misunderstood</span></span></li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Thinking that we are entirely right and their entirely wrong</span></span></li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Not reflecting on what the other is saying, but of our next argument</span></span></li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Our only goal is to prove our point and be right</span></span></li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Ignoring the other person to hurt feelings</span></span></li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">and the list goes on!</span></span></li>\r\n</ul>\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center;\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Most will say that there is </span><span style=\"color: blue;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">missing or lacking communication, which is false</a></span></span><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">. Partners understand each other very well in theses situations, as they\'ve been repeating each other over and over again. Each of them could repeat by heart what their partner\'s arguments word for word. </span><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">They just don\'t agree with them</span></u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">. This is where the emotional gridlock plays a huge role. If one of them had to agree with the other, they would have to change who they are as a person or their perspective of themselves, which affects their sense of self. In other words, it\'s a battle of their integrity. </span></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">They are also avoiding at the same time making a decision about their situation. They are facing what we call a </span><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">2 choice dilemma</span></u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">: Having to choose between two opposing circumstances which obliges the loss of the advantages of the one that isn\'t chosen. So we can understand why each partner is holding on to their end of the blanket. </span></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>How Do We Get Out of The Emotional Gridlock</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">This is where things get really hard for the couple and when at least <u>one </u>partner needs to have a strong <span style=\"color: blue;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-4.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">4 points of balance</a></span> to get pass the dilemma that the couple is facing. It requires a lot of maturity, a capacity to self-confront, to accept half-truths, to avoid holding a grudge, to grow and change as a person. It\'s important not to mistake this for a compromise or a lack of integrity, but a complete change in the dynamic of the couple. It only takes one partner to do it and that is why it\'s actually so hard. It leaves the one that does change completely vulnerable, as they are openly admitting they didn\'t have the entire truth and they are losing their choice in the dilemma. They went beyond their emotions and saw further than their own needs. They took a chance to grow as a person and they grasp it, even though it could have backfired on them. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Emotional gridlock is the battle of the wills of a couple, of each individual\'s integrity and sense of self (identity). It takes a lot of courage for a person to come out of that in a way that they are not losing who they are, but becoming someone better. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Productive Conflicts</b></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Romantic relationships have the capacity to bring the worse in people, but it also allows to bring the best in each partner as well. It\'s undeniable that staying with the same person for a long time is going to bring challenges. Each individual has choices that they can make. One of them is showing the best of themselves and growing in the process or they can stay stuck in their emotional gridlock and remain unsatisfied in their relationship. The choice seems obvious, but actually growing and redefining who you are is one of the hardest things a person can achieve in their lives. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Other related articles:</b></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Redefine your Couple\'s Dynamic in Sexuality Part 1</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-part-2.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Two Very Different Types of Intimacy Part 2</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-3.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">How Intimacy Affects Sexual Desire Part 3</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-4.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The 4 Points of Balance Part 4</a></u></span></span>\r\n<span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;\">\r\n</span><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;\">* Inspired by the book Intimacy and Desire from David Schnarch</span></div>', 'Emotional Gridlock', '', 'publish', 'open', 'open', '', 'emotional-gridlock', '', 'http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-4.html\nhttp://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy.html\nhttp://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-3.html\nhttp://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-part-2.html', '2017-09-29 20:47:34', '2017-09-29 18:47:34', '', 0, 'http://sexcoupletherapy.agence360.co/2013/06/emotional-gridlock.html', 0, 'post', '', 7),
(291, 2, '2017-06-07 16:54:35', '2017-06-07 14:54:35', '&nbsp;\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><i><b>The underlying issue in couples*</b></i></span></span></span></h4>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Couples fight and it\'s always going to be that way, it\'s inevitable. It\'s not the most fun thing to do with the love of our life. We would all prefer that we all get along and we live happily ever after. Unfortunately and fortunately that is not how it works. People can\'t agree on everything especially when it\'s truly important to who we are and how we act. Our sense of self or commonly know as our identity plays a huge role in our romantic relationships. We can\'t always agree to disagree with our partner, because sometimes you only have one choice, you have to choose and you need to put aside the other choice. Sacrifices are needed in relationships and these tend to create lots of arguments in relationships. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Couples have conflicts on a regular basis and that is totally fine. What really matters is how you deal with them. It\'s not rare to find partners in a battle on a specific subject which neither of them wants to be wrong about or wants to let go of their point of view of the situation. They are both emotionally attached to their perception of the situation and each contradicts the other ones. This is called <b>emotional gridlock! </b><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">The symptoms of this are the following:</span></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\">Repetitive arguments</li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">quickly get frustrated about a topic or argument</span></span></li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Feelings of being misunderstood</span></span></li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Thinking that we are entirely right and their entirely wrong</span></span></li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Not reflecting on what the other is saying, but of our next argument</span></span></li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Our only goal is to prove our point and be right</span></span></li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Ignoring the other person to hurt feelings</span></span></li>\r\n 	<li lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">and the list goes on!</span></span></li>\r\n</ul>\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-UGEs5b3ZShk/UbvOb_ikoUI/AAAAAAAAAKw/b2LPBrlkK7M/s1600/iStock_000019759343XSmall.jpg\"><img src=\"http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-UGEs5b3ZShk/UbvOb_ikoUI/AAAAAAAAAKw/b2LPBrlkK7M/s320/iStock_000019759343XSmall.jpg\" width=\"320\" height=\"212\" border=\"0\" /></a></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: xx-small;\">What emotional gridlock can feel like sometimes</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center;\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Most will say that there is </span><span style=\"color: blue;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.ca/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">missing or lacking communication, which is false</a></span></span><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">. Partners understand each other very well in theses situations, as they\'ve been repeating each other over and over again. Each of them could repeat by heart what their partner\'s arguments word for word. </span><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">They just don\'t agree with them</span></u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">. This is where the emotional gridlock plays a huge role. If one of them had to agree with the other, they would have to change who they are as a person or their perspective of themselves, which affects their sense of self. In other words, it\'s a battle of their integrity. </span></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">They are also avoiding at the same time making a decision about their situation. They are facing what we call a </span><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">2 choice dilemma</span></u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">: Having to choose between two opposing circumstances which obliges the loss of the advantages of the one that isn\'t chosen. So we can understand why each partner is holding on to their end of the blanket. </span></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>How Do We Get Out of The Emotional Gridlock</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">This is where things get really hard for the couple and when at least <u>one </u>partner needs to have a strong <span style=\"color: blue;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-4.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">4 points of balance</a></span> to get pass the dilemma that the couple is facing. It requires a lot of maturity, a capacity to self-confront, to accept half-truths, to avoid holding a grudge, to grow and change as a person. It\'s important not to mistake this for a compromise or a lack of integrity, but a complete change in the dynamic of the couple. It only takes one partner to do it and that is why it\'s actually so hard. It leaves the one that does change completely vulnerable, as they are openly admitting they didn\'t have the entire truth and they are losing their choice in the dilemma. They went beyond their emotions and saw further than their own needs. They took a chance to grow as a person and they grasp it, even though it could have backfired on them. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Emotional gridlock is the battle of the wills of a couple, of each individual\'s integrity and sense of self (identity). It takes a lot of courage for a person to come out of that in a way that they are not losing who they are, but becoming someone better. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Productive Conflicts</b></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Romantic relationships have the capacity to bring the worse in people, but it also allows to bring the best in each partner as well. It\'s undeniable that staying with the same person for a long time is going to bring challenges. Each individual has choices that they can make. One of them is showing the best of themselves and growing in the process or they can stay stuck in their emotional gridlock and remain unsatisfied in their relationship. The choice seems obvious, but actually growing and redefining who you are is one of the hardest things a person can achieve in their lives. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Other related articles:</b></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Redefine your Couple\'s Dynamic in Sexuality Part 1</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-part-2.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Two Very Different Types of Intimacy Part 2</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-3.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">How Intimacy Affects Sexual Desire Part 3</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-4.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The 4 Points of Balance Part 4</a></u></span></span>\r\n<span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;\">\r\n</span><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;\">* Inspired by the book Intimacy and Desire from David Schnarch</span></div>', 'Emotional Gridlock', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '58-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-06-07 16:54:35', '2017-06-07 14:54:35', '', 58, 'http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2017/06/58-revision-v1.html', 0, 'revision', '', 0);
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(59, 1, '2013-06-15 04:09:00', '2013-06-15 02:09:00', '&nbsp;\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><b>The 4 Points of Balance*</b></span></span></h4>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Tolerating <span style=\"color: blue;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-part-2.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">self-validated intimacy</a></span> is hard for everyone. It obliges us to maintain a <u>strong sense of self</u>, to <u>self-sooth</u>, have a <u>grounded responses</u> and a <u>meaningful endurance</u>. Each of these 4 points allows a person to maintain balance in the relationship so they grow as an individual and as a partner. When one of these fail, <a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-part-2.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">other validated intimacy</a> takes place and conflicts eventually ensue. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Solid flexible self</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Our sense of self, has a huge impact on our ability to self-disclose personal and intimate information to our partner. It is the way we perceive ourselves in our identity. Who am I? What am I like? What are my values and beliefs? How do I want to be treated? What am I looking for in a partner and in sex? </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Some people have overly flexible selves which means they constantly change who they are depending on the context they are faced with. This is where other validated intimacy comes into play. These types of people will adapt to others so they don\'t feel rejected. They won\'t express what they really think or feel not to bother, upset or start a conflict with others. They are centered towards pleasing other people. Hence, they don\'t have an identity of their own. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">When it comes to sexuality, they won\'t discuss their sexual preferences, talk about sexual fantasies, show who they are sexually, because they don\'t really know or don\'t want other people to know. Quickly enough, sex becomes a routine and they won\'t open up on their possible sexual dissatisfaction. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">There is also the opposite of the continuum where people are rigid in the way they present themselves. They can\'t tolerate differences in their partners. They impose their way of thinking, acting and being. They perceive differences as a threat to their sense of self because it obliges them to reflect on themselves and possibly change their perceptions. This in itself is a huge difficulty to people who are rigid in their sense of self. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Someone who is balanced in this aspect has a good sense of who they are as individuals and are proud of who they are. At the same time they are capable of letting others in their world without feeling threatened. They have the capacity of self-reflection and confrontation and open up to differences and possibly change their perception of things. They are willing to explore new things and change and grow as a person. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Calm heart and calm mind</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Faced with an intimate context it is not always easy to deal with all the emotions that we are feeling. Our bodies react in all different kinds of ways and our feelings can be hurt in the process. This brings people to have all kinds of thoughts in their mind, which aren\'t always the nicest things to say. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">For example, when someone isn\'t entirely satisfied with the sex they\'ve been having and tell their partner. For one, it can be hard to say those things to the person they love and cherish, because they know that it will hurt them. Secondly the other has to deal with the fact that their sexual competencies aren\'t as good as they thought. This has an impact on their sense of self which might bring the person to become rigid or flexible towards the other partner. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">A person\'s capacity to self-sooth and calm themselves down allows them to tolerate the anxiety provoked during intense intimate moments with their partner. People who don\'t have that capacity either avoid intimacy all together so there won\'t be any conflicts or they become explosive when interacting with their partner, because they\'ve been hurt. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Grounded responses</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">In therapy, we hear many couples saying that their arguments turn in circles and never get resolved. It\'s not because there is <span style=\"color: blue;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">missing or lacking communication;</a></span><span style=\"color: black;\"> it\'s that the persons are not willing to agree with their partner. This leads to an </span><span style=\"color: blue;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/emotional-gridlock.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">emotional gridlock</a> </span><span style=\"color: black;\">and the couple has unproductive arguments because they\'re avoiding the real issue. The more we become intimate with each other the more we realize that we have differences, which can be quite fundamental to someone\'s sense of self. </span></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">When couples fight about sexuality, for instance the frequency of sex; they are faced with 2 choices: </span></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><b>Having sex or not having sex</b></span><span style=\"color: black;\">. One partner wants it the other one doesn\'t. This is where a decision needs to be made, which most couples stall or avoid making entirely. You cannot </span><span style=\"color: black;\"><u>have sex </u></span><span style=\"color: black;\">and </span><span style=\"color: black;\"><u>not have it </u></span><span style=\"color: black;\">at the same time. It\'s one or the other! This is where most people lose their grounded response, because they want so badly what THEY want, they say almost anything to get it, even though it makes no sense, they scream and shout at each other or completely ignore their partners to send them the message that they don\'t care. </span></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">A <u>grounded response</u> is when a person takes the time to reflect on the situation before saying whatever goes through their minds. They were able to comfort themselves and are thinking of a <u>mature </u>response to give so that the conflict becomes a productive one. The person that has mastered this point of balance takes the time to listen to what the other has to say and gives a well reflected and grounded response to their partner. They are not seeking to be right, but to grow as a person in this dilemma and understand their partner better, while still maintaining their sense of self (Integrity).