<h1> Are you emotionally intelligent?</h1>
Have you ever heard of emotional intelligence? You most likely are if you are capable of reading other people's emotions. Some people are just way better at it than others. This capacity is required if you want to have any type of profound or <strong>intimate moment</strong> with another person. It is required if you want to flirt or initiate sex with a partner. Without some form of emotional intelligence, our conversations would be completely rational and robotic, which is not the case for most people. Emotional intelligence is your capacity to <strong>mind-map</strong> a person and know their desires, intentions and emotions through their tone of voice, body language and facial expressions.

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<h2>The bad side of emotional intelligence</h2>
Unfortunately, emotional intelligence isn't always a good thing to have. If you use it with bad intentions, you can really hurt someone else. People who are highly intelligent when it comes to emotions can easily detect other people's weak spots and use it against them. You either know a person like that or you are a person like that or both. Which one is it for you? Have you ever been really mean to someone by using their insecurities against them? Do you know someone who does do that? Politicians, therapist, lawyers, police interrogators, narcissist, salesmen and others excel at reading others. Some use their emotional intelligence to help others and maintain healthy relationships. While others use it to their advantage to the detriment of the person they are using it against.
<h3>Emotional intelligence in a couple</h3>
We all have some form of emotional intelligence and we use it in our sex lives and romantic relationships with our spouse. Our emotional intelligence tends to be especially used when we are fighting or in a conflict with them. It allows us to understand how they feel when we say something that might be hurtful or nasty to them. They evaluate you and you evaluate them constantly while you are talking or arguing together. You can either use it to resolve the conflict and find a solution that works best for both or try to get your way and out-smart your lover. How do you use your emotional intelligence?

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<h2>What is emotional maturity, then?</h2>
Emotional maturity is a choice not a capacity. Either you choose to be mature or you don't. Emotional maturity is using your emotional intelligence to be a nice person.