</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Meaningful Endurance</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">When faced with a conflict, partners have to decide if they are going to work it through or terminate the relationship because they are incompatible. Differences create strain between lovers, because it requires that we tolerate certain aspects that are not always pleasing to live with. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Depending on the type of dynamic that a couple has, some will avoid taboo subjects not to get into fights so not to threaten the relationship. There is a status quo that is established and nobody is willing to touch it, even though one or both partners are unhappy with how things are developing between them. For example, not telling a partner that sex is dull and needs a boost and enduring the lack of sexual satisfaction rather than dealing with the issue which entails getting out of our sexual comfort zone and become more intimate. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">The other possible reaction is that when faced with differences it immediately puts an end to the couple so that they don\'t have to face the uncomfortable interactions that would ensue if they were to deal with the sexually intimate issues. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Tolerating the anxiety that stems from self-validated intimacy is hard for women and men alike. There are times in long term relationships that are though and you just want to give up, pack your bags and go home. These times are when we test our limits, can learn to mature and grow as a person and as a couple. The anxiety of not knowing if you are going to get through this and that you may be <span style=\"color: blue;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/03/why-its-hard-to-truly-commit-to-our.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">wasting your time and part of your life</a></span> trying to work things out can break many couples up. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">People who have meaningful endurance give it their best shot. They self-confront, self-sooth and act in a mature way, all the while tolerating the anxiety, uncomfortable and difficult times that every long term couple needs to face one day or the other. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">\r\n</span></span><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">\r\n</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span>\r\n<span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">\r\n</span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>READ MORE ON: <u>Sexual Intimacy &amp; Sexual Desire</u></b></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Redefine your Couple\'s Dynamic in Sexuality Part 1</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-part-2.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Two Very Different Types of Intimacy Part 2</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-3.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">How Intimacy Affects Sexual Desire Part 3</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u> </u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Other related articles:</b></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/03/why-its-hard-to-truly-commit-to-our.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Why It\'s Truly Hard to Commit to Our Relationships</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/emotional-gridlock.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Emotional Gridlock</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">A Lack of Sexual Desire is Good for Your Couple!</a></span></span></span></u></span></span></div>\r\n<h3 style=\"font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Couple’s Communication Issues or Unable to Tolerate Intimacy?</a></span></span></span></span></span></h3>\r\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small; text-align: justify;\">* Inspired by the book Intimacy and Desire from David Schnarch</span></div>\r\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"> </span></span></span></span></div>\r\n<!-- Begin MailChimp Signup Form -->\r\n\r\n<style type=\"text/css\">\r\n	#mc_embed_signup{background:#fff; clear:left; font:14px Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif; }<br />\r\n	/* Add your own MailChimp form style overrides in your site stylesheet or in this style block.<br />\r\n	   We recommend moving this block and the preceding CSS link to the HEAD of your HTML file. */<br />\r\n</style>\r\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup\"><form id=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" class=\"validate\" action=\"//sexcoupletherapy.us8.list-manage.com/subscribe/post?u=b99a753a12fded994c86ffc1d&amp;id=fd88d57b31\" method=\"post\" name=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" novalidate=\"\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup_scroll\">\r\n<h2>Subscribe to our mailing list</h2>\r\n<div class=\"indicates-required\"><span class=\"asterisk\">*</span> indicates required</div>\r\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-EMAIL\">Email Address <span class=\"asterisk\">*</span>\r\n</label>\r\n<input id=\"mce-EMAIL\" class=\"required email\" name=\"EMAIL\" type=\"email\" value=\"\" /></div>\r\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-FNAME\">First Name </label>\r\n<input id=\"mce-FNAME\" class=\"\" name=\"FNAME\" type=\"text\" value=\"\" /></div>\r\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-LNAME\">Last Name </label>\r\n<input id=\"mce-LNAME\" class=\"\" name=\"LNAME\" type=\"text\" value=\"\" /></div>\r\n<div id=\"mce-responses\" class=\"clear\"></div>\r\n<!-- real people should not fill this in and expect good things - do not remove this or risk form bot signups-->\r\n<div style=\"position: absolute; 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(60, 1, '2013-06-15 03:58:00', '2013-06-15 01:58:00', '&nbsp;\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><b>How Intimacy Effects Our Sexual Desire*</b></span></span></h4>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"CENTER\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><b> </b></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">When our relationship is based on <span style=\"color: #0084d1;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-part-2.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">other validated intimacy</a></span>, we inevitably hit an obstacle in our sexual maturity. If we are only willing to self-disclose a part of ourselves to our partner we\'re limiting the level of intimacy the couple can share. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Limiting our sexual maturity</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: #0084d1;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Sexual desire</a></span> in a long-term relationship can be affected by a number of elements in the dynamic of a couple. First and foremost sexual desire stays alive in couples who are capable of reinventing themselves, trying new things, experimenting sexual fantasies and introducing a different dynamic in their sex lives. It\'s also people who are not afraid to look silly, laugh and can tolerate sexual awkwardness. When our couple uses other validated intimacy, we\'re afraid to do any of those things because they might bring rejection or judgment on the part of the partner, which other validated couples avoid at all cost because that hurts.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Avoid stagnation</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Consequently, we find couples who have stagnated in their capacity to mature sexually and a routine is instated. Nothing kills sexual desire more than being able to predict every aspect of how we are going to have sex with someone. Sexual desire exudes when there is adventure, newness, surprise and strong emotions. Routine sex is good to make you feel comfortable and loved, but it lacks the capacity to excite and bring desire towards our partners. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Admire to desire</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Another aspect that impacts sexual desire is our capacity to tolerate vulnerabilities in ourselves and in our partner. A component of sexual desire is admiration towards the other. If there is a lack thereof, then little desire can exist between two people. How can couples be vulnerable in front of each other by admitting their mistakes, showing their issues and faults without killing the admiration they have for each other? </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Admitting our limits takes a lot of personal strength which is admirable in itself, but there is still a step further people need to go through. After putting ourselves in that vulnerable state, it\'s important to learn from it and grow as a human being and a partner. When we witness our lover struggling at becoming a better person, we can take pride and admire being with such a man or woman. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Get your sex appeal on!</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: #0084d1;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/01/relationship-patterns-and-seduction.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Seduction </a></span>is also an element that impacts sexual desire in couples. Most long-term couples tend to take for granted their partner after a while and they don\'t feel the need to seduce and flirt anymore. Seducing our partner is required if we want to keep the flames of passion between each other. Flirting allows the couple to have fun, laugh, play and sexualize their encounters, which grants the promise of sex in the near future. If we don\'t play the game, we can\'t expect to win the prize! </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">The downside of seducing our partner is that they may end up not wanting sex at the end, which can leave one partner frustrated or rejected at having put so much effort. People who <span style=\"background: transparent;\">cultivate </span>other validated intimacy will withdraw from flirting to avoid getting hurt again. Couples who are capable of validating themselves will try again and see it as a challenge to woo their partner next time. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Hence, intimacy is intricately related to the level of sexual desire that will be shared between partners. We need to heighten our intimacy by cultivating our sexual development, seducing our partner and growing as a person! </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>READ MORE  ON: <u>Sexual Intimacy &amp; Sexual Desire</u></b></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Redefine your Couple\'s Dynamic in Sexuality Part 1</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-part-2.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Two Very Different Types of Intimacy Part 2</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-4.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The 4 Points of Balance Part 4</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Other related articles:</b></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/03/why-its-hard-to-truly-commit-to-our.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Why It\'s Truly Hard to Commit to Our Relationships</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/emotional-gridlock.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Emotional Gridlock</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">A Lack of Sexual Desire is Good for Your Couple!</a></span></span></span></u></span></span></div>\r\n<h3 style=\"font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Couple’s Communication Issues or Unable to Tolerate Intimacy?</a></span></span></span></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;\">* Inspired by the book Intimacy and Desire from David Schnarch</span></div>\r\n<!-- Begin MailChimp Signup Form -->\r\n\r\n<style type=\"text/css\">\r\n	#mc_embed_signup{background:#fff; clear:left; font:14px Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif; }<br />	/* Add your own MailChimp form style overrides in your site stylesheet or in this style block.<br />	   We recommend moving this block and the preceding CSS link to the HEAD of your HTML file. */<br /></style>\r\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup\"><form id=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" class=\"validate\" action=\"//sexcoupletherapy.us8.list-manage.com/subscribe/post?u=b99a753a12fded994c86ffc1d&amp;id=fd88d57b31\" method=\"post\" name=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" novalidate=\"\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup_scroll\">\r\n<h2>Subscribe to our mailing list</h2>\r\n<div class=\"indicates-required\"><span class=\"asterisk\">*</span> indicates required</div>\r\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-EMAIL\">Email Address <span class=\"asterisk\">*</span>\r\n</label>\r\n<input id=\"mce-EMAIL\" class=\"required email\" name=\"EMAIL\" type=\"email\" value=\"\" /></div>\r\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-FNAME\">First Name </label>\r\n<input id=\"mce-FNAME\" class=\"\" name=\"FNAME\" type=\"text\" value=\"\" /></div>\r\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-LNAME\">Last Name </label>\r\n<input id=\"mce-LNAME\" class=\"\" name=\"LNAME\" type=\"text\" value=\"\" /></div>\r\n<div id=\"mce-responses\" class=\"clear\"></div>\r\n<!-- real people should not fill this in and expect good things - do not remove this or risk form bot signups-->\r\n<div style=\"position: absolute; 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(61, 1, '2013-06-15 03:55:00', '2013-06-15 01:55:00', '&nbsp;\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><b>Two Very Different Types of Intimacy*</b></span></span></h4>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"CENTER\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><b> </b></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"CENTER\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Intimacy and couple\'s dynamic</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Every couple is unique in the way they are intimate with each other. It is determined by each partner\'s individual experience and need for intimacy with their lover and also the dynamic that develops during the relationship. As we get to know each other better, we either appreciate the parts they are self-disclosing or find out things that we would have preferred not to know. This is where the couple dynamic with intimacy starts to form itself. When someone is self-disclosing to their partner, there is an inevitable reaction on both ends. The first reaction comes from the partner receiving the self-disclosure, which can be either acceptance or rejection of the new element that is being introduced. The second counter-reaction comes from the person that self-discloses, who then evaluates if it was a good or bad idea to share this intimate information with their lover. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Reciprocal Intimacy</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">This type of intimacy is what our society tends to promote in the media and amongst friends and family. It is the safe form of intimacy where we only self-disclose personal information that we know our partner will accept and not reject us (sexual fantasies, seducing in a different manner, proposing a new sexual style, etc.). We also expect the other to reciprocate immediately afterwards, so we don\'t put ourselves in too much of a vulnerable position with them.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"> Sounds great at first glance. No one gets hurt, we don\'t have to be too vulnerable and it feels like an equal relationship; in other words SAFE. We also call this type of intimacy “other validated intimacy”, which means you are searching for validation from the other when you self-disclose. We can\'t BE who we truly are unless our partner accepts us that way. Hence, we hide behind this false image of who we are so that we don\'t feel rejected. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">On the other hand, we can easily see how in the long run this can become problematic. If we are only willing to divulge as much information as your partner is willing to accept with open arms, it comes to a point where the couple stagnates in their growth as individuals. If we are only willing to talk about issues that won\'t make us potentially feel rejection or hurt our partner, it leads to major conflicts in the couple never being addressed.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">For example, sex hasn\'t been the best lately, but we don\'t tell our partner to avoid hurting their feelings. On the same front, we don\'t try to change the sexual dynamic because we are afraid we\'ll be judged by our partner of our sexual preferences. We are afraid they\'ll reject us, laugh at us, or even humiliate us. This path inevitably leads to sexual boredom and a decrease in sexual desire for one or both partners, because everyone wants to play <span style=\"color: black;\"><u>SAFE</u></span><span style=\"color: black;\">in the couple</span>. Safety is not what creates sexual desire and erotism. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Self-Validated Intimacy</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">This form of intimacy is hard and requires a lot of self-soothing. It only takes one partner to be this way for it to work. This type allows a person to be vulnerable in front of their partner, show who they actually are sexually; quirks, issues, weirdness and funkiness included, without looking for approval and validation from the other. People who are capable of self-validated intimacy know who they are and proud of themselves. In the face of rejection they are capable of self-soothing and accept the differences between them and their partner. When they have something difficult to say to their partner, they can deal with the reaction and the distance it causes. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Rejecting or being rejected is difficult for everyone, especially when it comes from a partner. It is a part of us or them that is not loved. It forces us to face the fact that we are not entirely lovable, sexy or competent lovers in all regards. People who validate themselves from others on most aspects have a really hard time with rejection. When they need to reject or feel rejected on one element of who they are, they generalize it to their whole person. They lack the capacity to self-sooth and confront themselves. They don\'t perceive it as an opportunity to grow as a person, but as a threat to their identity.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>READ MORE  ON: <u>Sexual Intimacy &amp; Sexual Desire</u></b></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Redefine your Couple\'s Dynamic in Sexuality Part 1</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-3.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">How Intimacy Affects Sexual Desire Part 3</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-4.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The 4 Points of Balance Part 4</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Other related articles:</b></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/03/why-its-hard-to-truly-commit-to-our.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Why It\'s Truly Hard to Commit to Our Relationships</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/emotional-gridlock.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Emotional Gridlock</a></u></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><u><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">A Lack of Sexual Desire is Good for Your Couple!</a></span></span></span></u></span></span></div>\r\n<h3 style=\"font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Couple’s Communication Issues or Unable to Tolerate Intimacy?</a></span></span></span></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;\">* Inspired by the book Intimacy and Desire from David Schnarch</span>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<!-- Begin MailChimp Signup Form -->\r\n\r\n<style type=\"text/css\">\r\n	#mc_embed_signup{background:#fff; clear:left; font:14px Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif; }<br />	/* Add your own MailChimp form style overrides in your site stylesheet or in this style block.<br />	   We recommend moving this block and the preceding CSS link to the HEAD of your HTML file. */<br /></style>\r\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup\"><form id=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" class=\"validate\" action=\"//sexcoupletherapy.us8.list-manage.com/subscribe/post?u=b99a753a12fded994c86ffc1d&amp;id=fd88d57b31\" method=\"post\" name=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" novalidate=\"\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup_scroll\">\r\n<h2>Subscribe to our mailing list</h2>\r\n<div class=\"indicates-required\"><span class=\"asterisk\">*</span> indicates required</div>\r\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-EMAIL\">Email Address <span class=\"asterisk\">*</span>\r\n</label>\r\n<input id=\"mce-EMAIL\" class=\"required email\" name=\"EMAIL\" type=\"email\" value=\"\" /></div>\r\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-FNAME\">First Name </label>\r\n<input id=\"mce-FNAME\" class=\"\" name=\"FNAME\" type=\"text\" value=\"\" /></div>\r\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-LNAME\">Last Name </label>\r\n<input id=\"mce-LNAME\" class=\"\" name=\"LNAME\" type=\"text\" value=\"\" /></div>\r\n<div id=\"mce-responses\" class=\"clear\"></div>\r\n<!-- real people should not fill this in and expect good things - do not remove this or risk form bot signups-->\r\n<div style=\"position: absolute; 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(62, 1, '2013-06-15 03:51:00', '2013-06-15 01:51:00', '&nbsp;\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><b>Redefine Your Couple\'s Dynamic in Sexuality*</b></span></span></h4>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"CENTER\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Intimacy and its Multiple Definitions</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">The concept has been defined in a multitude of different ways. Sometimes, it is used to describe two or more people having sexual activities together (e.g. «My husband and I were having an intimate moment last night»). It can also refer to someones nudity or private sexual activities such as masturbation (e.g. «I need my intimacy when I am changing in my room». «Masturbation is an intimate moment with ourselves»). It can even refer to genitalia (e.g. «Those are my intimate parts»). </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">What all of these have in common is </span><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">self-disclosure </span></u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">or lack thereof. When we share a part of ourselves with another person we are self-disclosing who we are. There are various types and degrees of intimacy such as emotional, sexual, professional, etc. We can show our naked body, divulge sexual fantasies dreams preferences and also share our feelings towards another person. For most people, </span><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">sexual intimacy </span></u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">is the hardest subject to disclose to someone else. Our sexuality is at the core of our personality as it shows our deepest fears, our strengths and vulnerability to truly demonstrate who we are as a person. </span></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>What Intimacy is <u>NOT</u>!</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">There is a misconception in our society that intimacy is </span><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">always </span></u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">fun, romantic and loving between partners. This is untrue! The more we get to know our partner, we start realizing that they do not only have good qualities and strengths, but also limits, quirks, vulnerabilities, emotional issues and sexual issues, etc. As much as we would want to believe that we love each and every part of our partner, we don\'t. Well, not in a long term relationship anyway. In fact, in short-term relationships we can\'t really know our partner because we haven\'t been with them long enough. We project and imagine who this person is, without knowing who they truly are in </span><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">reality</span></u><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">. </span></span></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Over </span></span><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">the course of a relationship, people will change as well. We are not static and immobile as people. We think, we evolve and change our minds. We change our minds as a matter of fact quite frequently. Therefore, intimacy is not only sharing a special moment where partners connect on a </span><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">positive </span></u><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">and </span></span><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">profound </span></u><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">level. It\'s also getting to know our partner on levels that we don\'t necessarily appreciate, agree with or that validate our own perception of sex. Intimacy is also telling our partner when sex wasn\'t that good or that we don\'t desire them sexually anymore or we don\'t appreciate the way they touch and seduce us. </span></span></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>Unavoidable Conflicts</b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">It is inevitable that we will find differences in the long run between ourselves and our partner. Sometimes these differences are just annoying; we can also hate them, find them to be a nuisance which interferes with our happiness in the couple and even reconsider if we still want to be with this person. It\'s impossible to find a partner that we get along with on everything we share together. Our sexual preferences, the type of sex we want, our sexual fantasies, the way we flirt and initiate sex may not align perfectly with our partners sexuality. </span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">This will inevitably bring conflicts in our relationships, which brings us to the </span><span style=\"color: #0084d1;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/emotional-gridlock.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">choice to go through or avoid it entirely.</a></span></span><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">This is where intimacy comes into play in couples. People who don\'t have a strong «</span><span style=\"color: #0084d1;\"><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-4.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">4 points of balance</a></span></span></u></span><span style=\"color: black;\"><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"background: transparent;\">» </span></span></u></span><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">will perceive differences as threats to the stability of their couple. Partners will start avoiding self-disclosure to prevent feelings of rejection from the other partner or avoid hurting them. </span></span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<a style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 24px;\" href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a><a style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;\" href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">l</a>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>\r\n</b></span></span><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>READ MORE : </b></span></span>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; 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text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-style: normal;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Couple’s Communication Issues or Unable to Tolerate Intimacy?</a></span></span></span></span></span></h3>\r\n<div lang=\"en-US\" style=\"font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;\">* Inspired by the book Intimacy and Desire from David Schnarch</span></div>\r\n<!-- Begin MailChimp Signup Form -->\r\n\r\n<style type=\"text/css\">\r\n	#mc_embed_signup{background:#fff; clear:left; font:14px Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif; }<br />	/* Add your own MailChimp form style overrides in your site stylesheet or in this style block.<br />	   We recommend moving this block and the preceding CSS link to the HEAD of your HTML file. */<br /></style>\r\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup\"><form id=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" class=\"validate\" action=\"//sexcoupletherapy.us8.list-manage.com/subscribe/post?u=b99a753a12fded994c86ffc1d&amp;id=fd88d57b31\" method=\"post\" name=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" novalidate=\"\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup_scroll\">\r\n<h2>Subscribe to our mailing list</h2>\r\n<div class=\"indicates-required\"><span class=\"asterisk\">*</span> indicates required</div>\r\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-EMAIL\">Email Address <span class=\"asterisk\">*</span>\r\n</label>\r\n<input id=\"mce-EMAIL\" class=\"required email\" name=\"EMAIL\" type=\"email\" value=\"\" /></div>\r\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-FNAME\">First Name </label>\r\n<input id=\"mce-FNAME\" class=\"\" name=\"FNAME\" type=\"text\" value=\"\" /></div>\r\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-LNAME\">Last Name </label>\r\n<input id=\"mce-LNAME\" class=\"\" name=\"LNAME\" type=\"text\" value=\"\" /></div>\r\n<div id=\"mce-responses\" class=\"clear\"></div>\r\n<!-- real people should not fill this in and expect good things - do not remove this or risk form bot signups-->\r\n<div style=\"position: absolute; 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(63, 1, '2013-03-27 22:11:00', '2013-03-27 21:11:00', '&nbsp;\r\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #6fa8dc;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">How our Inevitable </span></span></span></span><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><b>Fear of Life </b></span></span></span><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">prevents us from commitment</span></span></span></span></span></h1>\r\n<div><b style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;\">\r\n</b>\r\n<h3><b style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;\">Commitment &amp; Intimacy</b></h3>\r\n</div>\r\n<div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 21px; font-weight: bold;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Commitment in a relationship is not just hard for men, it is for everyone. When I say commitment, I\'m not just talking about getting married, being in a monogamous relationship, buying a house, having a dog and kids together. It has to do with commitment to yourself and to </span></span></span><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 21px; font-weight: bold;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>life </b></span></span><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 21px; font-weight: bold;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">itself. It\'s being intimate with your partner on a profound level that few people achieve, yet everyone has the capacity.</span></span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font-size: 21px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font-size: 21px; font-weight: bold; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> Whether your Christian, Muslim, Jewish, Buddhist, Atheist or Agnostic and you\'ve read the Bible or the Qu r’an a hundred times or that you believe in reincarnation or none of the above. No one REALLY knows for a fact what happens when we die. You can believe all you want, but you\'ll never be able to be 100% sure of the outcome. The only thing we are actually sure of is that we are born, we live and then we die. That is one of the reasons that people are afraid of </span></span></span><span style=\"color: black;\"><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">truly </span></u></span><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">living. </span></span></span></span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font-size: 21px; font-weight: bold; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\">Fear of Life</span></span></b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font-size: 21px; font-weight: bold; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> True commitment to life is investing your entire self to making the most of the few years we have on Earth. It\'s feeling joy, sadness, anger, passion, love, having a good taste of what life has to offer us. You could think that it\'s an easy task to achieve for most, but think again. Since we only have one life to live that we are sure of, we could imagine that we would all want to be happy and enjoy it to the fullest. What most people don\'t want to admit in enjoying life to its fullest is that it comes with a huge risk...</span></span></span><span style=\"color: black;\"><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">you lose it all </span></u></span><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">when death comes knocking at your door. That\'s a hard feat for anyone to accept and go through. </span></span></span></span></span>\r\n<span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">\r\n</span></span></span></span></span>\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n<span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">\r\n</span></span></span></span></span>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-e4uXLJHSc70/UVNZA_H4_vI/AAAAAAAAAGo/J-F1fb-kAVI/s1600/557333_10152091522870015_18081991_n.jpg\"><img src=\"http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-e4uXLJHSc70/UVNZA_H4_vI/AAAAAAAAAGo/J-F1fb-kAVI/s320/557333_10152091522870015_18081991_n.jpg\" width=\"320\" height=\"240\" border=\"0\" /></a></div>\r\n<span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">\r\n</span></span></span></span></span>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"font-size: 21px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"font-size: 21px; font-weight: bold; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\">Commitment to your partner</span></span></b></span></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font-size: 21px; font-weight: bold; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> What does commitment to your partner have to do with death or our fear of life? Commitment to a relationship is putting effort and hard work into building something with that person. These «  team projects  » that you co-create with your lover bring lots of joy, sometimes disappointments and at the end you feel a sense of accomplishment. You grow closer, more intimate and your feelings deepen for one another. The love you have for yourself, your partner and potentially your kids create a sense of fulfilment. Knowing that you may never know or feel that sensation again can be quite scary. It\'s quite understandable not to want to lose such a thing, </span></span></span><span style=\"color: black;\"><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">so better to never have it at all</span></u></span><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">. Therefore, people escape from commitment to a partner not so much because of the hardships it sometimes entails, but of the happiness it can make us feel. </span></span></span></span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font-size: 21px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>How can I overcome this?</b></span></span></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font-size: 21px; font-weight: bold; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"> Some may want to know how you get passed your fear of life and commit to yourself, your partner and life! Unfortunately, there is no easy answer, because we all have to go through and passed our anxiety of death in our own way. Each of us has </span></span></span><span style=\"color: black;\"><u><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">chosen </span></u></span><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">a path to take and we have to live with the good and the bad of each of the situations.</span></span></span></span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font-size: 21px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"font-size: 21px; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-decoration: none;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"> </span></span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-2ADTVyZkc7Q/UVNZGcQGBjI/AAAAAAAAAG0/uL2iXRxLPYU/s1600/428164_10150743830001800_515151799_11579975_441050559_n.jpg\"><img src=\"http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-2ADTVyZkc7Q/UVNZGcQGBjI/AAAAAAAAAG0/uL2iXRxLPYU/s320/428164_10150743830001800_515151799_11579975_441050559_n.jpg\" width=\"320\" height=\"243\" border=\"0\" /></a></span></span></span>\r\n<span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">\r\n</span></span>\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n<span style=\"color: black;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">\r\n</span></span>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"font-size: 21px; 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(64, 1, '2013-02-17 16:26:00', '2013-02-17 15:26:00', '<h4><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">with \"bang with your friends\"?</span></h4>\r\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">What is it?</span></h3>\r\n<div><!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt;   Normal  0  0  1  586  3343  27  6  4105  11.1282     &lt;![endif]--><!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt;   0      0  0   &lt;![endif]--> <!--StartFragment-->\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Social networks are part of our everyday activities in today\'s world. There are a number of ways we can meet new people, find a lover, go on dates or even find someone to have sex with. Another one of these came out lately and it is called \'<a href=\"http://www.bangwithfriends.com/\">\'Bang with your friends\'\'</a>. This tool allows you to <i><u>secretly</u></i></span><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"> choose which of your friends on Facebook you would like to have sex with. If you end up with a match, then you are both advised of your sexual desire towards each other and it\'s up to you to choose to go through with it or not. How good or how bad of an idea is this new social (sexual) network tool?</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Why use it?</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">The first thing that can come to mind is that this is a great tool for people who are too shy to seduce some of their friends out of fear of rejection and potentially losing the friendship. It also allows fuelling our curiosity by finally confirming who secretly fantasizes about us in our social circle. Have you ever had doubts about someone wanting you sexually, but were never able to actually confirm your suspicions? Well, now you can with this tool. What could potentially go wrong with two consenting adults who have mutual sexual desire for each and end up finding out with \'\'Bang with your friends\'\'? Is it really different than having a one-night stand with a complete stranger we picked up at a bar. Some would even consider it better since you at least have some history with this person. Who knows, it might actually blossom into a full-blown romantic relationship. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3>What you need to consider before using it?</h3>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Advantages aside, what are the underlying complications and considerations of using such a service? First off, you’re inevitably changing the dynamic of the relationship from friendship to friends with benefits, commonly know as \'\'fuck friends\'\'. Sharing a sexual experience with someone requires some form of intimacy that was not present in the previous dynamic. When you add sex to the mix, you’re getting to know your friend in a whole different way. Sexuality is for most people where their insecurities come out the most. Our sense of femininity and masculinity, body image, sexual performance, emotions, love, sexual fantasies, and much more all come into play when you literally and figuratively get naked with someone. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">There are many elements that need to be thought about when using this new service, that is so readily accessible. It\'s important to think about the reasons your using it. Are you looking for someone you just want to have sex with or a long-term relationship with a friend? How will this change the relationship? What is the other person looking for? How will each of you react when one of you gets another partner? How do you terminate this relationship and go back to being friends? </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">On another note, what drives people to use this service rather than trying their chances by sexually seducing the people they desire? Besides the fact that this is done behind closed doors and if the person doesn\'t share the same sexual desire you don\'t have to feel the rejection. But then again, you still get to feel it, because you didn\'t get a match. Therefore, you suffer in silence and you get to avoid the embarrassment. What do you do, if you do get a positive response, but you don\'t necessarily have the guts to actually go forward with it anymore?</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3>Short term vs. long term</h3>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Such as it was stated earlier, this is great tool for people who have a hard time seducing, because they don\'t need to go through it all with this service. Then again, is it really helping them in the long run? If someone has a hard time with the risks that flirting always entails, how will they ever learn to cope with real time rejection, which no one can avoid in the dating scene. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">\'\'Bang with your friends\'\' has some advantages, but it also has its inconveniences that are more long term. Taking the time to reflect on the use of such a tool is a must before you start changing some of your friendship dynamics. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\">\r\n\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sexologist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<!--EndFragment--></div>', 'Would you have sex with your friends', '', 'publish', 'open', 'open', '', 'would-you-have-sex-with-your-friends', '', '', '2017-10-20 03:02:56', '2017-10-20 01:02:56', '', 0, 'http://sexcoupletherapy.agence360.co/2013/02/would-you-have-sex-with-your-friends.html', 0, 'post', '', 0),
(420, 2, '2017-10-20 03:02:56', '2017-10-20 01:02:56', '<h4><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">with \"bang with your friends\"?</span></h4>\r\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">What is it?</span></h3>\r\n<div><!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt;   Normal  0  0  1  586  3343  27  6  4105  11.1282     &lt;![endif]--><!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt;   0      0  0   &lt;![endif]--> <!--StartFragment-->\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Social networks are part of our everyday activities in today\'s world. There are a number of ways we can meet new people, find a lover, go on dates or even find someone to have sex with. Another one of these came out lately and it is called \'<a href=\"http://www.bangwithfriends.com/\">\'Bang with your friends\'\'</a>. This tool allows you to <i><u>secretly</u></i></span><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"> choose which of your friends on Facebook you would like to have sex with. If you end up with a match, then you are both advised of your sexual desire towards each other and it\'s up to you to choose to go through with it or not. How good or how bad of an idea is this new social (sexual) network tool?</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Why use it?</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">The first thing that can come to mind is that this is a great tool for people who are too shy to seduce some of their friends out of fear of rejection and potentially losing the friendship. It also allows fuelling our curiosity by finally confirming who secretly fantasizes about us in our social circle. Have you ever had doubts about someone wanting you sexually, but were never able to actually confirm your suspicions? Well, now you can with this tool. What could potentially go wrong with two consenting adults who have mutual sexual desire for each and end up finding out with \'\'Bang with your friends\'\'? Is it really different than having a one-night stand with a complete stranger we picked up at a bar. Some would even consider it better since you at least have some history with this person. Who knows, it might actually blossom into a full-blown romantic relationship. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3>What you need to consider before using it?</h3>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Advantages aside, what are the underlying complications and considerations of using such a service? First off, you’re inevitably changing the dynamic of the relationship from friendship to friends with benefits, commonly know as \'\'fuck friends\'\'. Sharing a sexual experience with someone requires some form of intimacy that was not present in the previous dynamic. When you add sex to the mix, you’re getting to know your friend in a whole different way. Sexuality is for most people where their insecurities come out the most. Our sense of femininity and masculinity, body image, sexual performance, emotions, love, sexual fantasies, and much more all come into play when you literally and figuratively get naked with someone. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">There are many elements that need to be thought about when using this new service, that is so readily accessible. It\'s important to think about the reasons your using it. Are you looking for someone you just want to have sex with or a long-term relationship with a friend? How will this change the relationship? What is the other person looking for? How will each of you react when one of you gets another partner? How do you terminate this relationship and go back to being friends? </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">On another note, what drives people to use this service rather than trying their chances by sexually seducing the people they desire? Besides the fact that this is done behind closed doors and if the person doesn\'t share the same sexual desire you don\'t have to feel the rejection. But then again, you still get to feel it, because you didn\'t get a match. Therefore, you suffer in silence and you get to avoid the embarrassment. What do you do, if you do get a positive response, but you don\'t necessarily have the guts to actually go forward with it anymore?</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3>Short term vs. long term</h3>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Such as it was stated earlier, this is great tool for people who have a hard time seducing, because they don\'t need to go through it all with this service. Then again, is it really helping them in the long run? If someone has a hard time with the risks that flirting always entails, how will they ever learn to cope with real time rejection, which no one can avoid in the dating scene. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">\'\'Bang with your friends\'\' has some advantages, but it also has its inconveniences that are more long term. Taking the time to reflect on the use of such a tool is a must before you start changing some of your friendship dynamics. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\">\r\n\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sexologist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<!--EndFragment--></div>', 'Would you have sex with your friends', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '64-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-10-20 03:02:56', '2017-10-20 01:02:56', '', 64, 'http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2017/10/64-revision-v1.html', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
(65, 1, '2013-01-30 22:29:00', '2013-01-30 21:29:00', '<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;\">How they intertwine together!</span></h4>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt; Normal 0 0 1 381 2176 18 4 2672 11.1282 &lt;![endif]--><!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt; 0 0 0 &lt;![endif]--> <!--StartFragment-->\r\n<div style=\"line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\"> <span style=\"font-size: large;\">We all have patterns in our romantic relationships, which have variable impacts on our lives. They often change due to our personal development so they can better serve our needs according to our beliefs, experiences and values related to our perception of love. In other words, they are modifiable in order to protect us and help us grow as individuals. When patterns are unhealthy, they usually make us feel unhappy, lonely, mixed up, rejected and get us into problematic relationships We therefore find ourselves in a vicious cycle of bad choices when it comes to our love life with feelings of disappointment which subsequently affect us.</span></span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> Healthy patterns enable us to personally grow in our couple and the unhealthy ones are trying to protect us maladaptively. The latter are paradoxically comfortable in spite of the many problems they generate, because we can predict them and generate a sense of security. Changing patterns, all different circumstances put aside, causes anxiety for everyone. The feeling of anguish, when it comes to love, decreases motivation to modify patterns. Some people however are capable of changing them, which enables them to grow in the relationships they maintain.</span></span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36px; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Romantic patterns begin as soon as we meet another person for the first time In order to answer our pre-established criteria, we make a selection of whom we seduce and who is allowed to flirt with us. When we start to reflect on the people we choose to seduce and those we avoid, one can detect patterns of seduction. It is not rare to flirt with people who we feel at ease with , even if they aren’t always our first choice. We seldom approach individuals who  intimidate us or we do not feel equal to , because we assume, we will be rejected and inevitably hurt. We thus avoid changing our romantic patterns, in spite of the difficulties they create, in order to stay in our comfort zone. </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">  </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">   In short, when we find ourselves in an unhealthy pattern, we avoid situations where we feel discomfort, fear or ill at ease, However, when we allow ourselves to live moments and situations of seduction that provoke more anxiety, we discover new aspects of ourselves and unexplored relationships are now possible. Awkwardness and missteps should not discourage us because they are part of the process towards change and growth  as a person. Eventually, we find our middle ground and it allows us to become more natural and fluid in being who we are. The next time you find yourselves in a context of flirting, choose the person you are really interested in and approach the ones that intimidate you.</span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Dare to take chances and be happily surprised! </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"color: black; font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"color: black; font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<!--EndFragment-->\r\n\r\n</div>', 'Relationship patterns and seduction', '', 'publish', 'open', 'open', '', 'relationship-patterns-and-seduction', '', '', '2017-10-20 03:03:02', '2017-10-20 01:03:02', '', 0, 'http://sexcoupletherapy.agence360.co/2013/01/relationship-patterns-and-seduction.html', 0, 'post', '', 1),
(421, 2, '2017-10-20 03:03:02', '2017-10-20 01:03:02', '<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;\">How they intertwine together!</span></h4>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt; Normal 0 0 1 381 2176 18 4 2672 11.1282 &lt;![endif]--><!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt; 0 0 0 &lt;![endif]--> <!--StartFragment-->\r\n<div style=\"line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\"> <span style=\"font-size: large;\">We all have patterns in our romantic relationships, which have variable impacts on our lives. They often change due to our personal development so they can better serve our needs according to our beliefs, experiences and values related to our perception of love. In other words, they are modifiable in order to protect us and help us grow as individuals. When patterns are unhealthy, they usually make us feel unhappy, lonely, mixed up, rejected and get us into problematic relationships We therefore find ourselves in a vicious cycle of bad choices when it comes to our love life with feelings of disappointment which subsequently affect us.</span></span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> Healthy patterns enable us to personally grow in our couple and the unhealthy ones are trying to protect us maladaptively. The latter are paradoxically comfortable in spite of the many problems they generate, because we can predict them and generate a sense of security. Changing patterns, all different circumstances put aside, causes anxiety for everyone. The feeling of anguish, when it comes to love, decreases motivation to modify patterns. Some people however are capable of changing them, which enables them to grow in the relationships they maintain.</span></span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36px; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Romantic patterns begin as soon as we meet another person for the first time In order to answer our pre-established criteria, we make a selection of whom we seduce and who is allowed to flirt with us. When we start to reflect on the people we choose to seduce and those we avoid, one can detect patterns of seduction. It is not rare to flirt with people who we feel at ease with , even if they aren’t always our first choice. We seldom approach individuals who  intimidate us or we do not feel equal to , because we assume, we will be rejected and inevitably hurt. We thus avoid changing our romantic patterns, in spite of the difficulties they create, in order to stay in our comfort zone. </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">  </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">   In short, when we find ourselves in an unhealthy pattern, we avoid situations where we feel discomfort, fear or ill at ease, However, when we allow ourselves to live moments and situations of seduction that provoke more anxiety, we discover new aspects of ourselves and unexplored relationships are now possible. Awkwardness and missteps should not discourage us because they are part of the process towards change and growth  as a person. Eventually, we find our middle ground and it allows us to become more natural and fluid in being who we are. The next time you find yourselves in a context of flirting, choose the person you are really interested in and approach the ones that intimidate you.</span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Dare to take chances and be happily surprised! </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"color: black; font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"color: black; font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<!--EndFragment-->\r\n\r\n</div>', 'Relationship patterns and seduction', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '65-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-10-20 03:03:02', '2017-10-20 01:03:02', '', 65, 'http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2017/10/65-revision-v1.html', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
(326, 2, '2017-06-08 02:03:17', '2017-06-08 00:03:17', '<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;\">How they intertwine together!</span></h4>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt;   Normal  0  0  1  381  2176  18  4  2672  11.1282     &lt;![endif]--><!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt;   0      0  0   &lt;![endif]--> <!--StartFragment-->\r\n<div style=\"line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\"> <span style=\"font-size: large;\">We all have patterns in our romantic relationships, which have variable impacts on our lives. They often change due to our personal development so they can better serve our needs according to our beliefs, experiences and values related to our perception of love. In other words, they are modifiable in order to protect us and help us grow as individuals. When patterns are unhealthy, they usually make us feel unhappy, lonely, mixed up, rejected and get us into problematic relationships We therefore find ourselves in a vicious cycle of bad choices when it comes to our love life with feelings of disappointment which subsequently affect us.</span></span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> Healthy patterns enable us to personally grow in our couple and the unhealthy ones are trying to protect us maladaptively. The latter are paradoxically comfortable in spite of the many problems they generate, because we can predict them and generate a sense of security. Changing patterns, all different circumstances put aside, causes anxiety for everyone. The feeling of anguish, when it comes to love, decreases motivation to modify patterns. Some people however are capable of changing them, which enables them to grow in the relationships they maintain.</span></span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-0veTlRi6hGg/UQmBPtvuKqI/AAAAAAAAAFI/xyfF-aKplDY/s1600/305103_247437601975108_135306759854860_827389_573023551_n.jpg\"><img src=\"http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-0veTlRi6hGg/UQmBPtvuKqI/AAAAAAAAAFI/xyfF-aKplDY/s320/305103_247437601975108_135306759854860_827389_573023551_n.jpg\" width=\"320\" height=\"213\" border=\"0\" /></a></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36px; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Romantic patterns begin as soon as we meet another person for the first time In order to answer our pre-established criteria, we make a selection of whom we seduce and who is allowed to flirt with us. When we start to reflect on the people we choose to seduce and those we avoid, one can detect patterns of seduction. It is not rare to flirt with people who we feel at ease with , even if they aren’t always our first choice. We seldom approach individuals who  intimidate us or we do not feel equal to , because we assume, we will be rejected and inevitably hurt. We thus avoid changing our romantic patterns, in spite of the difficulties they create, in order to stay in our comfort zone. </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">  </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">   In short, when we find ourselves in an unhealthy pattern, we avoid situations where we feel discomfort, fear or ill at ease, However, when we allow ourselves to live moments and situations of seduction that provoke more anxiety, we discover new aspects of ourselves and unexplored relationships are now possible. Awkwardness and missteps should not discourage us because they are part of the process towards change and growth  as a person. Eventually, we find our middle ground and it allows us to become more natural and fluid in being who we are. The next time you find yourselves in a context of flirting, choose the person you are really interested in and approach the ones that intimidate you.</span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; min-height: 19px; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Dare to take chances and be happily surprised! </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"color: black; font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"color: black; font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 16px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></span></div>\r\n<!--EndFragment--></div>', 'Relationship patterns and seduction', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '65-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-06-08 02:03:17', '2017-06-08 00:03:17', '', 65, 'http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2017/06/65-revision-v1.html', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
(66, 1, '2013-01-09 04:02:00', '2013-01-09 03:02:00', '&nbsp;\r\n<h3><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><b>A Normal phase in Your Sexual Development</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> Sexual desire is a feeling which pushes us towards the other so that we can answer our sexual needs. People’s sex drive is activated by various factors such as  feelings of love, pleasure, masculinity, femininity, physical features, personality, etc. There is a certain evolution that exists with sexual desire that is also influenced by age and also the length of time that a couple has been together. The majority of couples start with a high level of sexual desire which solidifies the bond between the partners. This period of time is often categorized as very passionate and filled with extremely good sex. Thereafter, attachment between partners is formed, which reinforces a sense of security in the couple. It is not unusual to find a sex life stuck in a routine at this point of the relationship. In fact, a great majority of couples are in a rut when it comes to sex and one or both partners have lost their sexual desire for their lover. This phase is completely normal and to some extent desirable in a couple. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> This phase is a test, which couples must endure for the growth of the couple leading to better sex. It’s inevitable that we will eventually have learned every single sexual advance and technique our partner uses to seduce and arouse us. Moreover, sexual desire is seldom high when you can predict the sexual behaviors of your partner and the manner with which he or she initiates sex. It is thus necessary to become creative and reinvent yourself sexually with our lover. How to get out of a sex rut when you’re under the impression that you have already tried everything? </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><b>Recognize your couple’s dynamic</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> First off, we should recognize that we can tend to take for granted our partner when it comes to sex. For example, asking our partner if he or she wants to have a sexual relationship right before going to sleep while your lying down on the bed, without having seduced them during the evening, doesn’t show that you’ve put a great deal of interest and effort for it. Various reasons explain our lack of creativity in our sex lives. We tend to be shy or awkward, afraid that the other will reject us or look ridiculous, etc. This consequently diminishes our self-esteem when it comes to our capacity to seduce and turn on our partner. We thus prefer to put the least effort possible to avoid getting hurt in the process. For example, a person who would use her or his major assets to seduce their partner and receives as an answer: “I don’t want to tonight!”. will be much more disappointed than the person who does nothing but ask for a sexual relationship right before they go to sleep. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> Couples who will succeed in overcoming this inevitable hardship have some characteristics to help them out. Primarily, it is necessary to be ready to take chances and to get out of our comfort zone. To be able to develop our sexual maturity, it is necessary to leave the things we do best behind and to tolerate a certain discomfort even though we will probably find some obstacles on the way. It is necessary to learn how to accept our discomfort, our awkwardness and to dare to be truly naked, in the figurative and nonfigurative sense of the term, vis-a-vis our partner. It thus requires that we integrate a higher level of intimacy which is necessarily anxiety-provoking. If one agrees to show his or her true sexual self with a partner by exposing all our sexual preferences, fantasies and our most profound sexual desires, it is necessary to tolerate that our other half will not necessarily share the same pleasures.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><b>Getting out of our comfort zone</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> It requires however to understand that the introduction of innovation into our sex lives is always unilateral. Sometimes, we must push the comfort zone of our partner to reach a more mature sexuality. On the other hand, that does not mean that we must force our partner with sexual activities that he or she does not want to undertake. One must understand that the changes we bring in our sexual scenarios requires a certain effort and that we should not accept that our partner decides to stagnate in his or her sexual development. Each partner plays the crucial role of constantly pushing their own limits and comfort level when it comes to their sexuality and that of their partner. If not, it is inevitable that the quality of sex in the couple will decrease and sexual desire will disappear. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><b>A bit of advice!</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> To conclude, here are three short phrases summarizing the preceding elements:</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> 1. If one does not <b>GO</b> after what they want, they’ll never have it.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> 2. If one never asks, the answer will always be“<b>NO</b>”.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> 3. If you do not step forward, you’ll always remain in the same place.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> W</span>hen you do not have any more sexual desire for your partner, s<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\">eize the opportunity that arises in front of you to grow and become more mature sexually</span>!<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>', 'A lack of sexual desire is good for your couple!', '', 'publish', 'open', 'open', '', 'a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for-your-couple', '', '', '2017-06-08 02:06:34', '2017-06-08 00:06:34', '', 0, 'http://sexcoupletherapy.agence360.co/2013/01/a-lack-of-sexual-desire-is-good-for-your-couple.html', 0, 'post', '', 2);
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(329, 2, '2017-06-08 02:06:34', '2017-06-08 00:06:34', '&nbsp;\r\n<h3><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><b>A Normal phase in Your Sexual Development</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> Sexual desire is a feeling which pushes us towards the other so that we can answer our sexual needs. People’s sex drive is activated by various factors such as  feelings of love, pleasure, masculinity, femininity, physical features, personality, etc. There is a certain evolution that exists with sexual desire that is also influenced by age and also the length of time that a couple has been together. The majority of couples start with a high level of sexual desire which solidifies the bond between the partners. This period of time is often categorized as very passionate and filled with extremely good sex. Thereafter, attachment between partners is formed, which reinforces a sense of security in the couple. It is not unusual to find a sex life stuck in a routine at this point of the relationship. In fact, a great majority of couples are in a rut when it comes to sex and one or both partners have lost their sexual desire for their lover. This phase is completely normal and to some extent desirable in a couple. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> This phase is a test, which couples must endure for the growth of the couple leading to better sex. It’s inevitable that we will eventually have learned every single sexual advance and technique our partner uses to seduce and arouse us. Moreover, sexual desire is seldom high when you can predict the sexual behaviors of your partner and the manner with which he or she initiates sex. It is thus necessary to become creative and reinvent yourself sexually with our lover. How to get out of a sex rut when you’re under the impression that you have already tried everything? </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><b>Recognize your couple’s dynamic</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> First off, we should recognize that we can tend to take for granted our partner when it comes to sex. For example, asking our partner if he or she wants to have a sexual relationship right before going to sleep while your lying down on the bed, without having seduced them during the evening, doesn’t show that you’ve put a great deal of interest and effort for it. Various reasons explain our lack of creativity in our sex lives. We tend to be shy or awkward, afraid that the other will reject us or look ridiculous, etc. This consequently diminishes our self-esteem when it comes to our capacity to seduce and turn on our partner. We thus prefer to put the least effort possible to avoid getting hurt in the process. For example, a person who would use her or his major assets to seduce their partner and receives as an answer: “I don’t want to tonight!”. will be much more disappointed than the person who does nothing but ask for a sexual relationship right before they go to sleep. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> Couples who will succeed in overcoming this inevitable hardship have some characteristics to help them out. Primarily, it is necessary to be ready to take chances and to get out of our comfort zone. To be able to develop our sexual maturity, it is necessary to leave the things we do best behind and to tolerate a certain discomfort even though we will probably find some obstacles on the way. It is necessary to learn how to accept our discomfort, our awkwardness and to dare to be truly naked, in the figurative and nonfigurative sense of the term, vis-a-vis our partner. It thus requires that we integrate a higher level of intimacy which is necessarily anxiety-provoking. If one agrees to show his or her true sexual self with a partner by exposing all our sexual preferences, fantasies and our most profound sexual desires, it is necessary to tolerate that our other half will not necessarily share the same pleasures.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><b>Getting out of our comfort zone</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> It requires however to understand that the introduction of innovation into our sex lives is always unilateral. Sometimes, we must push the comfort zone of our partner to reach a more mature sexuality. On the other hand, that does not mean that we must force our partner with sexual activities that he or she does not want to undertake. One must understand that the changes we bring in our sexual scenarios requires a certain effort and that we should not accept that our partner decides to stagnate in his or her sexual development. Each partner plays the crucial role of constantly pushing their own limits and comfort level when it comes to their sexuality and that of their partner. If not, it is inevitable that the quality of sex in the couple will decrease and sexual desire will disappear. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><b>A bit of advice!</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> To conclude, here are three short phrases summarizing the preceding elements:</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> 1. If one does not <b>GO</b> after what they want, they’ll never have it.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> 2. If one never asks, the answer will always be“<b>NO</b>”.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> 3. If you do not step forward, you’ll always remain in the same place.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 19.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> W</span>hen you do not have any more sexual desire for your partner, s<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\">eize the opportunity that arises in front of you to grow and become more mature sexually</span>!<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 16.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>', 'A lack of sexual desire is good for your couple!', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '66-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-06-08 02:06:34', '2017-06-08 00:06:34', '', 66, 'http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2017/06/66-revision-v1.html', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
(67, 1, '2012-12-21 17:09:00', '2012-12-21 16:09:00', '<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"color: #6fa8dc;\">Real Intimacy is hard for everyone</span></span></h1>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> We tend to assume that in couples with a high frequency of arguments that there is a lack of communication. It’s actually wrong to think that way, as it is impossible for 2 people in any kind of a relationship of not communicating. We communicate verbally, but most of our communication is actually done non verbally. Messages are rarely miscommunicated between a couple but rather it’s the message from the partner that is hard to accept. Partners who constantly seek to improve the communication in the couple are actually trying to get the message they would like to hear because they have a hard time believing what the other person is truly communicating. Typically, we’ll get one partner or both nagging the other one, so that they eventually get what they want to hear. These couples or individuals lack the capacity to really be intimate with one another. People who are capable of tolerating the intimacy needed in a long term relationship can appreciate the similarities they have with their lover, but also the differences. It is inevitable that we will find the latter in all couples who have been together for a long time. Most often we will find persisting conflicts about money, sex, the education of the kids, personal values and chores around the house.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Differences in your couple Make you Grow</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> Couples tend to avoid taboo subjects because they don’t want to face the irreconcilable conflicts. This dynamic inevitably creates superficial disagreements between couples, which don’t allow the partners to grow as people and lovers. It is entirely normal for couples to face conflicts of interest one day or the other. The important is not what the differences are or how many, but how we decide to deal with them. Conflicts between couples can serve the partners as a way to learn and better understand each other and themselves. This is the hard part of being in a couple, but down the line it brings couples to strengthen their bond and love between them. </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Repeating Patterns</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> People are willing to go to great lengths to avoid the real problems in their couple. They’ll put the blame on their partner, justify their actions by all kinds of rationalization pretend to act with good intentions or play dumbfounded, when they actually aren’t. Each of theses strategies and others are the perfect way to push the real conflict aside. On the other hand, sooner or later, the same problems arise and the couple feel as though their differences will never be reconciled. Surprisingly, this dynamic becomes in certain ways comfortable. For most, it’s actually easier to argue perpetually than to accept the reality they face. Our partners are different from us in the way they think, their values, opinions, attitudes, behaviours and beliefs. As simple as this concept might seem, in reality it’s quite difficult to live with these differences and truly accept them. Especially, when they have a direct effect on us, such as our sexual styles and preferences.</span></span>\r\n<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\">\r\n</span></span><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\">\r\n</span></span>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\">\r\n</span></span><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\">\r\n</span></span>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> Conflicts in couples are inevitable, but must be dealt with adequately. It’s important to know ourselves well and have good self-esteem, while being firm with our positions yet still be flexible when it comes to a tense subject. People who have a hard time with intimacy are either very rigid in their interactions because, their partners’ differences are seen as threats to their identity (beliefs, opinions, values, etc.) or people are easily influenced by their negating their own identity and therefore avoid creating divergences with their lovers’.</span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Beware of Compromise</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> It often happens that couple’s conflicts aren\'t settled within the first discussion. In fact, that allows each partner to reflect on the other’s opinion to discuss it another time. Compromise always lets one or both partner’s with a sour taste in their mouth, because you have to comply with the other one’s demands. It is much better to find a consensus that both partners desire. Therefore, it’s important to be flexible in our opinions, values and beliefs without feeling threatened in our solid identity. If you can’t find a consensus then you have to find a way that you can tolerate it.</span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> Finally, when a couple faces these hardships, it’s important that they deal with the intimacy that is developing between each other. To do so, we must accept that our partner is different from us, which is easier said than done. We must tolerate the anxiety provoked by the conflicts by staying firm to our convictions, yet taking the time to consider the other’s opinion while confronting ourselves to arrive at a consensus rather than a compromise. It is not the differences and similarities that determine a couple’s success, but rather how we deal with them and the perception we have of our lover in the process. </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> </span></div>', 'Couple’s Communication Issues or Unable to Tolerate Intimacy?', '', 'publish', 'open', 'open', '', 'couples-communication-issues-or-unable-to-tolerate-intimacy', '', '', '2017-09-29 20:54:52', '2017-09-29 18:54:52', '', 0, 'http://sexcoupletherapy.agence360.co/2012/12/couples-communication-issues-or-unable-to-tolerate-intimacy.html', 0, 'post', '', 0),
(388, 2, '2017-09-29 20:54:52', '2017-09-29 18:54:52', '<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"color: #6fa8dc;\">Real Intimacy is hard for everyone</span></span></h1>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> We tend to assume that in couples with a high frequency of arguments that there is a lack of communication. It’s actually wrong to think that way, as it is impossible for 2 people in any kind of a relationship of not communicating. We communicate verbally, but most of our communication is actually done non verbally. Messages are rarely miscommunicated between a couple but rather it’s the message from the partner that is hard to accept. Partners who constantly seek to improve the communication in the couple are actually trying to get the message they would like to hear because they have a hard time believing what the other person is truly communicating. Typically, we’ll get one partner or both nagging the other one, so that they eventually get what they want to hear. These couples or individuals lack the capacity to really be intimate with one another. People who are capable of tolerating the intimacy needed in a long term relationship can appreciate the similarities they have with their lover, but also the differences. It is inevitable that we will find the latter in all couples who have been together for a long time. Most often we will find persisting conflicts about money, sex, the education of the kids, personal values and chores around the house.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Differences in your couple Make you Grow</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> Couples tend to avoid taboo subjects because they don’t want to face the irreconcilable conflicts. This dynamic inevitably creates superficial disagreements between couples, which don’t allow the partners to grow as people and lovers. It is entirely normal for couples to face conflicts of interest one day or the other. The important is not what the differences are or how many, but how we decide to deal with them. Conflicts between couples can serve the partners as a way to learn and better understand each other and themselves. This is the hard part of being in a couple, but down the line it brings couples to strengthen their bond and love between them. </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Repeating Patterns</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> People are willing to go to great lengths to avoid the real problems in their couple. They’ll put the blame on their partner, justify their actions by all kinds of rationalization pretend to act with good intentions or play dumbfounded, when they actually aren’t. Each of theses strategies and others are the perfect way to push the real conflict aside. On the other hand, sooner or later, the same problems arise and the couple feel as though their differences will never be reconciled. Surprisingly, this dynamic becomes in certain ways comfortable. For most, it’s actually easier to argue perpetually than to accept the reality they face. Our partners are different from us in the way they think, their values, opinions, attitudes, behaviours and beliefs. As simple as this concept might seem, in reality it’s quite difficult to live with these differences and truly accept them. Especially, when they have a direct effect on us, such as our sexual styles and preferences.</span></span>\r\n<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\">\r\n</span></span><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\">\r\n</span></span>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\">\r\n</span></span><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\">\r\n</span></span>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> Conflicts in couples are inevitable, but must be dealt with adequately. It’s important to know ourselves well and have good self-esteem, while being firm with our positions yet still be flexible when it comes to a tense subject. People who have a hard time with intimacy are either very rigid in their interactions because, their partners’ differences are seen as threats to their identity (beliefs, opinions, values, etc.) or people are easily influenced by their negating their own identity and therefore avoid creating divergences with their lovers’.</span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Beware of Compromise</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> It often happens that couple’s conflicts aren\'t settled within the first discussion. In fact, that allows each partner to reflect on the other’s opinion to discuss it another time. Compromise always lets one or both partner’s with a sour taste in their mouth, because you have to comply with the other one’s demands. It is much better to find a consensus that both partners desire. Therefore, it’s important to be flexible in our opinions, values and beliefs without feeling threatened in our solid identity. If you can’t find a consensus then you have to find a way that you can tolerate it.</span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> Finally, when a couple faces these hardships, it’s important that they deal with the intimacy that is developing between each other. To do so, we must accept that our partner is different from us, which is easier said than done. We must tolerate the anxiety provoked by the conflicts by staying firm to our convictions, yet taking the time to consider the other’s opinion while confronting ourselves to arrive at a consensus rather than a compromise. It is not the differences and similarities that determine a couple’s success, but rather how we deal with them and the perception we have of our lover in the process. </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> </span></div>', 'Couple’s Communication Issues or Unable to Tolerate Intimacy?', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '67-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-09-29 20:54:52', '2017-09-29 18:54:52', '', 67, 'http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2017/09/67-revision-v1.html', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
(332, 2, '2017-06-08 02:10:39', '2017-06-08 00:10:39', '<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"color: #6fa8dc;\">Real Intimacy is hard for everyone</span></span></h1>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Verdana; text-align: justify; margin: 0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> We tend to assume that in couples with a high frequency of arguments that there is a lack of communication. It’s actually wrong to think that way, as it is impossible for 2 people in any kind of a relationship of not communicating. We communicate verbally, but most of our communication is actually done non verbally. Messages are rarely miscommunicated between a couple but rather it’s the message from the partner that is hard to accept. Partners who constantly seek to improve the communication in the couple are actually trying to get the message they would like to hear because they have a hard time believing what the other person is truly communicating. Typically, we’ll get one partner or both nagging the other one, so that they eventually get what they want to hear. These couples or individuals lack the capacity to really be intimate with one another. People who are capable of tolerating the intimacy needed in a long term relationship can appreciate the similarities they have with their lover, but also the differences. It is inevitable that we will find the latter in all couples who have been together for a long time. Most often we will find persisting conflicts about money, sex, the education of the kids, personal values and chores around the house.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Differences in your couple Make you Grow</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> Couples tend to avoid taboo subjects because they don’t want to face the irreconcilable conflicts. This dynamic inevitably creates superficial disagreements between couples, which don’t allow the partners to grow as people and lovers. It is entirely normal for couples to face conflicts of interest one day or the other. The important is not what the differences are or how many, but how we decide to deal with them. Conflicts between couples can serve the partners as a way to learn and better understand each other and themselves. This is the hard part of being in a couple, but down the line it brings couples to strengthen their bond and love between them. </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Repeating Patterns</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> People are willing to go to great lengths to avoid the real problems in their couple. They’ll put the blame on their partner, justify their actions by all kinds of rationalization pretend to act with good intentions or play dumbfounded, when they actually aren’t. Each of theses strategies and others are the perfect way to push the real conflict aside. On the other hand, sooner or later, the same problems arise and the couple feel as though their differences will never be reconciled. Surprisingly, this dynamic becomes in certain ways comfortable. For most, it’s actually easier to argue perpetually than to accept the reality they face. Our partners are different from us in the way they think, their values, opinions, attitudes, behaviours and beliefs. As simple as this concept might seem, in reality it’s quite difficult to live with these differences and truly accept them. Especially, when they have a direct effect on us, such as our sexual styles and preferences.</span></span>\r\n<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\">\r\n</span></span><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\">\r\n</span></span>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-5nPwsIU8iM0/UNR8Udu71SI/AAAAAAAAAD0/CK563bVmOPI/s1600/images.jpeg\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><img src=\"http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-5nPwsIU8iM0/UNR8Udu71SI/AAAAAAAAAD0/CK563bVmOPI/s1600/images.jpeg\" border=\"0\" /></span></a></div>\r\n<span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\">\r\n</span></span><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\">\r\n</span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> Conflicts in couples are inevitable, but must be dealt with adequately. It’s important to know ourselves well and have good self-esteem, while being firm with our positions yet still be flexible when it comes to a tense subject. People who have a hard time with intimacy are either very rigid in their interactions because, their partners’ differences are seen as threats to their identity (beliefs, opinions, values, etc.) or people are easily influenced by their negating their own identity and therefore avoid creating divergences with their lovers’.</span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Beware of Compromise</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> It often happens that couple’s conflicts aren\'t settled within the first discussion. In fact, that allows each partner to reflect on the other’s opinion to discuss it another time. Compromise always lets one or both partner’s with a sour taste in their mouth, because you have to comply with the other one’s demands. It is much better to find a consensus that both partners desire. Therefore, it’s important to be flexible in our opinions, values and beliefs without feeling threatened in our solid identity. If you can’t find a consensus then you have to find a way that you can tolerate it.</span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> Finally, when a couple faces these hardships, it’s important that they deal with the intimacy that is developing between each other. To do so, we must accept that our partner is different from us, which is easier said than done. We must tolerate the anxiety provoked by the conflicts by staying firm to our convictions, yet taking the time to consider the other’s opinion while confronting ourselves to arrive at a consensus rather than a compromise. It is not the differences and similarities that determine a couple’s success, but rather how we deal with them and the perception we have of our lover in the process. </span></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 17.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #666666; font-size: large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"font-family: Times; font-size: medium; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"font: 14.0px Verdana; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.0px;\"> </span></div>', 'Couple’s Communication Issues or Unable to Tolerate Intimacy?', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '67-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-06-08 02:10:39', '2017-06-08 00:10:39', '', 67, 'http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2017/06/67-revision-v1.html', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
(68, 1, '2012-12-03 02:04:00', '2012-12-03 01:04:00', '<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Laws of the Body*</span></h4>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt; Normal 0 0 1 821 4683 39 9 5751 11.1282 &lt;![endif]--><!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt; 0 0 0 &lt;![endif]--> <!--StartFragment-->\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"><b>Mind and Body Are One</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.4pt;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">Although, it seems that our society has separated the mind from the body as two separate entities, sexuality, the body and the mind are inseparable. Some people tend to advocate that the brain is the biggest sexual organ of the human being. That is a half-truth since the brain is actually part of the body.  According to the «Sexocorporel», mind and body are interdependent of each other because one always affects the other. Feelings are felt through the body not our heads. This concept is called mind/body where our bodily movements (breathing, gestures, postures, etc.) have an impact on our mind (emotions, beliefs, self-esteem, sexual fantasies, etc.) The laws of the body which consist of muscle tension, our speed and the space we use, can help us on different levels of our sexuality. More specifically, the functions of the three laws of the body allow us to modulate our sexual arousal, augment our sexual pleasure, expand our sexual imagination and change our perception about sex. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.4pt;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"><b>Sexual Arousal &amp; Sexual Pleasure</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">   First and foremost, it’s important that we make the distinction between sexual arousal and sexual pleasure. The former is the physiological response our bodies have when we are stimulated sexually (touching, hugging, caressing, kissing, masturbating, etc.). Men will have an erection while women will lubricate. On the other hand, sexual pleasure is how we feel about the experience whether it be good or bad. It is absolutely possible to be sexually aroused, yet feel no pleasure during a sexual activity. Even though, we are in love with our partner and are capable of having an orgasm, our subjective experience might not be as pleasurable as we would like. It’s not rare to find people who get cramps during sex, which diminishes the enjoyment of our sex life. Fortunately, we can heighten our pleasure with the three laws of the body, if we know how to explore their potential.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">Muscular Tension</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">     Our muscular tensions play a crucial role when it comes to our sexual arousal. For the human body to get aroused there needs to be a certain amount of muscular tension in the area of the genitals. The buttocks, p</span><span lang=\"FR-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">ubococcygeus</span><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> (PC), abdominal and pelvic muscles are the most solicited during our sexual activities. The contraction and relaxation of theses muscles augment the blood towards our genitals which increases sexual arousal and makes us reach orgasm. It’s important to consider that our muscles can be hyper-contracted which can create cramps or too relaxed which becomes unpleasant as the sexual tension is not released.  </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px;\">    The movements of the upper body such as shoulder, neck, back, and pectoral muscles access the emotional part of us. When we laugh, cry, feel joy, pleasure, etc. there is inevitably a contraction and relaxation (movement) of those muscles. When it comes to sexual pleasure the same principal comes into play. As our sexual arousal increases so do our muscular tensions in our entire body. Therefore to access even more sexual pleasure we can create more fluidity by moving our upper body in different directions to feel the various sensations during a sexual activity.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"><b>Speed of our Movements</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">     The speed of our movements also plays an important role in the sexual arousal and pleasure. When we slow down our bodies’ movements we are more aware of the diverse sensations of touching our partner. Futhermore, slowness allows us to relax our muscles and feel more sexual pleasure. Increasing the speed of our movements will inevitably make our muscles contract more, which escalates our sexual arousal so that we may reach orgasm. Hence, by playing with various speeds during sex we can modulate our sexual arousal to then increase our sexual pleasure and feel every different sensation that our bodies are capable of providing us.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"><b>Inner &amp; Outer Space of the Body</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b></b><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">    We can divide the space of our body into 2 types of category: inner and outer. The former is related to the style of breathing that we use. A deep, slow &amp; abdominal breath will relax our muscles and allow to better feel our body. This relaxation will cause our movements to be slower and amplify our sexual pleasure. On the other hand, a short, rapid and thoracic breath will generate sexual arousal by contracting our muscles and increasing our speed.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">   The space that we use outside of our body is the expression of our movements such as arms, legs, neck, pelvis, hips, etc. Movement is how the body feels pleasure. It would be hard to imagine someone feeling extreme pleasure in an immobilized state of his or her body. The more space we use with our body, the more our muscles contract and relax to provoke the movement. We are then capable of feeling numerous sensations that we would feel in a more limited space. Consequently, the more sensation we feel by diffusing our sexual pleasure throughout the entire body, the less we can concentrate in one particular area. Therefore, when we limit the movement we can concentrate our sexual arousal towards the genitals for example and have an orgasm. Once again, increasing and decreasing the space we utilize during our sexual activity will allow us to explore our sexual arousal and pleasure in different ways. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">Just Have Fun!</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px;\">  In conclusion, it’s important to remember that sexual arousal and sexual pleasure aren’t opposites. People can feel both at the same time. What is important is to find balance between these two concepts so that we can enjoy our sexual activities to the fullest. Therefore, enjoy exploring the three laws of the body and all areas of your sex life in various ways as to modulate your sexual arousal to make it last longer and heighten your sexual pleasure to enjoy even more. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px;\">\r\n</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px;\">\r\n</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;\">* Inspired by the Sexocorporel approach</span></div>\r\n<!--EndFragment-->\r\n\r\n</div>', 'Sex, The Body and Your Mind', '', 'publish', 'open', 'open', '', 'sex-the-body-and-your-mind', '', '', '2017-09-29 20:20:25', '2017-09-29 18:20:25', '', 0, 'http://sexcoupletherapy.agence360.co/2012/12/sex-the-body-and-your-mind.html', 0, 'post', '', 0);
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(380, 2, '2017-09-29 20:20:25', '2017-09-29 18:20:25', '<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Laws of the Body*</span></h4>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div>\r\n\r\n<!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt; Normal 0 0 1 821 4683 39 9 5751 11.1282 &lt;![endif]--><!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt; 0 0 0 &lt;![endif]--> <!--StartFragment-->\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"><b>Mind and Body Are One</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.4pt;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">Although, it seems that our society has separated the mind from the body as two separate entities, sexuality, the body and the mind are inseparable. Some people tend to advocate that the brain is the biggest sexual organ of the human being. That is a half-truth since the brain is actually part of the body.  According to the «Sexocorporel», mind and body are interdependent of each other because one always affects the other. Feelings are felt through the body not our heads. This concept is called mind/body where our bodily movements (breathing, gestures, postures, etc.) have an impact on our mind (emotions, beliefs, self-esteem, sexual fantasies, etc.) The laws of the body which consist of muscle tension, our speed and the space we use, can help us on different levels of our sexuality. More specifically, the functions of the three laws of the body allow us to modulate our sexual arousal, augment our sexual pleasure, expand our sexual imagination and change our perception about sex. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.4pt;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"><b>Sexual Arousal &amp; Sexual Pleasure</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">   First and foremost, it’s important that we make the distinction between sexual arousal and sexual pleasure. The former is the physiological response our bodies have when we are stimulated sexually (touching, hugging, caressing, kissing, masturbating, etc.). Men will have an erection while women will lubricate. On the other hand, sexual pleasure is how we feel about the experience whether it be good or bad. It is absolutely possible to be sexually aroused, yet feel no pleasure during a sexual activity. Even though, we are in love with our partner and are capable of having an orgasm, our subjective experience might not be as pleasurable as we would like. It’s not rare to find people who get cramps during sex, which diminishes the enjoyment of our sex life. Fortunately, we can heighten our pleasure with the three laws of the body, if we know how to explore their potential.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">Muscular Tension</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">     Our muscular tensions play a crucial role when it comes to our sexual arousal. For the human body to get aroused there needs to be a certain amount of muscular tension in the area of the genitals. The buttocks, p</span><span lang=\"FR-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">ubococcygeus</span><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> (PC), abdominal and pelvic muscles are the most solicited during our sexual activities. The contraction and relaxation of theses muscles augment the blood towards our genitals which increases sexual arousal and makes us reach orgasm. It’s important to consider that our muscles can be hyper-contracted which can create cramps or too relaxed which becomes unpleasant as the sexual tension is not released.  </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px;\">    The movements of the upper body such as shoulder, neck, back, and pectoral muscles access the emotional part of us. When we laugh, cry, feel joy, pleasure, etc. there is inevitably a contraction and relaxation (movement) of those muscles. When it comes to sexual pleasure the same principal comes into play. As our sexual arousal increases so do our muscular tensions in our entire body. Therefore to access even more sexual pleasure we can create more fluidity by moving our upper body in different directions to feel the various sensations during a sexual activity.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"><b>Speed of our Movements</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">     The speed of our movements also plays an important role in the sexual arousal and pleasure. When we slow down our bodies’ movements we are more aware of the diverse sensations of touching our partner. Futhermore, slowness allows us to relax our muscles and feel more sexual pleasure. Increasing the speed of our movements will inevitably make our muscles contract more, which escalates our sexual arousal so that we may reach orgasm. Hence, by playing with various speeds during sex we can modulate our sexual arousal to then increase our sexual pleasure and feel every different sensation that our bodies are capable of providing us.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"><b>Inner &amp; Outer Space of the Body</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b></b><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">    We can divide the space of our body into 2 types of category: inner and outer. The former is related to the style of breathing that we use. A deep, slow &amp; abdominal breath will relax our muscles and allow to better feel our body. This relaxation will cause our movements to be slower and amplify our sexual pleasure. On the other hand, a short, rapid and thoracic breath will generate sexual arousal by contracting our muscles and increasing our speed.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">   The space that we use outside of our body is the expression of our movements such as arms, legs, neck, pelvis, hips, etc. Movement is how the body feels pleasure. It would be hard to imagine someone feeling extreme pleasure in an immobilized state of his or her body. The more space we use with our body, the more our muscles contract and relax to provoke the movement. We are then capable of feeling numerous sensations that we would feel in a more limited space. Consequently, the more sensation we feel by diffusing our sexual pleasure throughout the entire body, the less we can concentrate in one particular area. Therefore, when we limit the movement we can concentrate our sexual arousal towards the genitals for example and have an orgasm. Once again, increasing and decreasing the space we utilize during our sexual activity will allow us to explore our sexual arousal and pleasure in different ways. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">Just Have Fun!</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px;\">  In conclusion, it’s important to remember that sexual arousal and sexual pleasure aren’t opposites. People can feel both at the same time. What is important is to find balance between these two concepts so that we can enjoy our sexual activities to the fullest. Therefore, enjoy exploring the three laws of the body and all areas of your sex life in various ways as to modulate your sexual arousal to make it last longer and heighten your sexual pleasure to enjoy even more. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px;\">\r\n</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px;\">\r\n</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;\">* Inspired by the Sexocorporel approach</span></div>\r\n<!--EndFragment-->\r\n\r\n</div>', 'Sex, The Body and Your Mind', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '68-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-09-29 20:20:25', '2017-09-29 18:20:25', '', 68, 'http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2017/09/68-revision-v1.html', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
(333, 2, '2017-06-08 02:12:11', '2017-06-08 00:12:11', '<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Laws of the Body*</span></h4>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt;   Normal  0  0  1  821  4683  39  9  5751  11.1282     &lt;![endif]--><!-- [if gte mso 9]&gt;   0      0  0   &lt;![endif]--> <!--StartFragment-->\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"><b>Mind and Body Are One</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.4pt;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">Although, it seems that our society has separated the mind from the body as two separate entities, sexuality, the body and the mind are inseparable. Some people tend to advocate that the brain is the biggest sexual organ of the human being. That is a half-truth since the brain is actually part of the body.  According to the «Sexocorporel», mind and body are interdependent of each other because one always affects the other. Feelings are felt through the body not our heads. This concept is called mind/body where our bodily movements (breathing, gestures, postures, etc.) have an impact on our mind (emotions, beliefs, self-esteem, sexual fantasies, etc.) The laws of the body which consist of muscle tension, our speed and the space we use, can help us on different levels of our sexuality. More specifically, the functions of the three laws of the body allow us to modulate our sexual arousal, augment our sexual pleasure, expand our sexual imagination and change our perception about sex. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify; text-indent: 35.4pt;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"><b>Sexual Arousal &amp; Sexual Pleasure</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">   First and foremost, it’s important that we make the distinction between sexual arousal and sexual pleasure. The former is the physiological response our bodies have when we are stimulated sexually (touching, hugging, caressing, kissing, masturbating, etc.). Men will have an erection while women will lubricate. On the other hand, sexual pleasure is how we feel about the experience whether it be good or bad. It is absolutely possible to be sexually aroused, yet feel no pleasure during a sexual activity. Even though, we are in love with our partner and are capable of having an orgasm, our subjective experience might not be as pleasurable as we would like. It’s not rare to find people who get cramps during sex, which diminishes the enjoyment of our sex life. Fortunately, we can heighten our pleasure with the three laws of the body, if we know how to explore their potential.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">Muscular Tension</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">     Our muscular tensions play a crucial role when it comes to our sexual arousal. For the human body to get aroused there needs to be a certain amount of muscular tension in the area of the genitals. The buttocks, p</span><span lang=\"FR-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">ubococcygeus</span><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> (PC), abdominal and pelvic muscles are the most solicited during our sexual activities. The contraction and relaxation of theses muscles augment the blood towards our genitals which increases sexual arousal and makes us reach orgasm. It’s important to consider that our muscles can be hyper-contracted which can create cramps or too relaxed which becomes unpleasant as the sexual tension is not released.  </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-IC0xr3U7oj8/ULvqNNSG74I/AAAAAAAAADA/E2yI-Q3XtcU/s1600/slide_212102_745697_free.jpg\"><img src=\"http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-IC0xr3U7oj8/ULvqNNSG74I/AAAAAAAAADA/E2yI-Q3XtcU/s320/slide_212102_745697_free.jpg\" width=\"320\" height=\"232\" border=\"0\" /></a></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px;\">    The movements of the upper body such as shoulder, neck, back, and pectoral muscles access the emotional part of us. When we laugh, cry, feel joy, pleasure, etc. there is inevitably a contraction and relaxation (movement) of those muscles. When it comes to sexual pleasure the same principal comes into play. As our sexual arousal increases so do our muscular tensions in our entire body. Therefore to access even more sexual pleasure we can create more fluidity by moving our upper body in different directions to feel the various sensations during a sexual activity.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"><b>Speed of our Movements</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">     The speed of our movements also plays an important role in the sexual arousal and pleasure. When we slow down our bodies’ movements we are more aware of the diverse sensations of touching our partner. Futhermore, slowness allows us to relax our muscles and feel more sexual pleasure. Increasing the speed of our movements will inevitably make our muscles contract more, which escalates our sexual arousal so that we may reach orgasm. Hence, by playing with various speeds during sex we can modulate our sexual arousal to then increase our sexual pleasure and feel every different sensation that our bodies are capable of providing us.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\"><b>Inner &amp; Outer Space of the Body</b></span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b></b><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">    We can divide the space of our body into 2 types of category: inner and outer. The former is related to the style of breathing that we use. A deep, slow &amp; abdominal breath will relax our muscles and allow to better feel our body. This relaxation will cause our movements to be slower and amplify our sexual pleasure. On the other hand, a short, rapid and thoracic breath will generate sexual arousal by contracting our muscles and increasing our speed.</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">   The space that we use outside of our body is the expression of our movements such as arms, legs, neck, pelvis, hips, etc. Movement is how the body feels pleasure. It would be hard to imagine someone feeling extreme pleasure in an immobilized state of his or her body. The more space we use with our body, the more our muscles contract and relax to provoke the movement. We are then capable of feeling numerous sensations that we would feel in a more limited space. Consequently, the more sensation we feel by diffusing our sexual pleasure throughout the entire body, the less we can concentrate in one particular area. Therefore, when we limit the movement we can concentrate our sexual arousal towards the genitals for example and have an orgasm. Once again, increasing and decreasing the space we utilize during our sexual activity will allow us to explore our sexual arousal and pleasure in different ways. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3><span lang=\"EN-CA\" style=\"font-size: 14.0pt;\">Just Have Fun!</span></h3>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px;\">  In conclusion, it’s important to remember that sexual arousal and sexual pleasure aren’t opposites. People can feel both at the same time. What is important is to find balance between these two concepts so that we can enjoy our sexual activities to the fullest. Therefore, enjoy exploring the three laws of the body and all areas of your sex life in various ways as to modulate your sexual arousal to make it last longer and heighten your sexual pleasure to enjoy even more. </span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 19px;\">\r\n</span><span style=\"font-size: 19px;\">\r\n</span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\">Francois Renaud M.A.</span></span></div>\r\n<div lang=\"en-CA\" style=\"line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0cm;\" align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 16pt;\"><a href=\"http://www.sexcoupletherapy.com/\">Sex therapist &amp; Psychotherapist Montreal</a></span></span></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n<span style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;\">* Inspired by the Sexocorporel approach</span></div>\r\n<!--EndFragment--></div>', 'Sex, The Body and Your Mind', '', 'inherit', 'closed', 'closed', '', '68-revision-v1', '', '', '2017-06-08 02:12:11', '2017-06-08 00:12:11', '', 68, 'http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2017/06/68-revision-v1.html', 0, 'revision', '', 0),
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(405, 2, '2017-10-16 18:34:49', '2017-10-16 16:34:49', '<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\">Types of Mind-Mapping</span></h2>\r\n<div><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<div><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"> </span></div>\r\n<h3>Lack of Communication: A Pretend Fairytale</h3>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">In another article,  I described that <a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2016/08/there-is-no-such-thing-as-a-lack-of-communication.html\">there is no such thing as a lack of communication in a couple</a> and that we have the ability to mind-map each other. This segment will go deeper into the different types of mind-mapping abilities we are capable of.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Quick Recap: What is Mind-Mapping?</h4>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mind-mapping is our ability to understand other people\'s intentions and desires as well as moods and emotions through their body language, their attitudes and their tone of voice. <b>Most people pretend they don\'t have this ability</b> because it allows us to get what we want and be less vulnerable in our relationships. It also permits to argue about \"nonexistent communication issues\" rather than the real problems in the relationship, therefore avoiding break-ups. Mind-mapping also plays a crucial role in sex and how we go about having it with our spouse.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3 style=\"text-align: justify;\">Types of Mind-Mapping Abilities</h3>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">There are 4 different types of mind-mapping that we can use in social interactions. Each one requires the last to be able to do the next one. Therefore, there is a hierarchal element to using mind-mapping. Not everyone can use all 4 of them, but you or your partner might also be pretending you can\'t do it. We\'ve mostly described the first one which is <b>mind-tracking</b>.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Mind-Tracking: I See You!</h4>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">We are constantly looking out for other people\'s motives and intentions when they speak or behave. This is how we can finish people\'s thoughts and know where they are going before they finish their train of thought. We analyse our partner\'s body language such as where they are looking, how their hands and legs are open or closed, what posture they are taking. This is the basics of mind-mapping that everyone has. <b>This is how you detect if someone is being truthful or lying or misdirecting the conversation. This allows for empathy and understanding of our spouse\'s emotions as well.</b> It allows you to know when your partner says: \"I\'m fine...\". And you know that it isn\'t true.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">One might think that if we are all able to do this, then wouldn\'t relationships be easy and people would just get along. Why would couples argue so much if we can understand each other so well? <b>The answer is that we don\'t always like what we understand from each other. Sometimes it\'s because we don\'t like being vulnerable or that our lover knows things we want to hide.</b> But if we can mind-track, how can we hide things from each other, you say? This is where <b>mind-masking </b>comes into play and complicates things a little bit.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Mind-Masking: You Can\'t See Me!</h4>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mind-masking is developed when we learn it from other people, mostly family dynamics. We understand at a young age that there are things we can do, say and think, but other times we cannot. We learn in most societies and social interactions that vulnerability is a flaw that we must hide. Mind-masking allows partners to lie to each other without the other person knowing they are. <b>It also works when we want to pretend that we are not having <a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2014/03/different-levels-of-sexual-desire-between-partners-in-a-couple.html\">pity sex</a> (sex to avoid conflicts or hurting partner). Mind-masking is commonly known as the poker face!</b></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">This ability to mind-mask from others who are tracking us is a deceptive behaviour that we use to avoid conflicts that are getting too intense or when we want to get away with something we did. <b>We\'ve all done it before. You do something that has crossed the line and you know your partner won\'t like it. So you play dumb and pretend you didn\'t know it would bother them.</b> A classic example is one partner isn\'t feeling well, but they don\'t want to talk about it so they put on a happy face. They pretend to have an orgasm or they hide their frustration or disappointment from their spouse.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">A typical mind-masking behaviour when it comes to sex is when a partner starts to flirt with the other and they pretend not to understand what the other wants: To have sex. This leads us to the third mind-mapping ability which is <b>false belief implanting.</b></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div><b> </b></div>\r\n<div><b> </b></div>\r\n<div><b> </b></div>\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div><b> </b></div>\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b>False Belief Implanting: You Think you can see me!</b></h4>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">I know, I know, this is getting confusing and a bit diseasing. Most likely you are following me because you have the abilities that are being discussed in this article. <b>You\'ve either done it yourself before or you are thinking of ways your partner has been doing similar things. Now if you can think of situations where your partner has mind-masked, then you are also able to do it and most likely have done it in the past.</b></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">False belief implanting is pretty self-explanatory. It\'s when you can make your spouse think something is true when it isn\'t. Such as you not being able to mind-track or mind-mask them.<b> You implement the idea and they believe you. It now becomes part of your relationship dynamic, such as pretending you both don\'t understand each other or that you have \"communication issues\". </b> Men who have the <a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2014/12/nice-guy-syndrome.html#video2\">nice guy syndrome</a> are very good as implementing the idea that they are nice when it reality they are not. Women do it all the time as well. Whether you\'re a heterosexual, homosexual, transsexual or lesbian couple, you will most likely find false belief implanting dynamics.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">So many times in therapy, I have a couple where <a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2014/03/different-levels-of-sexual-desire-between-partners-in-a-couple.html\">one of the partners has a lower sexual desire than their spouse.</a> They have sex even when they don\'t have the desire for it because they don\'t want to say no again just to have their partner get angry for the 77th time about their sexual desires not being met.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2014/03/getting-yourself-together-promotes-sexual-desire.html\">The partner with the higher sexual desire </a>will blatantly lie in the therapy session saying they didn\'t know that the other wasn\'t that into it. <b>Only to have them confess minutes or sessions later, depending on how long they want to keep the false belief implanted, that they knew this all along.</b> They justify their actions by explaining they wouldn\'t have gotten what they wanted otherwise.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">The next mind-mapping ability is the most twisted of them all. So much so that it actually has the name for it: <b>Mind-twisting</b></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b> </b></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b> </b></div>\r\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b>Mind-Twisting: You\'ll Wish You Didn\'t See Me!</b></h4>\r\n<div><b> </b></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Still intrigued, are we? How far have you and your spouse fallen into to the downward cycle of <a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2014/04/unhealthy-couple-dynamics.html\">Normal Marital Sadism</a>? There are people who will go far to keep the upper hand in their relationship. <b>Who will manipulate to the point where they must crush or make their partner\'s feel bad about themselves so they don\'t have to own up to their mistakes and faults. </b>This may sound scary, but unfortunately and frequently long term couples do fall prey to the temptation of mind-twisting.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mind-twisting requires all three previous mind-mapping abilities to be able to pull it off. You must mind-track your partner, mind-mask yourself and implant the false belief into the other person. The twisting part comes when you are able to conclude the conflict by making your spouse believe that it was all their fault in the first place when in reality your the one who is in the wrongdoing.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Now, this type of behaviour cannot be solved by communication skills. No amount of sentences starting with \"I\" will save this relationship from self-imploding. Fortunately, there are ways you can get out of this. <a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2014/01/therapeutic-process-with-a-sex-therapist.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Therapy with a trained professional such as a sex therapist and psychotherapist</a> can help you. <b>It will require lots of self-confrontation and a hard look at the status of your relationship and your spouse. This is no small feat and will shatter your perception of your relationship. </b>This will test your capacity to hold onto yourself and strengthen your <a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2013/06/sexual-intimacy-sexual-desire-part-4.html\">emotional balance</a> and create a <a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2014/04/construct-a-healthier-couples-dynamic.html\">collaborative alliance </a>with your partner rather than having <a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2014/03/unhealthy-relationship-patterns.html\">no alliance</a>. This will push your limits which you didn\'t know existed to bring yourself and your lover to another level in your relationship.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b> </b></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Will you take the plunge?</b></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<h3 style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ending note</h3>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mind-mapping doesn\'t seem like a very useful ability to help couples in their relationships. It can seem as though it creates mistrust and cruel behaviours between people who at the basis are supposed to love each other. That is all true! But mind-mapping is also the way we are capable of connecting on a deeper more profound level with our partner. It <a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2016/07/getting-stuck-in-a-sexual-routine.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">makes sex way better</a> than just exchanging orgasms with another person.</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n\r\n<b>It is all a matter of how we decide we want to use mind-mapping. Do we want to be vulnerable and connected with each other or do we want to protect our ego and vanity? </b>You can only choose one of those two options, which is why so many couples hurt each other through mind-mapping rather than connect with one another.\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Want to know more?</h3>\r\n<div></div>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2016/08/getting-beyond-communication-issues.html\">Getting beyond communication issues: How mind-mapping makes your relationship and sex better</a></div>\r\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Previous article</h3>\r\n<div><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2016/08/getting-beyond-communication-issues.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">There is no such thing as a lack of communication: Honey...I just don\'t understand you</a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n\r\n<hr />\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\r\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-hkwcEustEO4/V6VEeliMAwI/AAAAAAAAA7Y/AJwphVNSI9MePYpL7j2GMkYPfl---AruACLcB/s1600/francois.jpg\"><img src=\"https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-hkwcEustEO4/V6VEeliMAwI/AAAAAAAAA7Y/AJwphVNSI9MePYpL7j2GMkYPfl---AruACLcB/s200/francois.jpg\" width=\"185\" height=\"200\" border=\"0\" /></a></div>\r\nLearn more about the author\r\n\r\n<a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.com/en/pages/about\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Francois Renaud M.A.</a>\r\n\r\n</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Sex therapist &amp; psychotherapist in Downtown Montreal</div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Want more articles like these? 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(336, 2, '2019-12-11 14:52:40', '2019-12-11 13:52:40', '<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=3518949513430806999#video16\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"> </span></a></div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2015/03/webseries-maintaining-sexual-desire-part-3.html#video16\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\">Patterns between Low Desire Partner &amp; High Desire Partner</span></a></div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2015/03/webseries-maintaining-sexual-desire-part-3.html#video17\">Different types of alliances in couples</a></span></div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"><a href=\"http://montreal.sexcoupletherapy.com/2015/03/webseries-maintaining-sexual-desire-part-3.html#video18\">Do you really want to change?</a></span></div>\nThere will always be a partner who<big style=\"background-color: white; color: #575757; font-family: verdana; line-height: 16.533332824707px; text-align: justify;\"></big><big style=\"background-color: white; color: #575757; font-family: verdana; line-height: 16.533332824707px; text-align: justify;\"></big><big style=\"background-color: white; color: #575757; font-family: verdana; line-height: 16.533332824707px; text-align: justify;\"></big> has more sexual desire than the other. 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Ch<big style=\"background-color: white; color: #575757; font-family: verdana; line-height: 16.533332824707px; text-align: justify;\"></big>anging our <big style=\"background-color: white; color: #575757; font-family: verdana; line-height: 16.533332824707px; text-align: justify;\"></big>relationship patterns is a hard thing to do. Nevertheless, the effort that is necessary to change can bring us great joy and closeness with our partner.\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup\"><form id=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" class=\"validate\" action=\"//sexcoupletherapy.us8.list-manage.com/subscribe/post?u=b99a753a12fded994c86ffc1d&amp;id=fd88d57b31\" method=\"post\" name=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" novalidate=\"novalidate\" target=\"_blank\">\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup_scroll\">\n<h2>Subscribe to our mailing list to receive notice of FREE videos on sexuality</h2>\n<div class=\"indicates-required\"><span class=\"asterisk\">*</span> indicates required</div>\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-EMAIL\">Email Address <span class=\"asterisk\">*</span>\n</label>\n<input id=\"mce-EMAIL\" class=\"required email\" name=\"EMAIL\" type=\"email\" value=\"\" /></div>\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-FNAME\">First Name </label>\n<input id=\"mce-FNAME\" name=\"FNAME\" type=\"text\" value=\"\" /></div>\n<div class=\"mc-field-group\"><label for=\"mce-LNAME\">Last Name </label>\n<input id=\"mce-LNAME\" name=\"LNAME\" type=\"text\" value=\"\" /></div>\n<div id=\"mce-responses\" class=\"clear\"></div>\n<!-- real people should not fill this in and expect good things - do not remove this or risk form bot signups-->\n<div style=\"left: -5000px; 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(133, 1, '2017-04-18 23:28:13', '2017-04-18 21:28:13', '<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.com/2014/10/webseries-art-of-seduction.html#video7\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\">7) Seduction &amp; body language</span></a></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.com/2014/10/webseries-art-of-seduction.html#video8\">8) Sexual &amp; Affectionate Seduction</a></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.com/2014/10/webseries-art-of-seduction.html#video9\">9) Masculinity &amp; femininity: Keys to Flirting</a></span></div>\r\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup\"><form id=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" class=\"validate\" action=\"//sexcoupletherapy.us8.list-manage.com/subscribe/post?u=b99a753a12fded994c86ffc1d&amp;id=1c8ad4cc63\" method=\"post\" name=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" novalidate=\"\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup_scroll\">\r\n<h2></h2>\r\n<span style=\"background-color: white; color: #575757; font-family: \'verdana\'; font-weight: normal; line-height: 16.533332824707px; text-align: justify;\">These 3 videos on seduction will capture the importance of body language to increases your flirting potential. 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text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">\r\n<h4>Learn how to flirt with your body language and the importance of keeping seduction in your couple</h4>\r\nHow do you use your body to seduce a partner?\r\nAre you afraid of being rejected?\r\nDo you still flirt and seduce your partner?\r\nWhat type of flirting turns you on?\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">\r\n<form action=\"https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr\" method=\"post\" target=\"_top\"><input name=\"cmd\" type=\"hidden\" value=\"_s-xclick\" />\r\n<input name=\"hosted_button_id\" type=\"hidden\" value=\"RWDSCPTUH69LN\" />\r\n<input alt=\"PayPal - The safer, easier way to pay online!\" name=\"submit\" src=\"https://www.paypalobjects.com/en_US/i/btn/btn_buynow_SM.gif\" type=\"image\" />\r\n<img src=\"https://www.paypalobjects.com/en_US/i/scr/pixel.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" /> 3 videos on seduction</form></div></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https://www.blogger.com/null\" name=\"video8\">8) Sexual &amp; 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(135, 1, '2017-04-18 23:31:52', '2017-04-18 21:31:52', '<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.com/2014/10/webseries-art-of-seduction.html#video7\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\">7) Seduction &amp; body language</span></a></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.com/2014/10/webseries-art-of-seduction.html#video8\">8) Sexual &amp; Affectionate Seduction</a></span></div>\r\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"><a href=\"http://sexcoupletherapy.blogspot.com/2014/10/webseries-art-of-seduction.html#video9\">9) Masculinity &amp; femininity: Keys to Flirting</a></span></div>\r\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup\"><form id=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" class=\"validate\" action=\"//sexcoupletherapy.us8.list-manage.com/subscribe/post?u=b99a753a12fded994c86ffc1d&amp;id=1c8ad4cc63\" method=\"post\" name=\"mc-embedded-subscribe-form\" novalidate=\"\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n<div id=\"mc_embed_signup_scroll\">\r\n<h2></h2>\r\n<span style=\"background-color: white; color: #575757; font-family: \'verdana\'; font-weight: normal; line-height: 16.533332824707px; text-align: justify;\">These 3 videos on seduction will capture the importance of body language to increases your flirting potential. 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